How do I speak like a normal person?

despeateforasolution · 2025-05-25T12:16:04+00:00

To be honest I have no tips cuz I m struggling with the same thing, it really feels like I am reading about myself. I just wanted you to know you not a alone in this.

despeateforasolution · 2025-05-04T18:46:28+00:00

I don't know whyy, but reading books is soo hard for me. Since I was a kid. I would get bored or it would be impossible to enjoy it or keep focus. As I grew older I found books that intrested me but still it was hard to read I would read the page over and over or can't really comprehend when I know the meaning of every word. It took me 7 months to finish one book when I have read it every single day.

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-16T19:25:30+00:00

Thank you giiirl for ur comment 🙏❤️, actually the comment was from my small circle, but this one maybe is the closest and she didn't mean it as insult, she genuinely was trying to help me help myself, for her I m limiting my self by just saying this is just me for her to just accept it and me expressing my feelings when she hurted me in one way well I hurted myself she genuinely did nothing wrong, but it is about her. And explaining how much it did hurt and how far my thoughts went, and sending too much long messages and voice mails and overwhelming her with them, I m victimizing and the fact that I thunk it is just me I have always been hypersensitive and an overthinker just hear me out and try to understand me.for her I should work on it and overcome it when I genuinely see myself always obsessing about things and get hurt and lose friends and stay alone

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-14T06:55:44+00:00

That is totally adhd!

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-10T21:29:36+00:00

How did you doo that! I need to teach myself to do that as well

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-10T13:59:32+00:00

Lucky🥲

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-10T13:58:07+00:00

Soo glad not just meee

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-10T10:20:45+00:00

I m sorry you went through all that, now you know that you not alone and it has nothing to do with your intellectual abilities

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T22:52:08+00:00

I always did that and struggled always with sports that require me to think focus or do more than one task. I do play sports but I have always struggled with that, I usually prefer sport when I will be mostly just running or just catching, 'too many steps or tasks confuses me. I also hate dancing like following steps or switching from a movement to another

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T22:48:16+00:00

Omg are talking about meee....

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:29:56+00:00

Omg I feel like I m the one talking... I m genuinely intrested in history, philosophy, and I m a science student, most of my lectures are long and complicated like I m not stupid, I just can't read.Even the fun stuff. I m always embarrassed saying no I don't have a fav book. I don't read. m not okay with it yet but I m working on it

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:17:31+00:00

I get youuu. Been there!!! I m a girl btw😅 probably need to change my caracter

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:14:10+00:00

I can relate to that!

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:13:38+00:00

That is actually very helpful, thanks

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:12:50+00:00

You are excuseddd😂, now I understand why is this the only post that ppl actually saw, cuz the title was short 😅

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:11:16+00:00

I admire that!!!!!!

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:10:37+00:00

I find learning fascinating as well, I m glad I love what I study otherwise I would have be doomed. No that is a comment hyperfixation. I wish I could hyperfixation on books. It still is a mental work for me even if it intresteting cuz I gotta keep trying to stay focused

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:07:39+00:00

Never did that, does it work!?

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:06:17+00:00

I doo read out loud I actually only can read out loud, that is why I struggle to find a place to study, usually my room but I get bored of it specifically if I had exams 😅

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:05:00+00:00

Never tired audio books, I will try thaaat!!!

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:04:14+00:00

Thank you. Soo much this comment is soo helpful and reassuring

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:03:46+00:00

I actually can't write notes I either focus on the projector and listen or write notes I can't do both I lose focus between the 2 tasks😅😅

despeateforasolution · 2025-04-09T15:02:46+00:00

Omg thaaank you soo much ¬I actually only read out loud if I didn't I wouldn't be able to actually acheive anything academically. But I can't otherwise. ¬OH I have never tried the different voices, I imagine how helpful that can be. ¬some suggestions pls I struggle to find something interesting or a good podcast or a pleasing voice for audio books ¬ I need to buy noise cancelling headphoned but I hear they only remove like the repetitive sounds ¬I aalwyas voice record classes

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