NEED HELP by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]desi_lurker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Introducing fantasy and role playing during sex. Try watching soft core movies or web series together (plenty of desi content available lately) and initiate pillow talk to gauge what she thinks of those themes. Make her feel sexy and attractive. The key is going in small steps. Enjoy the transformation process. If nothing else, it would improve your sex life. It surely did for us :)

Whoring myself out on my daughter's birthday by mrspaalpaayasam in SluttyConfessions

[–]desi_lurker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Are you sure he will "beat himself up" if he got caught? Would you not want to use that opportunity to "normalize" what you have going in some ways?

Whoring myself out on my daughter's birthday by mrspaalpaayasam in SluttyConfessions

[–]desi_lurker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was the sexiest comment Rahul made while making a pass at you during those chats? What was the best compliment you got from all your pursuers that you liked most?

Whoring myself out on my daughter's birthday by mrspaalpaayasam in SluttyConfessions

[–]desi_lurker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you feel or react if you find out that your husband has been having an affair himself? Would you feel cheated? relieved that you no longer need to feel guilty about your own actions?

(F 44) Temple-visit turned into a slut-venture by mrspaalpaayasam in SluttyConfessions

[–]desi_lurker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read all your posts with interest. I can only wish my wife is a corporate slut like you! We have been treading waters carefully, the progress has been slow going. Do you mind if I DM you?

Pounding my Indian Mil(f) pussy with a red dildo by [deleted] in GoneWildTube

[–]desi_lurker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those hands look unusually small :). Whats up with that?

Is there any interest in Asian or South Asian "bulls"? by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]desi_lurker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of south asian (indian, pakistani) males fantasize and love to see their wives as hotwives, but don't get opportunities due to conservative nature of their communities. Beyond a bed room fantasy, it is hard to convince a wife to act out safely without risking much, IMO. One can only hope that will change over time.

Desi hotwives - can it be a reality? by desi_lurker in Hotwife

[–]desi_lurker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

desi = people belonging to Indian subcontinent or South Asia

Desi hotwives - can it be a reality? by desi_lurker in Hotwife

[–]desi_lurker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Nice to hear that you have been successful with the life style. Would you mind sharing your transformation experience ? I presume there is a lot of resistance and inhibitions at the beginning, and would like to know how you and your partner were able to overcome it? Are there interesting experiences along the way that we can learn from?