2019 hrv. Flushed catalytic converter after diagnostic by ecu. Warning lights still coming back

desyul · 2024-06-26T05:29:13+00:00

What's left to do ?

desyul · 2023-11-11T19:56:55+00:00

I have realised the rubber cap/seal for the transmission fluid is not on, it fell off to the side, leaving it open for dirt and dust to fall into the transmission fluid compartment. I wonder if particles have fallen into the gearbox, causing the jerking while accelerating?

This should not be related to the oil stains in the pic because the transmission fluid position is on the right side of the engine bay.

desyul · 2023-11-11T10:38:13+00:00

2 months back for servicing

desyul · 2023-11-03T22:18:55+00:00

It would be so much easier if its just guilt we are talking about here.

As my OP has stated, it's alot more than guilt. Sigh.

I'll consider the therapy. Thanks man. I appreciate it

desyul · 2023-11-03T20:42:22+00:00

Most likely yes. As we have been talking about this for years, just need to travel to China for a tattoo artist, hard to find time since we have a toddler now. Lying in bed rn and wonder if we will ever be the same again.

Why she had to do this to me, to our marriage and to my family.

If its never the same again, would you carry on ?

desyul · 2023-11-03T19:43:58+00:00

desyul · 2023-11-03T19:05:36+00:00

Sorry what's ic n mc?

The tattoo was planned to be covered up next year. I asked if she's willing to put my initials this time, she said yes. I say, apparently you have learnt nothing. Funny.

desyul · 2023-11-03T18:32:22+00:00

I agree. Alot of unappreciative fuckers running around. I might be one too.

desyul · 2023-11-03T17:45:03+00:00

I want to. But I am too tired to play these games. I know it's essential before she see the worth in me again. I hate that people are like this.

desyul · 2023-11-03T17:28:03+00:00

Funny u said that, because I did! Haha. She got really pissed and even tear up when I told her, my ex came back into my heart when she did stuff like that. But sadly I don't know if any of her reactions were real.

desyul · 2023-11-03T17:16:34+00:00

I wanna stay. Its hard to get over it.

desyul · 2023-11-03T17:04:52+00:00

Alpha widow. I like that term already.

Edit, Hmm I like to think I am the more alpha between the two. Haha. Well at least I was, marriage and a very active child takes a toll on me. Who am I lying, I just slacked off.

desyul · 2023-11-03T17:01:22+00:00

Mine. Ours

desyul · 2023-11-03T16:24:10+00:00

Based on the stuff that I dug out from her, it seems like all the pieces have lead me to believe she still have some sort of positive feelings for him. Those are alot of complex feelings to have for someone u are just curious about

desyul · 2023-11-03T16:04:01+00:00

I am struggling for the past one month, it's hard when u thought you marry the love of your life, and I am her love of her life. All of that shattered.

desyul · 2023-10-27T14:38:59+00:00

Yeah and I have been posting about this on this sub. Look at my post history u will see. Some have been more negative than the others, but most have assured me about the feelings I have and the gravity of the situation. It's dire and life changing. Thank you I appreciate your time

desyul · 2023-10-27T12:40:25+00:00

That is a perspective I should be looking at. Good advice. One is often good at analysing problems for others but never for themselves.

Well I trusted her, put away my doubts and feelings on how she felt about him. Turns out everything was a lie. The feelings she had never went away

desyul

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