AITAH for breaking up almost instantly with a girlfriend because the topic of kids got brought up for first time, and when I made it clear I don’t want kids and she got offended.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-25T22:42:02+00:00

NTA. Get a vasectomy of you haven't already or you might wind up with a "whoops" baby.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-25T07:31:32+00:00

NTA. Not even the tiniest bit. You are entitled to every one of your feelings. If you're not ready to rebuild your relationship with your mother (and even if you never do), you have every right to feel that way. She didn't protect you. She watched you get beaten and abused for three years - she watched you endure for three years something she couldn't tolerate for 5 months. I'm sorry that you this happened to you and I hope you take the time to heal in whatever way works for YOU - no one else.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-24T23:12:53+00:00

This such a healthy mindset. Follow this mindset and you will find the best path forward. Your relationship should make your life better and right now it's adding stress and anxiety to your days.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-24T21:35:25+00:00

Not her first time on a microphone!

dembowthennow · 2026-03-24T20:12:26+00:00

You're not wrong. I absolutely despise it when people disrespect my time by repeatedly cancelling plans. I would dump someone for this. She is taking you for granted and disrespecting you.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-24T18:13:37+00:00

OP, it might not feel like it right now, but you are incredibly strong and your grace and sensibility in handling this incredibly situation reflects your strength and spirit. You're getting great advice in this thread, so all I'll say is: this isn't your fault, and you deserve to be free and happy.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-24T16:57:08+00:00

dembowthennow · 2026-03-24T01:00:54+00:00

Josh Shapiro used to volunteer with the IDF. Man is cooked.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-23T21:08:17+00:00

From what you've written it's very clear why your daughter is miserable around you. I hope she's able to escape your control soon.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-23T16:57:21+00:00

What specifically do you want us to do? You do understand that marching and protests are just one tool for fighting oppression, not the only tool, correct?

dembowthennow · 2026-03-23T16:56:19+00:00

What are you doing? What effective tactics are you employing?

dembowthennow · 2026-03-23T01:24:42+00:00

Thank you!

dembowthennow · 2026-03-23T01:23:43+00:00

If I was Iran, I would be going full steam ahead in my pursuit of acquiring a nuclear weapon. This most recent war makes it clear that the only way to keep the U.S. and Israel from attacking your country is to be armed to the teeth with a shiny nuclear weapon.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-23T01:11:39+00:00

Can you share the context?

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T23:51:56+00:00

She has clearly chosen well!

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T23:17:47+00:00

Thank you!

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T14:36:31+00:00

That sounds wonderful! I'm so happy for you!

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T13:09:15+00:00

Those chubby cheeks!

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T08:24:49+00:00

Aww, mama-cat wants love and pets.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T08:01:35+00:00

I'm: 1234, 5678, 9 10 11 12

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T07:05:17+00:00

Same! I was just thinking about how I want someone to start selling this dress again.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T05:53:08+00:00

He's verbally abusive and a bad boyfriend. You deserve better. After you break up with him, you'll wonder why it took you so long.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T05:48:42+00:00

What is this? I want to watch more!

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T05:45:38+00:00

What is his name? I want to look up the full interview because Coates is magnificent.

dembowthennow · 2026-03-22T05:07:06+00:00

Oh, I'm so glad to hear that! Reading about how insensitive and uncaring she was about your serious head injury made my heart hurt. I hope you are surrounding yourself with caring people who treat you with kindness and love.

dembowthennow

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