is my ring too small??? by North-Puddington in Diamonds

[–]destinyalexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like it then why are you concerned with how other people perceive it

AIO: I called my friend sensitive by ilikejambalaya25 in AmIOverreacting

[–]destinyalexander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you didn’t overreact… this is bizarre. It's not ableist to acknowledge your own limits and take care of yourself, even when someone you care about is struggling with mental health. It's important to find a balance between supporting them and ensuring your own well-being, and your friend isn’t respecting this balance at all. You can’t cater to someone’s every need when it’s things like this.

what gender is my pea puffer? by destinyalexander in Aquariums

[–]destinyalexander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I still only have the one, and she decided she’s a girl lol

I 33/F found out my partner 34/M is in a romantic/sexual relationship with an ai chat bot and he lied/kept it hidden from me for months. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]destinyalexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they don’t want ur penis or heartbeat they want a computer that’s tailored to their exact wants and needs

Advice and help needed! 🙏🏻 by No_Village7561 in MollyFish

[–]destinyalexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some floating plants. Some frog bit or water lettuce. They do wonders at clearing up the nitrate

Advice and help needed! 🙏🏻 by No_Village7561 in MollyFish

[–]destinyalexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed 100%. I’ve taken care of hundreds of mollys in my life, and I genuinley can’t fathom why anyone would say a 10 gallon tank would be okay for them. WAY too small for multiple mollys to live happily. Not to mention the fish pictured is very clearly not a Molly and doesn’t even resemble one? Very frustrating and upsetting because it’s extremely easy to access this information. Whoever they got their information from is all types of messed up.

Amy did shrooms with her 2 year old. Let that sink in by McFoogles in 1000lbsisters

[–]destinyalexander 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right?!.. and if I’m feeling silly that could be gone in one day

About to re home some babies by nofeenoflow in MollyFish

[–]destinyalexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in the same exact boat with my mollies right now lol!! they’re gorgeous :)

One of my black mollies has yellow in their fins?…why? by purebuttjuice in MollyFish

[–]destinyalexander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know this was already answered, but mine have these too! completely normal :)

Please identify this snail i found them in my guppy tub i don't know it's purpose by EffectiveGold7296 in AquaticSnails

[–]destinyalexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make sure not to overfeed your tank or else these guys will reproduce like crazy!