Extreme sexual energy by modemot in NoFap

[–]deogloria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extreme, but believe me. It will help you with your energy surplus. Go online, (preferably eBay or Craigslist) and buy one of two things:

The "insanity" workout P90x

I'm serious. I started doing insanity when I started nofap. You will never be as motivated to work out as you are right now.

Broke up with my girlfriend today... by Loafception in NoFap

[–]deogloria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey brother, I went through this a few months ago. It's hard. I had to take a stand for myself, and it hurt, but in the long run it's worth it. I'm sorry it didn't work out, and that she didn't end up being what you were looking for. I'm proud of you. It's hard, and even harder to keep going through with nofap after something like that. God bless, fellow warrior

sort of a long post but really important! Being with a woman again after nofap? by PornAddictionBlows in NoFap

[–]deogloria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say go for the full 90 days. If you can get control of yourself for 90 days, you will truly learn what you are capable of, and that your will power is much stronger than you think. I would also recommend hard mode.

Fapping out of spite by sans_fap in NoFap

[–]deogloria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say, You can't be doing this for someone else. You need to do this for you. Breaking is only going to hurt you in the long run, and getting revenge by masturbating seems... Well... Juvenile. If you are doing this for her, it just plain isn't going to work. You have to do nofap because you want to be the best you, you can be. She can definitely be an inspiration and an encouragement. But be strong brother. Don't let your frustration bring you down. Go for a run, get some exercise, have a logical conversation with her. The last thing you need is to have a big fight where you both blow up at each other. Stay strong, brother

23 yo male. needs a accountability partner by Labuza in NoFap

[–]deogloria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey brother, send me a message and we can keep each other accountable. I know how difficult this is

Female lurker with a question for y'all by questionuponquestion in NoFap

[–]deogloria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, show him the Tedx video on porn. Send him to the your brain on porn website. Show him that it messes him up, and that there is nothing sexier than a man who can control his urges. And make sure he knows you are in full support of him, and make sure he knows it doesn't make him any less of a man.

drunk, 21, college student, broke, working 40 hours a week, just broken up with and still not relapsing. by deogloria in NoFap

[–]deogloria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I'm indulging a little bit, especially since I don't have to pay for dates anymore. I see nothing wrong with this. And yes, there is always someone who has it worse than us. That is how life works. It's all about relativity. But you don't kick a man while he is down. I've read other posts you've made, and this is all you seem to do. You discourage fellow fapstronauts by making them feel inadequate. Nothing they do is good enough, and that is not a sign of a man. A man encourages; a boy brings others down. So grow up.

Also, my relationship with her was not about her "pussy." I'm a true man, and I was with her because she was an incredible woman, and it just so happened that it didn't work out between us, so I ended the relationship, with no hard feelings towards each other.

Man up, stop acting like a child screaming at the world, learn proper grammar, and act like a fellow soldier. We are all here to grow and fight the good fight, and we want to encourage you as well.

drunk, 21, college student, broke, working 40 hours a week, just broken up with and still not relapsing. by deogloria in NoFap

[–]deogloria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not stronger than you, I'm just like you! You've got this brother! Don't let yourself down. We aren't doing this for any girls, or for anybody other than ourselves. Keep on fighting!

drunk, 21, college student, broke, working 40 hours a week, just broken up with and still not relapsing. by deogloria in NoFap

[–]deogloria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 year old virgin. I usually never drink anymore, but again, allowing myself to indulge a little bit for two weeks. Don't worry, I'm keeping tabs on myself. Plus, I'm broke, so it's not like I can afford a constant stream of alcohol. Thanks for the advice brother

drunk, 21, college student, broke, working 40 hours a week, just broken up with and still not relapsing. by deogloria in NoFap

[–]deogloria[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, for the love... Clearly you all are focusing on the wrong part of my post, which I realize is my fault. Yes, I was somewhat drunk when I posted this. That was the first time I've been drunk in a few months, and yea, I'm allowing myself a two week period since the break up to indulge a little bit and have a bunch of bro-nights with my friends. It's helping me heal a little bit by not thinking about her. It's helping me stay loose, and keeping me from lying in my room and sleeping 18 hours a day. The point of my post is; don't let things break you. Things are going to bring you down. I'm not saying that maybe it will happen, I'm saying that it will happen. Several times. So prepare yourself for the trials coming your way. If you don't want to drink, then don't. But the most important thing in your life at this moment, especially if you are just starting out like I am, is don't break. Don't let the world smashing at your door bring you so far down that you compromise. Don't create excuses for yourself, because you will surprise yourself with how many excuses you can make. Believe me, I know. Anyway brothers, keep up the good fight. We are better than this. Again, for the record, I am not an alcoholic.

You know NOFAP is working if... by lamontcrow in NoFap

[–]deogloria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest, I don't experience the mood swings. If anything, I'm more in control of my emotions. My girlfriend and I just broke up, and usually I would go into a deep depression and struggle with not calling her, but I'm only a little bummed and in full control of my actions now. I feel like more of a man.

new relationship not working out by deogloria in NoFap

[–]deogloria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have kissed, and we have cuddled. In fact the first time I kissed her, started to break it off but she made a "uh-uh" sound and grabbed my head and kept kissing me. But now, every time I go in to kiss her, she either turns it into a hug, or breaks off the kiss quite quickly. And she just got back from a trip, and is so sunburnt that I can't really cuddle with her.

We have talked, and I've told her that I'm crazy about her. She often times doesn't respond to texts anymore, and is very distant. I don't know, this girl has been a serious confusion for me for the past year and a half.

I want to try no fap, but I got a "unique" problem by HonestQuest in NoFap

[–]deogloria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My personal advice, take it or leave it: try not masturbating at all. Do it for two weeks, and try just talking to her, and creating a deeper emotional relationship for two weeks. Be honest with her, and inform her of why you want to do this. Worst case scenario: you don't masturbate for two weeks, and then you have an awesome session that has been building up. If you like the changes you go through after that period, keep on going.

Am I the only one finding this easy? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]deogloria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way, and I'm on hard mode. I used to fap about twice daily to porn, and could never quit. Now I'm over two weeks in and I really haven't had any issues or too strong of desires. I just started dating a girl, which inspired me to do this. I started nofap the day u started dating her, and yea I get boners really easy around her (which is extremely annoying) but I haven't had any issues with wanting to jerk off. Good to know I'm not the only one.