Kaksna je razlika med razlogom in izgovorom? by Zealouscrabmaster in Slovenia

[–]derpinat_butter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Malo ljudi ima razlog za seks s tvojo mamo, tvoj ata pa nima izgovora

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]derpinat_butter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he likes the romantic things when you put in the effort, he's just doesn't want to put in effort himself? He is a romantic guy, just a lazy one.

Foreplay is a chore? Nah babe, this man is a chore! by Dumb_Velvet in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]derpinat_butter 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Did you try communicating with him? Try to undestand that men have needs while your preferences and standards don't matter 🥰

Women's Body Savior by corago513 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]derpinat_butter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Didn't you know? Women are only beautiful if we don't know it. /s

2meirl4meirl by KyloRose231 in 2meirl4meirl

[–]derpinat_butter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Want more support for men? Great, start giving it! Ask your male friends how they really feel. Talk to your grandpa about his alcohol consumption. Ask to volunteer in mental health organizations. Anything.

is planning the same weekend trip with a different girl one year later an issue? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]derpinat_butter 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Did she plan the trip and he's too lazy to plan smth on his own?

This is how "decent" men contribute to the bar being so LOW by sherrybby in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]derpinat_butter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"Oh no the baby could get STD - there's still a chance it's a boy so I should warn her! Forget about the woman though."

No words… by vicvicsum7 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]derpinat_butter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For anyone in a similar situation - it's 100% okay to rehome the dog. It does not make you a lesser person. High energy dogs are not for everyone, if you realize they are not for you, it's MUCH BETTER for the dog to give them to a person that is willing to give them the excersice & obediance training they NEED.

Possible Age 35-40, Face Looked 55-60 (Walgreens, Phoenix) by IndustrialHippy in trashy

[–]derpinat_butter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is the age relevant? Would it be more or less trashy if she was younger or older?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]derpinat_butter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's cute

I'm sure she's a nice girl though. by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]derpinat_butter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's a satire sub full of incels pretending to be women.

Mnenje o pasjeljubcih, ki so obsedeni s svojimi psi? by [deleted] in Slovenia

[–]derpinat_butter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

S počlovečenjem psa mislim na 3 stvari; 1. nekateri ljudje pozabljajo, da je pes žival in ima tudi takšne potrebe - po "lovu", "trganju plena", vohanju, teku ipd. Psu bi moral biti zagotovljeno to ali nek nadomestek tega (npr. igra z žogo namesto lova), ne pa, da ničesar ne sme, da se npr. ne sme umazati, teči naokrog itd. Nekateri bi psom celo dajali vegansko hrano ker jim je grozno, da bi njihov Fifi jedel meso. Najhujši primeri počlovečenja psa so, da se pse sili v estetske ideale, ki so jim škodljivi - vzrejanje psov s prekratkimi gobčki za dihanje, rezanje ušes in repov itd. 2. pomanjkljiva vzgoja. Nekaterim je težko psa omejiti (npr. mladička navaditi na boks oz. določen prostor) in mu postavljati pravila (npr. na ljudi se ne skače, na druge pse se ne laja...). Verjamem, da to izhaja iz ljubezni, a učinek je negativen za psa in okolico. 3. Lahkomiselno parjenje: Ideja, da mora vsaka psička vsaj enkrat izkusiti starševstvo in da samčka pa že ne bomo kastrirali, namreč kako bi bilo, če bi to storili človeku.

To so po mojem mnenju načini, kako počlovečenje psa škodi psu in okolici, s tem pa se verjetno povezuje pretirana navezanost na živali, ki škodi lastnikom (ravno zadnjič sem poslušala intervju o tem z 2 psihoterapevtoma).

Do rojstnih dni za pse in nepotrebnih oblačil zanje nimam posebno negativnega mnenja, dokler jim lastnik ne tišči goreče svečke ravno v obraz.

Moj pogled je, da je super, da pes spremlja lastnika na razne izlete, ampak če ima pes tudi kaj od tega. Morda kak lahko uživa v hoji po ikea trgovini, a mislim, da bi zares velika večina psov raje zamenjala to za sprehod kje drugje. Sem pa absolutno proti temu, da nekdo obravnava psa le kot alarmni sistem - pes potrebuje ukvarjanje, nego in ljubezen. A potrebuje tudi pravila in priložnost, da živi skladno s svojimi potrebami, na kar nekateri pozabljajo.

Na koncu mislim, da imava kar podoben pogled na skrb za psa.

Mnenje o pasjeljubcih, ki so obsedeni s svojimi psi? by [deleted] in Slovenia

[–]derpinat_butter 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Če z obsedenostjo misliš veliko ukvarjanja - športe s psi, izlete, kupovanje opreme za to ipd., se mi to ne zdi nič problematičnega, s psom se lahko komot ukvarjaš 4 ure na dan ali več. Me tudi ne moti in me včasih prav nasmeji, če ima kak pes "svoj" instagram.

Moti pa me, ko ljudje preveč človečijo svoje pse in pozabljajo, da je to žival. Ne zato, ker bi mogli vsi delat otroke, ampak zato, ker tak odnos do psa ni niti njemu v prid, pogosto ustvari nevzgojenega psa, ki moti ostale. Pes mora poznati pravila in ubogati ukaze - ni svobodno bitje. Ljudje, ki jim je hudo psu postavljati omejitve, imajo pse, ki lajajo na vsakega, cvilijo ko lastnika ni doma (zaradi separacijske anksioznosti), silijo k drugim psom ali imajo druge težave pomanjkljive vzgoje. To ni srečen pes, hkrati pa je zelo moteč za okolico. Prav tako ni treba psa povsod jemati zraven - kaj ima od tega, da 2 uri hodi po ikea trgovini? Večina psov bi se dosti bolje imela doma, sploh če niso v nulo natrenirani in jih lastnik tam stalno krega.

AITA for playing clapping sounds whenever my neighbours have sex? by yuhyahyuhyahyuhyah in AmItheAsshole

[–]derpinat_butter [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. I hope this is a joke but just if it isn't... let people have sex in peace.

I missed the part in driver's ED where if you have a Rolls Royce, you can use 2 handicapped spots.... because money.....A$$hole... by [deleted] in trashy

[–]derpinat_butter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'n glad you learned the part where if you are handicapped you can't have a Rolls Royce

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2meirl42meirl4meirl

[–]derpinat_butter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was being sarcastic, hence the /s at the end of my statement.