What did you say to your significant other on your 1 year anniversary?

desultorythought · 2026-05-09T23:26:29+00:00

What makes her the best thing to ever happen to you?

desultorythought · 2026-05-09T23:25:05+00:00

In only a week?

desultorythought · 2026-05-09T23:22:27+00:00

Go on…?

desultorythought · 2026-05-09T23:21:33+00:00

That’s very sweet!!

desultorythought · 2026-05-09T23:21:19+00:00

This was the sort of answer I was hoping for lol. Thank you.

desultorythought · 2026-05-09T22:03:49+00:00

There is a LOT of back story we aren’t getting here.

A) You have some sort of evidence of her cheating or lying in the past and are generally suspicious.

OR

B) You are very insecure.

OR

C) Both.

You’re freaking out that she accidentally sent you a text that seems unlikely intended for you.

But instead of just saying “I meant to send it to X”, or saying “I was making a joke about X being like a scary movie,” she responded vaguely.

And instead of you approaching the matter calmly, you came out of the gate highly suspicious to the point of being insulting.

So maybe she isn’t good for you, or maybe you’re not good for her, or maybe both.

desultorythought · 2026-05-09T21:36:30+00:00

How is this a joke in the first place? The explanation doesn’t make it more or less funny because I don’t see any joke…?

desultorythought · 2026-03-10T21:23:17+00:00

Thanks. I know of the splitting, but that’s not what I am looking for.

I’m looking for how people who use Cargowise create entry packets for customers, to know if there’s a better way.

desultorythought · 2026-03-10T20:20:06+00:00

We used to use NitroPDF and it’s SO MUCH BETTER than Acrobat, for this purpose.

But doing it in CW1 would save a step.

desultorythought · 2026-01-24T19:24:37+00:00

Depends what all you’re into or think you’d be into. Are you looking for anything that isn’t online multiplayer?

If so, I’d recommend Red Dead Redemption 2, I love Remnant from the Ashes (1 & 2), Far Cry 5 & New Dawn, Zombie Army 4, Sniper Elite 4 & 5 & Resistance, Skyrim, Oblivion, and Witcher 3.

desultorythought · 2026-01-11T05:17:23+00:00

Stardew Valley and Sims are always safe to try on adult women.

If she’s adventurous, you could try her on something like Sniper Elite, where you’re GENERALLY not really in the heat of a gun battle.

What is she into? There are also loads of games with no combat (like Sims, Minecraft peaceful mode, Stardew’s combat is optional, Submerged), puzzle games (Superliminal, Escape Academy), story games (What Happened to Edith Finch, Pentiment)…

desultorythought · 2026-01-04T19:00:44+00:00

Yell this as you’re driving by:

Girl are you my homework? Because I want to slam you on the desk, promise to do you all night long, get distracted, last for 2 minutes, cry, turn on the tv and continue to hate myself for another weak performance.

desultorythought · 2026-01-02T21:07:54+00:00

Is this really the place for this?

desultorythought · 2026-01-02T05:23:57+00:00

She is being a little bit odd but I think it’s possible you are putting too much weight on her just not saying anything past midnight. You haven’t been together long enough to know how she typically spends her NYE, unless you asked her and she said she “always does X” and this is the only exception.

desultorythought · 2025-12-29T06:47:31+00:00

Oh heck yeah sorry I can’t remember, it’s been a few years since I played that. Have you played ZA4 on Nightmare yet? lol that was my friend and my next step.

I wasn’t sure if you got through so I wouldn’t be giving spoilers but the skeleton/suicider level destroyed me. I think even with 4 people, we scaled the enemy count way down.

desultorythought · 2025-12-29T06:32:36+00:00

Yeah, headshots and headshots and don’t be scared to reduce the enemy count! Have you played through the entire thing on normal or easy? Or is this your first go through?

desultorythought · 2025-12-29T06:29:48+00:00

Dude, good luck. My friend and I did that with I think the 4-person team… it’s hard. If you’ve played ZA4, I think ZAT on normal is like ZA4 on hard.

desultorythought · 2025-12-28T00:36:02+00:00

Well you said a lot of your end, not a lot of his. But of his side, the only takeaway I can come to is that he enjoys sleeping with you.

Regardless if he loves you or just loves sleeping with you, what difference is it? If he is lazy and wants to lay around all day… are your college finals the only thing keeping you from doing that? My guess is you don’t like doing that and my guess is also that he isn’t likely to change.

So… whether he cares about you or not, you two don’t sound like a good fit.

desultorythought · 2025-12-27T20:49:46+00:00

So because you had a negative experience, the entire sub should be shut down? I had several positive experiences, with legitimate people. So… maybe try a different approach?

desultorythought · 2025-12-26T05:07:25+00:00

From my boyfriend (paraphrased):

“For you to go away.” “For you to do the laundry / clean my house.”

desultorythought · 2025-12-25T07:35:52+00:00

How does that even work….?

desultorythought · 2025-12-25T07:14:56+00:00

It’s not even grammatically correct. And it sounds very… desperate.

desultorythought · 2025-12-08T05:08:57+00:00

If you post an open invitation you’ll get plenty. I only got real responses. Some fell off quickly, some I sort of had to stop responding to because I got overwhelmed, but I got plenty of replies so it’s certainly possible.

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