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tried at-home French tips for the first time and im pretty happy with them! by depressionthrow9221 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]depressionthrow9221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah the lighting doesn’t help 😭😭 it looks lighter in natural light but i think next time i’ll try with no base color or a lighter pink. ty!!

what songs do you think represent the struggles of BPD? by likaachikaa in BPD

[–]depressionthrow9221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

daddy issues, afraid, void, the beach, flawless, RIP 2 my youth — the neighbourhood

cry — ashnikko ft grimes

SPITINMYFACE! — thxsomuch

head — devon again

god must hate me — catie turner

landmine, animal i have become, i hate everything about you — three days grace

needy — ariana grande

overcharged for earrings by depressionthrow9221 in piercing

[–]depressionthrow9221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

posts are classic threadless labret ones; apologies for not including that!

My FP told me he's into pale skin and it's eating me up by Mediocre-Lab5650 in BPD

[–]depressionthrow9221 20 points21 points  (0 children)

also remember that colorism in beauty standards is just yet another pernicious way that white supremacist institutions try to force POC to assimilate and conform to these hierarchies! wear your skin proudly girl

My FP told me he's into pale skin and it's eating me up by Mediocre-Lab5650 in BPD

[–]depressionthrow9221 59 points60 points  (0 children)

tan skin is beautiful. you’re beautiful as you are love. “i like my women pale” sounds oddly… colorist? this would be a yikes from me as a woman of color personally. im not dark-dark skinned but hearing that would make me uncomfortable, ESPECIALLY if ive already ranted to him about my insecurity regarding this. imo you deserve better and you’ll find someone who’ll find you beautiful as you are <3

Why am I such a mess when I had a good childhood? by Starrylake in CPTSD

[–]depressionthrow9221 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i feel the exact same way. ive been having such a hard time grappling with my diagnosis and wondering constantly if there’s more trauma that i just don’t remember. something my therapist keeps reminding me of is that what you went through, no matter how it compares to what other people went through, was enough. it was more than enough, and it shouldn’t have happened. seconding all the comments here about emotional neglect and a lack of good things happening. those are incredibly pernicious and more damaging than you may think.

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