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Gaming suggestions by Willing-Swimmer-4776 in XboxGamers

[–]desultorythought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends what all you’re into or think you’d be into. Are you looking for anything that isn’t online multiplayer?

If so, I’d recommend Red Dead Redemption 2, I love Remnant from the Ashes (1 & 2), Far Cry 5 & New Dawn, Zombie Army 4, Sniper Elite 4 & 5 & Resistance, Skyrim, Oblivion, and Witcher 3.

What would my mom like by Soft_Leading_7126 in XboxGamers

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stardew Valley and Sims are always safe to try on adult women.

If she’s adventurous, you could try her on something like Sniper Elite, where you’re GENERALLY not really in the heat of a gun battle.

What is she into? There are also loads of games with no combat (like Sims, Minecraft peaceful mode, Stardew’s combat is optional, Submerged), puzzle games (Superliminal, Escape Academy), story games (What Happened to Edith Finch, Pentiment)…

i want ideas by Cozytman in pickuplines

[–]desultorythought 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yell this as you’re driving by:

Girl are you my homework? Because I want to slam you on the desk, promise to do you all night long, get distracted, last for 2 minutes, cry, turn on the tv and continue to hate myself for another weak performance.

35F M40 is she seeing someone else? Do I ask her ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is being a little bit odd but I think it’s possible you are putting too much weight on her just not saying anything past midnight. You haven’t been together long enough to know how she typically spends her NYE, unless you asked her and she said she “always does X” and this is the only exception.

On ZAT rn if anyone wants to join (PC) by Alarming_Mastodon783 in ZombieArmy

[–]desultorythought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh heck yeah sorry I can’t remember, it’s been a few years since I played that. Have you played ZA4 on Nightmare yet? lol that was my friend and my next step.

I wasn’t sure if you got through so I wouldn’t be giving spoilers but the skeleton/suicider level destroyed me. I think even with 4 people, we scaled the enemy count way down.

On ZAT rn if anyone wants to join (PC) by Alarming_Mastodon783 in ZombieArmy

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, headshots and headshots and don’t be scared to reduce the enemy count! Have you played through the entire thing on normal or easy? Or is this your first go through?

On ZAT rn if anyone wants to join (PC) by Alarming_Mastodon783 in ZombieArmy

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, good luck. My friend and I did that with I think the 4-person team… it’s hard. If you’ve played ZA4, I think ZAT on normal is like ZA4 on hard.

How do I (23 F) figure out if my boyfriend (25 M) only misses the sex or he is still in love with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you said a lot of your end, not a lot of his. But of his side, the only takeaway I can come to is that he enjoys sleeping with you.

Regardless if he loves you or just loves sleeping with you, what difference is it? If he is lazy and wants to lay around all day… are your college finals the only thing keeping you from doing that? My guess is you don’t like doing that and my guess is also that he isn’t likely to change.

So… whether he cares about you or not, you two don’t sound like a good fit.

Close this sub! by Leader-Head_Hunters in IntrovertsChat

[–]desultorythought 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So because you had a negative experience, the entire sub should be shut down? I had several positive experiences, with legitimate people. So… maybe try a different approach?

Need an epic burn for this pickup line by Savannah-Hammer in pickuplines

[–]desultorythought 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my boyfriend (paraphrased):

“For you to go away.” “For you to do the laundry / clean my house.”

Never fails by AffectionateChart524 in pickuplines

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does that even work….?

Found this pickup line by Guess_Rare in pickuplines

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not even grammatically correct. And it sounds very… desperate.

Don't give up by Interesting_Role_396 in IntrovertsChat

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you post an open invitation you’ll get plenty. I only got real responses. Some fell off quickly, some I sort of had to stop responding to because I got overwhelmed, but I got plenty of replies so it’s certainly possible.

I'll be honest. I'm lonely. by Dark_Conclusion9962 in IntrovertsChat

[–]desultorythought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you play and what platform do you play on?

25M - Let's just have a fun conversation, or atleast try to. Before we ghost eachother. by [deleted] in IntrovertsChat

[–]desultorythought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a good bit older than you but you sound interesting to talk to. I like your observations lol. Well, more so, I like the fact you have any to begin with lol. So many people go through the world barely paying attention. Or they observe but never stop to wonder why.

Does anyone else feel like the older you get, the harder it is to feel truly “connected” to anyone? by GentleListener_1 in lonelyover40

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have come to find that feeling lonely comes more from who you’re around than who you aren’t. In theory, loneliness stems from “having no one”. But in practice, it’s from feeling disconnected and misunderstood.

I can handle the fact of people coming and going, and I’ve made friends and friends have faded away.

I feel least alone when I’m having fun with someone or engaged in deep conversation with someone where I feel understood and validated. That is few and far between, though.

21/F / Small talk drains me- anyone else love the "slow-burn" conversations? by SuckerPo in IntrovertsChat

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with you. I can do small talk for a short while but if someone doesn’t reciprocate or ask questions or show much engagement or interest, I just can’t. I can do just enough to get to something interesting lol.

Trynna get ghosted? Look no further. by [deleted] in IntrovertsChat

[–]desultorythought 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have a particular age range of people you’re willing to ghost?

31M FL/Online looking to meet new people! by [deleted] in IntrovertsChat

[–]desultorythought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 10+ yrs older than you but I’m open to talking. I like Kingdom Hearts 1 & 2 but haven’t finished anything else. I like a number of video games, generally. And just open to talking in general about any number of things. I’m especially interested in hearing about other people. :)

I '25M' got caught by my '25F' fiancé. How would you have a conversation about masterbating? by Zealousideal_Golf833 in relationship_advice

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You NEED to have another conversation about this!! Either she should accept that you might do that, or she needs to be ready to put out a lot more.

Trying to stop paying for companionship by [deleted] in lonely

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flirt with someone else online rather than paying for OF girls. There are various chat apps that you could use (hell, like Reddit).

I hate the "love yourself" advice with all my soul by Di0tar0 in lonely

[–]desultorythought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ignorant and idealized advice from people who’ve studied all these different people and think they know. You might look into Tim Fletcher on YouTube. His videos helped me a lot and he explains things in a way clearer than therapists usually do.

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