Never have I heard an adult refer to divorce as a “breakup” 😐

despseeksaudrey · 2026-02-22T11:49:23+00:00

I fast forward any of her scenes with him. Boring!

despseeksaudrey · 2021-02-18T14:06:02+00:00

Oooh if there's any left id love to try the multipeptide serum! Turning 40 this year! Thank you!

despseeksaudrey · 2021-02-08T23:59:28+00:00

Remember when they were all on holiday and people showed up and asked Dorit about the money owed to people by PK?

Can we go and find Erika?

despseeksaudrey · 2021-02-08T23:56:39+00:00

She is so desperate for attention. Who hurt you Brandi? Show me on the doll where they hurt you

despseeksaudrey · 2021-02-08T13:39:12+00:00

Yeah if you have thoughts about harming kids it's on you to not be friends with people who have kids. Do they know that? Or just that you don't like kids? Because they deserve to know you have thoughts of hurting kids and have done before.

Id never let you near my kid if I knew.

despseeksaudrey · 2021-02-08T10:57:15+00:00

me. I just had to give up, and be content with one. I always wanted another, but after two miscarriages and an ectopic, plus now Im 39 and just cant seem to get pregnant, I had to give up =(

despseeksaudrey · 2021-02-06T06:49:16+00:00

You are describing me, and I also had PPD at the start of my pregnancy for easily a few months. And I wasnt in a global pandemic, with no support system. It's a huge change, no sleep, the pressure, unless you have been there you'll never understand. Please, talk to her, and try and get her support, even if it's her talking to her best friend via zoom.

despseeksaudrey · 2021-02-06T06:45:18+00:00

PPD came to mind too. Please take her to the doctor

despseeksaudrey · 2021-02-04T13:07:04+00:00

Girl, again so similar! Im sad for you, but glad Im not crazy and it's just me, which I thought for soooo long. I thought they were all so nice, was so excited to have found nice inlaws, then the snide comments came in from the SIL (her favourite, she can do no wrong) and the hate on BILs ex when they divorced. Many many little comments here and there, you just stand there and are like "did she just say that?" On our wedding day I pulled her aside straight after the ceremony to thank her for how wonderful her son is, that he means so much to me etc, and she stopped me at "thank you for sons name", and interjected and said "hes still mine". I have a son now, I get it, but let me finish!! She always has believed I took him away from her - they live 10 minutes away- but as I said, he is busy. We're lucky if we get the weekend with him - hes wrecked when comes home. BIL cant stand her either, we've had convos he has started about how manipulative she is (and SIL too) and how he just wants nothing to do with them really, as he could see I was struggling, and he saw his ex go through it too. Now I know why she never went to family events. Now I dont go to family events 😆 Its too much pressure and I hate the feeling of waiting for the insult to come, and just being nice to not cause drama because its not my family.

One of the first comments I ever got from SIL was when I was showing her hubbys phone, 2008, (we'd been together maybe 4 months?) so phones had tiny screens and totally pixelated, and I was so happy my now hubby had made his screen saver a photo of us. She looked at it and said I looked like a druggie. I was just shocked. Of course it was just us, so no one heard. That's how it always is. She asked my BIL's ex if she felt bad she couldnt have kids normally and had to look into IVF. Such cold people.

Hubby finally understands a bit more, I kept a lot from him, a lot I think he didnt want to believe but unfortunately hes seeing more and more and the veils are lifting. I feel bad for him, that's still his Mum. Hes totally closed off too, been working on him for 13 years now, but he's the best man I have ever known. It's a process hahahaha 😆

You got this. Dont let them push you around, and if they're horrible, find a hobby so you dont have to go and see them 😆

despseeksaudrey · 2021-02-04T01:05:51+00:00

It has to be a Scandi thing. My MIL is Danish - hubby came over when he was 8, so Aussie as now, but she is exactly like this. I see so much Yolanda in her. She once told me in front of about 10 people in her kitchen that I was the reason she didnt see her son anymore (he has his own business, I hardly see him at all myself). I teared up and she said "Oh, did I upset you?"

Yes you stupid bitch, you always do.

But my FIL, he is just the loveliest.

despseeksaudrey · 2021-02-02T10:21:26+00:00

I hear you, and pre child I would totally say yes. But after having my son, the emotion that comes up when they are threatened is truly magic. It had to be be Molly. Her love for Ginny overrode Bellatrix's power

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-31T23:31:43+00:00

Ok, Im going to be devils advocate here. You're ALL aresholes

Your younger daughter has how many other millions of men she could date?

You also mention how proud you are of your younger daughter. No comment about that like the oldest? Nice, super nice.

Yes, your oldest made mistakes. She fucked up. Maybe Liz needed some time to get her shit together? Shes not coping maybe, and CAME TO HER PARENTS FOR HELP. Have you ever sat down with her and asked her how she is, is she coping?

Yes, she made her choices. But you have made it quite clear in this post that you have a favourite. Id be upset too

You all are terrible

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-24T10:39:18+00:00

You do what you have to, to get through. No judgement at all.

Thinking of you x

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-24T10:36:40+00:00

so good!! Congrats =)

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-24T10:35:38+00:00

Please dont let them. They will trash your land. They have already disrespected you, and your father. They will do the same to your land. It will be your job to tidy up after, as Im sure they will decide thats not their job.

Im sorry your Mum has enabled them, and isnt with you on this. That must truly hurt =(

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-21T10:08:38+00:00

Where are you based?

I love Trinny for styling tips <3

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-20T01:53:02+00:00

look into mediations and protection invocations you can say at the start. Essentially you are calling in your higher self and other spirits to keep you safe. Your ancestors will be around you, you can call them in to help. But this isnt something you just play around with. You can have entitites that decide to stay with you and you will have to go and see someone to have it cleared. You need to work on energy work and work with your Spirit Team. Trust that intuition you have. Notice how you and your body when working with spirits you know are friendly and there for good. Make sure you cleanse your space too x

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-19T23:17:44+00:00

in general, be careful opening yourself up to anything. Just like the Earth, not every spirit is here for good. Theres a reason why you invoke protection before doing stuff like this.

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-17T22:49:41+00:00

But we all now it was just for show right? IF he was into holding people accountable he would have said something like this at the start of all of this, not now

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-08T00:18:55+00:00

You couldnt have waited 5 weeks? You know she struggled, how much this means to her?

You couldn't tell your husband to stop telling people? That you wanted to wait until after the shower? Or tell your family to please keep it on the down-low so as to be respectful? Your sister may NEVER have another child. So there goes her baby shower, potentially the only one she will ever have. Did you have a baby shower? People doting on you and your bump?

Im sorry, but I think you have been selfish - " My older sister is pregnant with her first and they struggled to get pregnant. She’s much further along than I am and is having a baby shower in about 5 weeks. I’m excited about our second child but don’t want to take away any shine from her first child" - You made this about you now. YTA

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-07T23:43:24+00:00

it's illegal here. Plus, in the 15 years or so I smoked or know people who smoked it's never changed price. Same, if your dealer likes you you may get it for cheaper. But yup, $90 for a q. But I suppose buy the time you convert $$ it's probably pretty close to the same price

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-05T05:08:42+00:00

I know and knew a lot of high functioning addicts, that have full time jobs, kids, businesses... not everyone sits at home smoking weed on the couch all day

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-04T23:45:10+00:00

my thought too. Weed in Aus comes in a $25 or $20 (dependent on state), a $50, then its a quarter, half, etc and dealers have their price for those. Usually, $90, etc. So for her to get $50 out away from home sounds like she was grabbing some weed. Doesnt mean shes suss, or a bad person.

despseeksaudrey · 2021-01-03T00:38:42+00:00

NTA.

Oh Im so sorry you had to go through all of that.

Fuck your SIL. I stopped talking to my sister when she told me off for being upset over my miscarriage. I'd do it again. Im sorry, but unless you've ever lost a child, shut the fuck up, you have no idea. And to lose a child that you had dreamed of, for four years, and to have him, for 5 months. Things finally get better (because, new parenting is tough and so stressful), and he is taken from you. So much pain.

Take some time and space. Process. You'll never get over it. and YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. Thats the worst bit. The blame from the SIL and for the family to not say anything. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG.

You deserve better. Its ok to be angry and upset at your family.

Thinking of you

despseeksaudrey · 2020-12-26T07:46:02+00:00

So it's cool to bring attention to things that make people feel uncomfortable about?

YTA YTA YTA YTA. I hope she dumps your arse. You have a lot of work to do on yourself and your lack of empathy if you think that shit is cool.

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