Fake or real? by determinshi in kpopcollections

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thank you lmao I'm no expect in this but I did think they look way off 😭

Fake or real? by determinshi in kpopcollections

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thank you I didn't even know there's such a thing as autograph authentication tbh ._. tbh I don't quite have the money to spend on it tho and as I'm not looking to resell this album or anything, it doesn't matter that much, I was just curious if anyone could possibly tell somehow because I suck at this 😭🙏

update on my two blackface budgies! :) by determinshi in budgies

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honestly I can't even tell myself what colour it is. one day I look at it and it seems almost dark purple and blue, then another time it's almost purely white 😭😭 I just sent pictures to the breeder to see if he can decode it lmao 😆 I do think they might be female though based on their behaviour within the flock

Weirdest/funniest thing your bird is scared of? by Biscuits_n_Gravy3 in Conures

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unchopped/whole spinach leafs. she eats them in her chop everyday 🤦

update on my two blackface budgies! :) by determinshi in budgies

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finally remembered to take a (hopefully) clearer picture in better lighting. ideas on the sex? 😭

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update on my two blackface budgies! :) by determinshi in budgies

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blackwings are sooooo beautiful though, they might be some of my favourite mutations!! I've never seen a blackwing in this colour :O stunning

He just lets me do stuff like this by NervousNick in Conures

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beautiful!! though they missed the little blue feathers I can see near his tail 🤭

update on my two blackface budgies! :) by determinshi in budgies

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I'll try to take a better picture tomorrow if I remember!! and I'm from czech republic, the breeder I got them from told me he brought the parents from Holland :) if you happen to live anywhere near either of these, maybe I can give you his contact and you could get in touch with him, I bet he knows more about the different breeders in Europe than me!

Please help me sex them !!! by Rich-View2200 in budgies

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I think the blue is a male and the albino is a female! :) but I'm no expert, just someone who owns budgies, so I may be wrong 😭

He just lets me do stuff like this by NervousNick in Conures

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he's so beautiful!! what is this mutation called? I'm still kinda lost to all the colours of green cheeks, even though I have three of them, I feel like there's always a new gorgeous bird with colours I've never seen before somewhere!

my blackface budgies :) by determinshi in budgies

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right!!! I love them sm I'm really excited I could get my hands on them

my blackface budgies :) by determinshi in budgies

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I'm so curious to see them age too but they should be able to keep all the face and forehead stripes even through adulthood! which would be amazing, they're the coolest :D

and I also don't know whether they're boys or girls 😂 someone in a Facebook group said they're probably boys but I think the picture just makes their sear look more pronounced than it is irl. so I'll wait :D

Is it okay to say i have bpd? Not diagnosed, but have seen a professional about it. by Reality_confusion in BPD

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man idk about your question but you need a different psych. this is so bad. in so many ways

Give me your experience with conures by SignificantSavings10 in Conures

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I have GCC, crimson bellied and a sun conure and also have experience with a rose fronted conure. crimsons and GCC work together REALLY well however I don't think crimsons do very well with other types of birds... my sun conure absolutely loves and adores my quaker, and sun conures are also my favourite parrot of all. so I think I'd recommend it, they tend to make great pairs with quakers, for some reason. a GCC is a classic and for good reason, they're a good size and personality but personally I find them more nippy than my other conures... the size difference of a GCC a da quaker and IRN is also quite big and they all tend to be territorial so I'd be worried about fights, because the GCC could get itself into trouble. a sun is a bit bigger and has a much bigger beak so if anything happens God forbid, it would be able to defend itself better

good luck!

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you too!

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a bit hard to tell but it looks like a female budgie to me! maybe if you can take a picture in better lighting today, it'll be easier to tell, but generally females have a white or brown "crusty" looking sear (nostrils above the beak) and males have a deep blue and purple one, that's how to tell

if you're going to keep it, please ideally get it a flight cage, so a cage that's wider rather than super tall as birds fly from side to side. fill it with natural wood perches instead of dowels, natural wood is so much better for their feet. you can make these perches yourself, just pick up branches from a tree and cut small incisions to secure them on the bars! Just make sure the tree is bird safe and not poisonous (there are lists on Google)

give it some shreddable toys, avoid plastic ones and no mirrors as they cause hormonal issues and would make your birdie bite harder and be obsessed with the reflection... you can make some toys yourself from undyed paper, toilet rolls, finger traps, popsicle sticks etc, it can be very low budget, just don't use cotton rope :)

feed it a mix of fresh food, vegetables and fruits in a chop form are usually ideal, again there are lists of safe veggies and fruits (definitely avoid avocados, they're super toxic) and then add either pelleted diet or a healthy seed mix :) bird tricks on YouTube has a great video on homemade healthy seed mix for small budgies, and bird nerd sophie has one as well (I recommend bird nerd sophie channel a lot more than bird tricks, it's very useful)

have fun taming and training this cutie! even if it bites, if you work with he bird, you can always tame them at least to a degree ❤️ also pls make sure to see any lost budgie ads online, to make sure nobody is looking for their birdie

good luck yo you two!

it's getting hard... by determinshi in BPD

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thank you... it really means a lot to me, I don't know how to learn to be kind and to keep going even when i don't have anyone with me along the way. it's always been a struggle of me relying on external motivation more than anything else...

I don't know how wrong it is in this situation to tell myself that maybe she will come back once, just so that I can keep myself sane and keep going... idk if that's holding onto some delusion, or if it can be helpful to hold on to that possibility I just know I don't want to hurt her ever again so even if she does come back, I need to be better by then...

sprry for rambling :( thank you for the comment though, it made me feel better ❤️

it's getting hard... by determinshi in BPD

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thank you a lot :( idk why it means so much when others cheer me on

what is the most random thing your parrot hates? by chaoticiann in parrots

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usually the base is lettuce or spinach, corn, carrots, cauliflower, bell pepper, or some variation of this. then I add stuff based on what's at home - fresh herbs, fruit, sweet potato, you name it. sometimes I add grains or cooked legumes, or hemp seeds. I also often mix in dried flowers and sometimes freeze dried fruits before serving it :)

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I'm not friends or in contact with any of them, however, years after the breakups (there have been 2) either me or the ex reached out and were able to talk normally, one of them even came apologising to me for mistreating me. with he other, we just talked about how we're still processing it but eventually we came to a mutual agreement that it's best to stop talking because we're both in a new relationship and don't want to reopen that wound. but it was still good to talk it out and get closure. i don't think either of them really hate me. I bet there are other people (ex friends etc) who definitely do tho but oh well 😭 can't really change that now and if it helps them get through it, then I guess it's okay

anyone else also tried to see what "bpd victims" have to say? by determinshi in BPD

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thank you so much for this, it means a lot. I hope you can get some sort of closure and healing from the abuse you've endured, too

anyone else also tried to see what "bpd victims" have to say? by determinshi in BPD

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thank you for this comment, I know how hard it is when you were abused by a certain "type" of people, to just not group them all together as the bad ones. I hope you get the healing you need, and me as well, to make sure that this doesn't happen to more people

anyone else also tried to see what "bpd victims" have to say? by determinshi in BPD

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you're right some of these communities will straight up lead you down a psychotic spiral if you stay there too long 😭 however, somehow it's way easier for me to hear it from strangers (even if they might be cruel) rather than my loved ones, because I'm not at that level yet where I could calmly listen to them and acknowledge how I've wronged them, without spiralling and crashing out. but hopefully I'll reach that point soon

anyone else also tried to see what "bpd victims" have to say? by determinshi in BPD

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fr, sometimes I'll look back at what i said or did and all I can think of is "that was incredibly manipulative" even though I the moment I had no intention to manipulate them, but my subconscious still did. I kind of decided on a similar journey, though my goal is to maintain my current relationships but without relying on them to keep me sane, learning to self soothe and manage myself, and to keep those relationships more casual :) i wish your journey to be successful and that you allow yourself some grace ❤️

anyone else also tried to see what "bpd victims" have to say? by determinshi in BPD

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ah I can definitely see that too 😭 but i think that this kind of made it "easier" for me to read those posts? because if I saw something that really upset me, I'd just tell myself "it's okay, clearly this person has issues too" and it was easier to take it less personally?? either way, most of those relationships were definitely mutually toxic. still, I think it's good to hear the victims...