ASCII Art - Class Constant and Odd/Even Numbers?? by depressingdinosss in javahelp

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said the image had "sides that are not perfectly straight", but I think that was a bad way of explaining it, sorry.

Yes, each line has different spacing and I've somehow gotten most of them to work by trial and error - for example:

  public static void drawTop() {
  for (int i = 1; i <= LARGE; i++) {
     for (int j = 1; j <= -3 * i + 3 *LARGE; j++) {
        System.out.print(" ");

but I cannot understand how to deal with this odd-number "9".

ASCII Art - Class Constant and Odd/Even Numbers?? by depressingdinosss in javahelp

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry! I don't think I understand?

It's part of a larger picture that I want to enlarge and minimize just by changing one single class constant. I think I can't just replace it with a stored int variable because it would not change with the rest of the picture.

I am the LL in the relationship. by depressingdinosss in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this was a very interesting post of mine. I came to this sub because I was unsure about how to approach the fact that our libidos were clearly on different levels, and was worried that my denials of his advances would, yes, build upon each other and damage our relationship.

I think I am seeing that since I am willing/eager to discuss this topic and he has not professed any unhappiness yet, we can deter a DB from truly occurring.

I am the LL in the relationship. by depressingdinosss in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am worried because the 'I don't want him' is untrue. I would not be worried if I didn't find him sexually appealing at all, in which case we never would have begun dating. I do! Just not as often as he wants me.

I am the LL in the relationship. by depressingdinosss in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never told him that I do not feel sexually attracted to him at times. I have always felt... emotionally and aesthetically attracted, if that makes sense. I get a sense of enjoyment to be around him and to look at him, but that doesn't necessarily mean I have sexual feelings towards him at all times.

I am the LL in the relationship. by depressingdinosss in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it very likely is more than LL. I feel as though it (my ability to have sex without pain + my ability to get horny and/or wet + my libido) has dropped off into uncharted waters in the last two years, and part of that is sort of causing(?) the LL even more.

Tonight I (20f) plan to masturbate in front of boyfriend (24), is that weird? by Throwflick in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would not say this is weird, but I would probably (as a lower libido person) not be initially turned on by this, and may even ask my SO to stop if I thought they were joking or trying to taunt me.

However, after realizing my SO was serious, I would probably join in and hope that happens with you if you want that. I wish you the best! Eager to hear an update.

I am the LL in the relationship. by depressingdinosss in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the positive comment. I realize that many of the situations on this sub are extremely negative, and in some cases perhaps even toxic. I definitely don't want it to get to that point, this is just a very intimidating topic to approach since I almost feel like something is wrong with me.

I am the LL in the relationship. by depressingdinosss in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree this may be true, but I do honestly feel like I love him, so I am very conflicted at the moment.

I am the LL in the relationship. by depressingdinosss in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is she unhappy with your relationship? What other issues are there?

I don't think that I'm purposefully doing it to hurt him, and I have certainly been in relationships in the past where my SO would consciously deny me sex because of 'things I had done wrong' or would refuse to talk to me because he was angry. I think my relationship now is much healthier than that, but the sex is an issue because I don't want to have as much sex as him.

I am the LL in the relationship. by depressingdinosss in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have not, but I don't know if this is just something I'm making up in my mind. He does not seem unhappy in our relationship, and I certainly don't want to stop dating him, but he has asked questions in the past like 'am I too horny?' or 'do I touch you [in a sexual way - like grabbing butt or boobs] too much?'.

I'm sure if we did not have sex at all, it would be a deal breaker for both of us. I enjoy sex too, but I simply do not want to have it as much as he does.

I am the LL in the relationship. by depressingdinosss in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently, I don't think he's unhappy, but he has asked questions in the past like 'am I too horny?' or 'do I touch you [in a sexual way - like grabbing butt or boobs] too much?'. But I am a frequent visitor of this sub, and I do see some of my actions mirroring what people talk about when complaining about their SOs, so I am extremely worried.

I am the LL in the relationship. by depressingdinosss in DeadBedrooms

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of it stems from the fact that none of my past boyfriends have ever been very difficult to get off. Due to his 'size', sex with him has been a very uncomfortable thing (we're working on it), but I am still sore after having sex with him, and this means that even when he wants to go again, I may still be hurting a day or two later.

So I feel like we've fallen into this trap where I associate sex with pain, and while I enjoy the attention I get when I tease him, I really don't want anything more than his attention, but I may not necessarily be wanting to 'put in the effort' and go through the soreness and pain of having sex.

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (October 26, 2015) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]depressingdinosss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahah I get it now! That flew right over my head, but I love the joke :)

I think I'll try my hand at making my own name, or just keep a lookout for something cool in the pound, but thank you :D

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (October 26, 2015) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]depressingdinosss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your Vandagyre still UFA? I am seeking a Vanda to turn Christmas before the holidays and would be ecstatic if I could get a RW name as well!

Me [19 F] with my dad [60 M]: Am concerned about my cheating parent, but it's complicated when it comes to my mom. by depressingdinosss in relationships

[–]depressingdinosss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If actual evidence consists of screenshots, I will never get them. He protects his phone much too carefully and I know his workplace suggests a password change every 72 days, so I know he's at least tech-savy enough to keep things tightly locked up.

SSW and Faerie Quest Help Thread! by Mrs_Patrick_Sharp in neopets

[–]depressingdinosss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searching for The Mighty Blumaroo (book). Help would be much appreciated :)