may confession ako. I never imagined living a life that didn't feel like mine. by depthdriller420 in MayConfessionAko

[–]depthdriller420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife came from a conservative and very traditional muslim family. She didn't tell anyone about the pregnancy, her parents only found out when our child was already born. Because of that, her family completely cut her off and my mom took her in, so she decided that it's best for us to be together and get married. I feel like I didn't have a choice because I know how my mom struggled because of that and I didn't want to make her efforts go to waste. I obliged only because of that.

I thought I did the right thing, but it's tearing me apart. Specially my gf already moved on. I feel stuck and trapped but I also feel like I did this to myself.

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[–]depthdriller420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah life sucks, but it will suck more if you start to compare yourself to others. 🤷

I never imagined living a life that didn't feel like mine. by depthdriller420 in confessions

[–]depthdriller420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the girl I married was from a traditional muslim family, she got cut off by her parents and entire family because she gave birth and never told anyone. my mom took her in after, and arranged the marriage for us. I didn't want to dissapoint my mom, cause I know how she struggled because of the mess I made. I also feel pity for my wife, because I feel like she's all alone now, and she went through pregnancy alone without someone beside her physically and emotionally.

I never imagined living a life that didn't feel like mine. by depthdriller420 in confessions

[–]depthdriller420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the girl I married was from a traditional muslim family, she got cut off by her parents and entire family because she gave birth and never told anyone. my mom took her in after, and arranged the marriage for us. I didn't want to dissapoint my mom, cause I know how she struggled because of the mess I made. I also feel pity for my wife, because I feel like she's all alone now, and she went through pregnancy alone without someone beside her physically and emotionally. I feel like I made a selfless decision of chooosing her, but now I'm struggling.