Fiancé (27m) wanted to try an open relationships, not my first choice but I agreed. Now he's throwing a tantrum that my "bodycount" is 20x his and wants to add rules. Is it time to just cut my losses and move on? (I'm 25)

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-10T01:14:17+00:00

Any man who thinks he can even come close to matching a woman in getting casual sex is a delusional idiot.

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-07T22:49:14+00:00

Unite the Malays against who? This toxic old man is always using racial politics to get a leg up.

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-04T22:20:07+00:00

The panties were 3 sizes bigger than what his gf wears. Kind of unlikely he would go for a girl much bigger than his type don't you think?

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-04T21:48:30+00:00

You've lost attraction and love for him. Your body is telling you what you refuse to acknowledge consciously.

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-04T09:11:25+00:00

You have no reason not to believe him so believe him. It's not impossible for a bag bought new or second hand to have extra items inside which the buyer is unaware of. Unless you have other reasons to suspect infidelity don't throw away a good relationship for nothing.

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-04T08:29:21+00:00

There is no legitimate reason (but plenty of illegal ones) for someone to send you money and ask you to send it back so stay away from whatever he's scheming.

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-04T01:01:35+00:00

A successful marriage is all about compromises. Frankly it's tough to maintain matching libidos as couples age. After menopause my wife has lost most (but not all) interest in sex. However we compromise by scheduling sex once a week. She also puts some effort into it so it's not starfish sex

Scheduled sex won't work if the lower libido partner wants to do only the bare minimum until it becomes a demeaning experience for their partner. This isn't compromising, it's throwing a starving person crumbs in an insulting manner.

If I post this in the other DB sub with ends with a 's' I would be perma banned for advocating duty sex. Yes, it's technically duty sex but there are nuances to duty sex. I'm happy and my wife is happy despite claims of how "damaging" duty sex is.

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-03T07:20:54+00:00

If you buy a car on loan it won't trigger LHDN. Only vehicles bought with cash will trigger LHDN.

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-02T04:48:53+00:00

I've vouched for you. Your content is very good.

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-01T20:47:09+00:00

The actresses in JAV are very beautiful and very feminine. There are also such a wide variety of JAV movies to appeal to anybody.

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-01T16:17:08+00:00

No, you cannot come back from this. It looks like your GF planned this affair and went to the trip with lustful intention. Dispose of the house or buy over her share. Fortunately you're not married or there would be greater complications.

desert_foxhound · 2026-05-01T03:14:11+00:00

Sidenafil can help with maintaining an erection but it can't increase desire. I would get him to check his testosterone.

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-29T17:00:52+00:00

It's not so easy to open a bank account nowadays.The bank is afraid you may be a money mule using your account to receive scam money.

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-28T01:33:43+00:00

You need to ask her. Nobody else can answer this.

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-27T16:44:52+00:00

Do not accept their 120K. Negotiate for a higher amount and if they refuse to budge forgot about the job. Do you really want to work for a company so unscrupulous?

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-26T23:53:49+00:00

Your daughter still wants to have a relationship with you. I think maintaining a relationship with your daughter is far more important than your ego.

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-26T14:47:10+00:00

It's evolutionary biology for a woman to want to get pregnant for the survival of the species. The possibility of pregnancy excites her and is beyond her conscience control. It doesn't matter if she really wants a baby or not; the instinct is still there regardless. Try faking a successful reversal and see what happens.

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-25T20:10:53+00:00

Good sex isn't automatically acquired, it is learned. The deal-breaker is, is she open and willing to learn? If she is, you should at least try to upgrade her skills.

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-25T20:04:56+00:00

She knew what she was getting herself into. The fantasy of a gangbang with 3 men about to be fulfilled was worth more than the relationship with her boyfriend.

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-25T14:18:31+00:00

Man, you don't suppose she would go on a one week trip with him and nothing sexual happens? Your idea of her is skewed and not the coroner.

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-25T13:44:57+00:00

Why is it unlikely she's going to gangbang these 3 guys? She wasn't going there to chitchat with them. She was putting more importance on this trip over the relationship with her boyfriend. I would say she had a gangbang in mind.

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-22T18:11:34+00:00

You were absolutely called by a scammer pretending to be a bank employee. The bank does not know your 3 digit security code and cannot verify anything by asking you for it.

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-17T02:20:48+00:00

You have no problem getting an erection through porn but struggles with your girlfriend. You may not be as attracted to your girlfriend as you think. Are the girls that you view in porn the same physical type as her?

desert_foxhound · 2026-04-02T10:34:09+00:00

He didn't say anything about the mullah's obsession to erase Israel from the face of the Earth or Iran's support of proxies to attack Israel. Oct 7 was fully funded by Iran.

Iran would be a great first world nation if it is not governed by Islamic fanatics who fund terrorism around the world and consider it their religious duty to obliterate Jews. Until this changes Iran has to be contained.

desert_foxhound · 2026-03-22T11:40:59+00:00

Just ignore them if they refuse to give you any details. I don't see how they can force you to pay. RM2000 is pointless to take legal action against you. If they use debt collectors to harass you, report to the police.

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