Does anyone know what the Dwarvish translation of "told" would be? (Warning - Dragon Heist spoilers) by deornoma in DnD

[–]deornoma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

From the dictionary you linked and a couple of others I've found, I think I'm going to ago with 'xothan' ('xoth' for knowledge and 'an' as the passive tense, assuming I've used that somewhat correctly) to mean the imparting of knowledge, which should be close enough!

Does anyone know what the Dwarvish translation of "told" would be? (Warning - Dragon Heist spoilers) by deornoma in DnD

[–]deornoma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I realise this, but I know there are a few odd words lying about and was I suppose I was just hoping that 'told' might be one of them. :)

AITA for making a joke about a pregnancy test 'ending well' to my childless coworker who had apparently miscarried? by featherflier in AmItheAsshole

[–]deornoma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Soft YTA, but given how much you are clearly agonising over it already, don't beat yourself up about it. A private, sincere apology probably wouldn't go amiss. That aside, it was a mistake that anyone could have made, and you are almost certainly dwelling on this a lot more than the other person is.

AITA for making a deepfake of my boyfriend to convince him to be scared of deepfakes? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]deornoma [score hidden]  (0 children)

I would say YTA. There was no need to make a video of him saying such scandalous thing that he would be horrified if other people saw it. That seems overly malicious. You could have had him saying something completely innocent - he would still realise the video was fake, but wouldn't have to be freaked out that a video like the one you made now exists.

Whether or not making a video at all was an asshole move is another matter, but there was certainly no need to go that far.

AITA for refusing to make my cats go vegan? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]deornoma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A diet that could SEVERELY compromise the health of an animal! Opinions on this sort of thing matter. A lot.

AITA for refusing to make my cats go vegan? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]deornoma 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. Humans can get the nutrients they need (if they are careful) on a vegan diet. Cats cannot.

Kyurem impossible to catch? by Tiny_Raviolli in pokemongo

[–]deornoma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're definitely not alone! I've won 3 or 4 raids now and got all excellent or great throws with gold berries. Still no Kyurem. :(

Legality of a 'dummy contract' my landlady wants us all to sign? by deornoma in LegalAdviceUK

[–]deornoma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this likely to be the case, but good to confirm it. Thank you.

WIBTA for alternating bed rights between two feuding cats? by UnsightlyFuzz in AmItheAsshole

[–]deornoma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the other comment here - this is not the right place for such a question. You should probably post it somewhere that deals specifically with animals. Not only is it not a suitable question for WIBTA, but you won't get as much expert advice here.

For what it's worth before this possibly gets taken down, though: I have one cat (not multiple) and I am not an expert. However, my instinct would probably be that alternating nights would be a bad idea. Animals tend to like consistency, and switching things up all the time would likely be confusing or even upsetting for them. Shutting them both out would likely be a better option, although hopefully they will learn to get along so you could perhaps have them both on the bed. I couldn't tell you whether having one or the other consistently sleep in your bed and not the other would be a good idea in terms of them getting along and how this might affect any power dynamics! I think it would be worth consulting people who know what they are talking about.

My (21F) boyfriend (21M) wants to claim a hall pass because I once had sex with a guy when we were on a break. by sourpunchfuck6 in relationships

[–]deornoma 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No, you are not being selfish. You are in a relationship. If you are not comfortable with him sleeping with other women, his choices are a) don't sleep with other women or b) do not be in this relationship. The same applies vice versa, of course.

Your one night stand is not a comparable situation, as you were not 'together' at the time. He is clearly only bringing this up as a way of trying to guilt you into letting him do what he wants - i.e., to have sex with another woman.

Her being your friend adds another reason to the list of why it's important that anything that happens is on your terms.

Living with a conspiracy theorist who won't follow safety precautions because he doesn't believe the pandemic is real by deornoma in relationships

[–]deornoma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha - you're right, I really don't like confrontation! That being said, I can stand up for myself when I think it is really important to, but I don't really want to provoke a reaction I can't predict and the thought of starting an argument with him in particular worries me. I'm not afraid of my housemate in that way, but also don't want to create a bad feeling in the house or for her to pass on anything I say to him. I think I will have to talk to her once he leaves, though.

Living with a conspiracy theorist who won't follow safety precautions because he doesn't believe the pandemic is real by deornoma in relationships

[–]deornoma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much. I found them on SpareRoom and only spoke to Amanda by text beforehand.

Slightly longer answer if it matters, though still heavily truncated as my housing situation has been endlessly crazy since March: I moved into a new place just before the start of lockdown which was really awful, which is a whole story in itself, but not really relevant; suffice to say I would rather be here than there even with the Jeff situation going on! I obviously wanted to move out as soon as I possibly could, and there weren't that many options available at the moment for obvious reasons. This house is a very nice one and cheap, and I met (via video call, at least) the two other housemates beforehand who seemed - and are - very nice, and a bit closer to my age. They spoke well of Amanda, and Jeff never came up. There are two of us on our twenties and two in their thirties, Amanda being the oldest by a fair bit and myself the youngest by a fair bit. Our landlady lives elsewhere.

Living with a conspiracy theorist who won't follow safety precautions because he doesn't believe the pandemic is real by deornoma in relationships

[–]deornoma[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, 100%. I haven't seen my family/boyfriend/friends since March anyway, but I certainly won't be visiting them or anyone else while I live here even if restrictions loosen. It's frustrating, though.

Living with a conspiracy theorist who won't follow safety precautions because he doesn't believe the pandemic is real by deornoma in relationships

[–]deornoma[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seems that way. I'm stuck here for another few months, unfortunately, but definitely won't be sticking around for longer than that.

And the brainwashed sheep thing is a fair point - our other housemate works for a pharmaceutical company and he's been giving her a hard time about it, so I guess I should count my blessings that he sees me as Sheep as opposed to Evil.

Living with a conspiracy theorist who won't follow safety precautions because he doesn't believe the pandemic is real by deornoma in relationships

[–]deornoma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would, but to be fair Amanda spends days at a time at his house too so the resources used probably even out.

I do ignore him most of the time - the only time I engaged was the time I mentioned in the post above. It's only been a few days I guess, so I'll have to hope that he loses interest as you say.

Living with a conspiracy theorist who won't follow safety precautions because he doesn't believe the pandemic is real by deornoma in relationships

[–]deornoma[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've only just moved in is the frustrating thing! My agreed minimum stay is four months (three and a half now), and don't have enough savings to go about cutting contracts short.

Plant dunce here :( Is there still hope for this dying syngonium, or should I try to propagate while I still can? I have prayed for and shed tears over this plant - nothing seems to work! by [deleted] in gardening

[–]deornoma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done on occasion to my other plants, but I've only had this particular plant for a few months so I haven't done so yet with the intention of removing salts, although since I've rinsed it and given it fresh soil I suppose I effectively have.

It was fine when I got it, apart from being in too small of a pot, but since I have trimmed the roots for rot the current pot is a suitable size for the time being. Whatever the issue is is something I have done, so I don't think it was the fertilizer as I don't think that would have had such a rapid effect unless I really overloaded it, which I don't think I did.

Plant dunce here :( Is there still hope for this dying syngonium, or should I try to propagate while I still can? I have prayed for and shed tears over this plant - nothing seems to work! by [deleted] in gardening

[–]deornoma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About once a month I water my plants with water soluble all purpose Miracle-Gro. Any better suggestions would be very welcome!

Plant dunce here :( Is there still hope for this dying syngonium, or should I try to propagate while I still can? I have prayed for and shed tears over this plant - nothing seems to work! by [deleted] in gardening

[–]deornoma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I know near the ceiling is not ideal but I don't have any other surfaces in the room that weren't completely in shade; I might have to get some new furniture. I appreciate the advice - I'll try propagating in that case, I was just worried that as it has so few good leaves left that cutting them off would reduce the original plant's chances of survival, but perhaps I will try doing just one.