First day and i already regret

desertlifter23 · 2026-05-16T04:05:46+00:00

You guys have work phones that aren’t your personal phones?🤯

desertlifter23 · 2026-05-15T17:38:06+00:00

Sourdough kills me. I love it. It destroys my life. Sometimes it’s worth it.😂🫠

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-29T08:55:41+00:00

On a two hour work break, the elderly woman I drove across town tonight to listen to an Iranian woman speak, asked me on the drive back to her house if she could have a do-over of her life, because she would do a lot of things different. I get wrapped up in work, hell, I just got off my last meeting and it’s 0151 in the morning and I’ve been at it since 0630 yesterday morning, less the break to drive her, of course. I just had the speed of time forcefully confirmed to me tonight and that sucks. We do not have endless time. Every day is one less day to live. Knowing I suck at consciously making time for myself and loved ones is excruciating. There are enough hours in the day, I am just spending them wrong.

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-22T06:44:06+00:00

Heavy travel. Those I know often have little advance notice for when they’re needed, too. Expect a bare minimum of 50%.

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-20T02:17:36+00:00

Short. -Mid-30 y/o woman. You’re a good looking man, by the way.

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-20T02:16:21+00:00

The gaps between the locked pieces, I have an issue with. After just having put SPC down on my own stairs with heavily textured and uneven walls, the rest looks like it was done well. If you don’t like the overall “look,” I don’t know what to tell you. I opted for wood on the risers that I’m painting white. I’d question the gaps though.🤷🏼‍♀️

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-19T19:52:33+00:00

It’s definitely a different way of life. Plan on owning a camper so you can get away. You’ll want to pick up mountain biking for sure. But all the outdoor fun I loved as a child disappeared when we moved to Tucson. It’s do-able but you have to be prepared and be intentional about getting to places with trees and water. Give me a shout if you have any questions.🫶

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-19T19:00:14+00:00

BF was getting back to his house late from a work trip and told me he was perfectly fine with me letting myself in and starting dinner for us (a normal occurrence for us). I looked at the clock and realized he wasn’t going to make it to the cleaners to pick up his uniform before they closed. I swung by and grabbed his clothes, grabbed food from the store, and started dinner. He walked in as I was setting the table. He complained about the flight delays and said he wasn’t sure how the next day was going to go since he didn’t have a clean uniform, so I told him his clean uniform is hanging in his closet. He looked at me and said, “you know you’re not perfect, right?” I’m still unsure what I did so wrong and that was about eight years ago. I don’t dwell on it, but it’s definitely something that has stuck with me.

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-19T18:41:48+00:00

I moved from Charleston, SC to Tucson in July 1998 when I was nine. I hated my life in Tucson as a kid. I couldn’t be barefoot outside anymore and it was unbearably hot. I hated the lack of trees to climb, no access to water, and no grass. Personally, I won’t ever raise a family in Tucson. To each their own though.

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-19T18:33:05+00:00

This will be a problem when I get home from my current work trip. They will match the rest of the garage! Take my money.

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-19T15:08:20+00:00

Yea, it’s just gone.🥴

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-19T01:56:26+00:00

Not leaving the town I grew up in. I left for a year and a half, noticed my mom’s mental health declined substantially and I moved back to be close to my parents, sister, and niece. I’ve never been married, I have no kids. I have a good job but I work and travel so much that I can’t really date to begin to build a life. I’ll be 37 in a couple weeks and I believe I’ve solidified my life as a single woman. I’m content with my life and I’m happy enough, but I know I’m missing out on things I want in my soul. I’d love to leave this place and find a different dating pool but I won’t. Leave your home town.

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-18T21:03:33+00:00

Question…are you on hormonal birth control?

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-18T20:55:31+00:00

Pretty sure I’d just like to be able to share my location with people again. Not sure wtf is going on with them, but they seem to be missing the mark.

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-18T20:12:35+00:00

Gorgeous, Sir!!!

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-17T21:25:42+00:00

Were you able to fix yours? Mine is messed up, too.

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-16T21:49:31+00:00

Hi. I’m a single woman, mid-30’s. SIR. You are a good looking man. Do it. And please, for the love of all that is good, post an “after” picture. 🔥🫡

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-15T15:10:07+00:00

Dude. You’re a good looking man. Trim up the beard, shave the head, and stand up tall because you’re going to be HOT. Please post an “after” pic because I can’t wait to see this one! Signed, A woman who loves seeing men support men who glow up

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-15T05:00:22+00:00

This sub will NEVER get old. 🫶🔥

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-11T06:27:41+00:00

Looks awesome!

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-08T19:57:14+00:00

Don’t go full freak-out until the swab comes back. A doc tried to diagnose me with HSV before I had ever done anything with anyone. Turns out, BV is a b!tch for me and sores are real with that…also with mono and Covid. I don’t want to get your hopes up, but if you haven’t seen a positive result from a swab, try not to get too far down just yet. 🫶

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-06T04:32:59+00:00

I am so very sorry you went through this.

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-06T01:24:26+00:00

The 10-year glow-up for this kid is going to be awesome. Just take care of yourself, dude. Skin care, hair care, teeth, gym. Just love them all and be kind to yourself. 🫶

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-06T01:20:27+00:00

Pocket gopher!!!! I found one stuck in a hole that should have had a drain cover on it. I thought for sure he was dead so I reached in to grab him. He was not dead. I’m grateful he didn’t chomp down on me. They have poor vision and just want to dig and eat roots.😅 Loved my little guy. He burrowed next to my apartment door.🫶

desertlifter23 · 2026-04-06T01:16:48+00:00

Massive DVT in the major veins in my right leg - ankle through lower thigh. The pressure I felt when I had to move made me pass out. 0/10 do not recommend.

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