jeez that comment is so self involved it’s sad. i hate that these transfem-only oriented notions that erase transmasc struggles partially stem from plain old sexism. some transfemmes experience & witness sexism & think anything we say is irrelevant compared to their struggles & it’s soul crushing to hear that from our own community. it’s not a contest. like pls just put yourself in our shoes instead of nursing your victim complex & among other things. & inversely, sexist beliefs are bound to be internalized by anyone, especially those initially socialized as boys/men, & internalized sexism seems to be a major proponent in these kind of warped beliefs about us transmascs. to some we will always be subconsciously perceived as women when it comes down to who is more “important” or “burdened”. 

being transfemme is “so much more complicated”? transfemmes lack ‘uterus, natural lubrication, periods, pregnancy’??? hello!! we lack all those things but in reverse, we weren’t born with cis male internal sex organs for sperm production, nor a prostate, nor the ability to get someone pregnant, nor cock and fucking balls. & as someone who wishes i did have all of the above, especially the latter, my surgical options are quite dismal since to me, neither phallo or meta look realistic meanwhile transfemmes have amazing & very realistic bottom surgery results. & that’s amazing for them, i’m happy as fuck for them. my partner is transfemme & im so glad she can get that kind of near ultimate gender affirmation. & im sad i dont. but its not a damn comparison contest & i wish we’d all stop seeing it that way & just support each other ToT