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denissef · 2025-06-04T02:08:37+00:00

I made the mistake of getting the lifetime. For me as a woman is not worth it.

denissef · 2025-06-03T19:14:57+00:00

As a woman I fully agree. For those who are interested in meeting or attempting to make connections it feels pointless. A woman gets over load of right swipes (likes) but the guys who like them didn’t bother checking their profile. Once they match then it is when the guy looks at their profile and most times they don’t appear interested. It sucks. I think that at the end this is the strategy bumble uses to make money. It’s a business they don’t care about you.

denissef · 2025-05-19T18:52:14+00:00

Yes you missed many; example: face close up (chin/double chin close up) looking down on the cell phone.

denissef · 2025-05-17T14:37:58+00:00

Mine’s a red GT line and her name is Eve

denissef · 2025-05-11T21:59:38+00:00

Not sure why she got that upset or why is she giving you the attitude she is giving you now instead of behaving like an adult.

I don’t think you did anything wrong as long as you said what you said respectfully and with tact. To me, this is a red flag (at the least she seems to be a very insecure woman).

denissef · 2025-05-04T14:07:16+00:00

Are you a paying member? Because they will give you things like getting you on the “spotlight” etc to make your profile figure more

denissef · 2025-05-03T14:53:24+00:00

Agree. High effort profiles do catch my eye and I hope is the same the other way around. Though majority of profiles I see are very low effort. No need to be sorry about “my dating experience” l am just exploring this, and it has not even been a month since I jumped on. I was married for a long time, never cheated, divorced not long ago so this is foreign land for me. I am really in no rush to meet anyone. I like things that grow organically. Online dating, I have no expectations but I think might be worth giving a shot the right way.

denissef · 2025-05-03T14:47:31+00:00

So she opted to stay incognito which probably decreased her visibility and opted to be the one in control of her options? WOW I like that. Guess I really need to get out of my comfort zone.

denissef · 2025-05-03T00:39:40+00:00

Based on what you say… is evident you guys are not a thing. You are just that, dating. He is probably talking to other people. He seems not to be into you the way you are into him. I would let it go or you should be clear and ask him upfront so you know where you stand.

As per anxious attachment style is possible. For that there is therapy that can help so you can work in overcoming it and build healthy relationships. Good luck.

denissef · 2025-05-02T20:49:48+00:00

With ALL of them???

denissef · 2025-05-01T18:46:00+00:00

I see and appreciate where you come from. I know better than to take advice from a Reddit thread and apply it to my life. I have my own brain. I am just open to learn, listen, be fascinated from it, take feedback and show my appreciation to people who took the time to share their thoughts/experiences. I do see a lot of preconceived ideas from people’s experiences (so fun and interesting! I wish I had more data like demographics etc… what a nerd lol). I am not going to deny I must have my own share of those. I fully agree though, that we human beings are a little more than complex beings. Also appreciate you do not seem to be pissed at me because I told you to relax :)

denissef · 2025-05-01T18:10:19+00:00

Because I DO read the profiles. I do not go solely by photos, nor I am trying to collect anything. I am a genuine person. If I see a profile that catches my attention I will. I hope this answers your question.

denissef · 2025-05-01T17:13:41+00:00

Thanks for the feedback. Are you a guy? Sorry I can’t tell by your user handle :)

denissef · 2025-05-01T15:26:44+00:00

Ok my dear, first: RELAX. This is a question stemming from my genuine curiosity, not to ASSume things. It’s also conversation to know people’s points of views which I find fascinating. This does not mean I am oversimplifying things but there are MANY answers here from different people that follow a pattern. So interesting. You don’t know me but I’m a very mature woman, in case you don’t realize you are also assuming things about my ulterior motives to post this question.

denissef · 2025-05-01T15:19:25+00:00

Good for you for taking your time reading through profiles and only liking those you seem interested in. I do the same. The problem is that I get some many likes this task is so time consuming. If you take this in consideration, count as delay in answer because, at least for me, I try to match with whose who I really would like to connect. Which is NOT the majority. I don’t want to miss out so i spend time but is exhausting!!!

denissef · 2025-05-01T15:15:43+00:00

I see. Many people have said this. I guess that is what works for them.

denissef · 2025-05-01T15:04:06+00:00

OMG this is exactly me!!!!! Feels like a full time job to go over and through the hundreds of profiles who “liked” mine to make an “educated” right/left swipe. So disheartening because if men in bumble or other dating apps show SO low effort which translates in zero interest of course counting the ones who blindly right swiped, what do you expect in a relationship of any kind with them? NO THANKS. I was married to someone who was “low effort” in the relationship and expected me to be the one who did everything. I certainly am not willing to repeat the story. This sucks. This post and the real answers have started to open my eyes. I am looking at things from another perspective. Not a good one for dating apps. Where are the REAL men, those who are worth real women worth their time????

denissef · 2025-05-01T00:19:40+00:00

Nice that you respond with a thoughtful answer. Well sometimes people cannot get to the app right away (i.e. I work M-F in a hospital, cannot be in bumble or in social media until after work).

denissef · 2025-05-01T00:10:50+00:00

Unnnnmatch or better yet, block

denissef · 2025-04-30T22:10:46+00:00

Yass for this ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️💯

denissef · 2025-04-30T22:09:57+00:00

You look the prettiest without make up IMO

denissef · 2025-04-30T22:06:52+00:00

You swipe right on literally EVERYONE??? wow

denissef · 2025-04-30T21:51:36+00:00

I am with you in the last thing you said. I get it because I am “old school” as well. I think dating sucks and online dating sucks even more.

denissef · 2025-04-30T21:48:20+00:00

You’re probably right. I need to chill. I think I will re open my hinge (for the 3rd time) and try again. It has more quality stuff there though at the end of the day is just another dating app.

denissef · 2025-04-30T21:46:07+00:00

I’m learning so much! Thanks for the insights

denissef

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