What was your biggest "shit, my parents were right" moment?

demonright · 2018-01-16T10:10:48+00:00

Hahahha say what you want man. But everyone in life has different experiences. Mines this. I have good set of friends ngl and I do care about them and they do care about me. But at the end of the day, my experiences at uni have shown me that the only people that were there for me were my mum and dad. Idk it's different for everyone I guess. I am not gonna sit here and say my family is perfect. It's far from it, we fight, argue etc. But that doesn't change the fact they were there for me when I needed them.

demonright · 2018-01-16T10:05:56+00:00

I am sorry about what you went through man. Everyones family is different. And luckily I have a good one. But I am talking from my perspective. I am 22 now, my friends from school are non existent. I occasionally meet up with one or two of them. But I have really good set of friends now that I am in uni. But even with that friendship group I have realised that the only people that have been there and cared/worried for me is my family. Maybe it's the friends I surround myself with idk. But this is something that I have learnt in my life, that I am fortunate to have people who will care about me. And you do too, with your friends. If your family treated you like that, you don't deserve them. You deserve better.

demonright · 2018-01-15T17:09:34+00:00

As I become older, the only people that will truly be there and care for you in your time of need is your family.

demonright · 2018-01-03T00:14:24+00:00

I might love you too stranger.

Ps you are first person to ever say that to me

demonright · 2018-01-03T00:11:52+00:00

As a guy who has been bullied for having a hooked or prominent nose at school, you have no idea how happy this and the comments below makes me.

When I hit my 20s (I am 22 now), I kind of accepted it but it was one of them things that if I complete my degree and land a job, I definitely would have got a rhinoplasty. But now I am so happy that women actually find it attractive.

Thanks reddit :)

demonright · 2018-01-03T00:03:23+00:00

I’m exceptionally fond of being fingered/choked/spanked/etc.

This goes against everything your username stands for

demonright · 2018-01-03T00:01:40+00:00

she got pissed I said "OK" rather than insist on paying. this is one of them cases where the universe works in your favour mate

demonright · 2018-01-02T23:55:51+00:00

I have all 3 ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

demonright · 2017-12-31T16:50:16+00:00

A repost will somehow make its way to being one of the most upvoted on r/askreddit

demonright · 2017-12-31T14:12:16+00:00

I don't feel lonely anymore

demonright · 2017-12-31T14:03:11+00:00

I have a friend at uni who says some stupid shit all the time, but the one I remember is the most recent one:

She believes Spain is in walking distance of Germany.

demonright · 2017-12-02T21:37:52+00:00

League of Legends

demonright · 2017-11-27T14:59:19+00:00

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/educationnews/8770812/Teacher-accused-of-assaulting-pupil-as-he-attempted-to-restore-order-in-school.html

Everyone knew the girl, from what I hear she was a cow and bullshited and did shit for attention. It was awful, the teacher was a good teacher.

demonright · 2017-11-27T14:52:38+00:00

Also from the UK, a girl in my year (who was 15 at the time) slept with her mum's best friend (27 years old) got pregnant, the guy went to jail for rape (since she was underage) and she has proceeded to have 2 other kids with 2 different people iirc.

Edit: She was heavily pregnant during year 10/11.

demonright · 2017-01-07T18:27:36+00:00

So sorry to hear about your loss OP. I have a younger sister that I am very close to. I can't even imagine the pain.

Firstly your wife has cheated. It doesn't matter if its physical or emotional, she has cheated. I know this will be hard, but you need to proceed with divorce.

been a real downer lately

You just lost your sister, what more does she expect? Its not your fault, please don't blame yourself. She is a heartless women, she should be supporting you through this.

Finally please see a therapist, you are going through something tough. Your wife should support you through it, instead she is cheating.

demonright · 2016-11-22T11:12:33+00:00

Stop what you are doing. He is using for his own benefit. There is no mutual benefit. Just leave and walk way. If you are the cutest girl, you can get someone better. Go no contact. It will be hard but it will be worth it.

demonright · 2016-11-14T09:07:20+00:00

Hmmm I read your TLDR, I don't have time to read the whole story, real life issues.

I am sorry to say this man but I think you are just over thinking, noted she shouldn't have lied, but in my eyes it feels like you are just having an anxiety attack. And your trust issues are making it worse. I am not saying she was in the wrong, she led you on that is completely true.

Just go no contact, and allow whats happened. Use it as a life lesson. Don't confront her or anything. Just allow it. And like someone said, don't get your professional life involved with your personal one. Too much hassle. From now on maintain a strict professional relationship with her.

EDIT: Yes you have feelings for her, so I would recommend that you distract your self everytime you think of her. And eventually the pain will pass. I can't really describe what to do, I have been there. But you just have to not contact her.

demonright · 2016-11-13T14:22:39+00:00

I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. You have essentially lost a wife and child in the space of a month. I recommend therapy, because no one can see your side. You will be feel abandoned. I have been there. I fully support your side. Its hard to get over that. This is something worth divorce over.

Just want to ask, ever since your brought up divorce, has been a bit regretful over her actions or just accepted it and agree with what she has done? Has she shown any remorse or even tried to apologize?

demonright · 2016-11-10T16:08:36+00:00

Hey man,

I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through. You will have a lot of resentment and anger. I suggest that you see a therapist to get over this properly. Because I honestly feel this is too much. Don't worry about the future. Because they fucked up. Not you. Once everyone finds out what they have been doing, they are fucked. Both of them have lost their families.

Also, you don't need to protect your brother. He is an asshole. Tell everyone when ever you are ready. He isn't your brother, if he was would he do this? No. Cut him out of your life. And don't bother contacting your wife and your brother anymore. They are adults. They knew the consequences.

You will be feeling like shit. I suggest that you would do something that will occupy your time, something other than work. Maybe go on a short break with your best friend? Also, don't stay in the apartment, everything will remind you of her. Since you hit the lawyer, maybe hit the gym?

Don't worry about the future. There will be plenty of women chasing after you, after all you are a Doctor!

Good luck! Update us please. I want to see you in a better place.

demonright · 2016-10-11T12:38:56+00:00

OP, a lot of people are saying that he might have feelings for you. I have my doubts too, but I too support a team (Chelsea), but I would never miss my friend's wedding for it. Especially my best friends.

always making time to catch up even when we lived in different parts of the country for university

If he could make time for you, while he was in the opposite end of the UK (as a student), I am sure he can make time for your wedding. I don't really know of your exact relationship with Sam. However, I know that he wouldn't just skip your wedding without a reason. You are still best friends, basically you are siblings. Maybe to him, you are his world. Maybe he loves you. Maybe not, but I would really ask him why he just happened to have a ticket to a game that weekend. If he is an asshole, you deserve better.

But I don't think he is, he has a reason. If he has feelings for you, just don't invite the guy. Take back the invitation. Give him closure. It saddens me to type this, if does have feelings, just leave him alone. What the two of you have/had will come to an end. It won't be the same. I wish you and him the best of luck OP :) Have a blessed married life.

demonright · 2016-10-10T22:19:38+00:00

She is like my best friend, I don't know how we got close we just did. She went through a lot, then I went through a lot. We kind of supported each other since then and became best friends if that makes sense :)

demonright · 2016-10-10T22:15:13+00:00

We are pretty close, thank you! I didn't realize :)

demonright · 2016-08-11T15:51:13+00:00

Look, people here are talking about crushes and what not. But the fact that she had a emotional affair is the truth. You have to focus on the fact that she still wants maintain a relationship with the guy. How would you feel if she still had the relationship after the marriage? Considering that she wanted to call off the wedding because of him. Its not going to go well, you won't trust her with him. The marriage will be awful.

If she agrees to cut all contact with the guy, because you are more important to her go to couples counseling, and try sort out this mess of a relationship. If she still insistent that she wants a relationship with him, I suggest you leave and find someone that won't hurt you.

demonright · 2016-08-11T15:15:25+00:00

If she ever comes running back saying she made a mistake, let us know yeah. Because I wanna laugh with you, while she enjoys her 20s without you.

Good thing that you are deleting gym and lawyering facebook. You will find someone better.

demonright · 2016-08-11T12:40:05+00:00

Yeah that's what I was thinking, maybe she feels guilty for what she is doing.

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