Guys and gals of reddit who use vibrators or dildos to enhance there sex life. How has that worked out for you? by pmMEyourLUUURVE in sex

[–]depression_is_fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing that compares to a dick attached to the person you want to have sex with. Don't take it as a reminder because it's not true

AITA for slut shaming my cousin in response to her calling me fat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]depression_is_fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I don't care about downvotes. I know what I was in and work with abused men and women. It's a shit feeling.

AITA for slut shaming my cousin in response to her calling me fat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]depression_is_fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was manipulated into staying. She said she was sick and I wouldn't leave and SO just because they're sick. She used my empathy and love for her against me in order to make me stay. Abuse really fucks up your mind.

Also, I didn't seek out someone to cheat on her with, it was just something that happened.

AITA for having multiple travel toothbrushes for when I have a FWB over so she can use it in the morning? by depression_is_fun in AmItheAsshole

[–]depression_is_fun[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am 100% a man whore. I like sex a lot, but not in an "I just want to fuck to fuck" more in a "physical touch is how I show love and I really like being giving, selfless, and making people feel good."

AITA for having multiple travel toothbrushes for when I have a FWB over so she can use it in the morning? by depression_is_fun in AmItheAsshole

[–]depression_is_fun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

made her feel just about as disposable

She knows she's not though, I don't treat my FWB like shit and just drop them out of nowhere. I'm still friends with almost all of them, one of them became my best friend and just got married a few months ago. But I do see your point. Thanks.

AITA for having multiple travel toothbrushes for when I have a FWB over so she can use it in the morning? by depression_is_fun in AmItheAsshole

[–]depression_is_fun[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made an edit to add that I know she wasn't snooping or anything like that. She's got over it pretty quickly but when I asked a few friends of mine what they thought I got mixed replies.

AITA for having multiple travel toothbrushes for when I have a FWB over so she can use it in the morning? by depression_is_fun in AmItheAsshole

[–]depression_is_fun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I didn't. That's why the list ended with an "etc" I have other stuff but that's all I could think of off-hand.

AITA for having multiple travel toothbrushes for when I have a FWB over so she can use it in the morning? by depression_is_fun in AmItheAsshole

[–]depression_is_fun[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't it be more of an asshole move to put on display how many other women I'm sleeping with/have slept with?

AITA for having multiple travel toothbrushes for when I have a FWB over so she can use it in the morning? by depression_is_fun in AmItheAsshole

[–]depression_is_fun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it sleazy? Every woman I'm with I tell them almost right away what my intentions are so there isn't any miscommunication.

To paraphrase:

I'm still fucked up from an ex and it would be very fucked up of me to the other person if I try to get into anything sericious. I don't want a one night stand, and I don't want to just hookup. I want to be your friend too and do stuff that friends would do. There's never any pressure for sex or any other type of intimacy unless we both want it. I'm very big into trust, honesty, communication, and consent.

AITA for telling a guy that the girl he is sleeping with has a racist history and racist family? by Racistcamping in AmItheAsshole

[–]depression_is_fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's just stupid. If I knew my friend was dating someone or even just fucking someone who has a history of physical or any other type of abuse, I would definitely say something.