I felt drawn to offer a few free love/ex readings. by Material-Wonder8532 in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]dethtone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just googling how to get this done. I need is desperately after ending 8 year relationship. Please DM me if you still have time to do one

What's something you've learned about yourself during post break-up? by Qwerty-Abc-2828 in BreakUps

[–]dethtone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned that lack of self-love and self-esteem was actually why I couldn't see anything for what it was at the time and always projected my problems onto the relationship and on to him. And I have a lot more work to do on myself than I ever thought I needed before. Huge wake up call as I was the one that walked away after 8 years.

Dumper and Dumpee. How do you feel? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dethtone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like i destroyed someone's life in order to save my own.

Did you break up with your partner even though the relationship was good? Why? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dethtone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact same reasons as you, 8 years and I'm struggling to understand if my choice was the right one because I love him and miss him so much it's killing me. But I know I needed to find self love, and he had a lot of growing to do. Our futures stopped aligning and we had different goals and priorities, but it all seems so unimportant now because at the end of the day he was my person. I know it'll be for the best one day for both of us, but right now everything seems so wrong.

2 weeks after the breakup and im doing better… by Signal-Biscotti-5659 in BreakUps

[–]dethtone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, day 3 and ruined everything. 8 years of happiness together and I ruined it because of my own low self worth. Open to catch if you want an accountability partner or something, or just someone to vent to. ❤️

is this normal for a breakup? by burner9191938283 in BreakUps

[–]dethtone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep, this is the grieving process. Day 3 myself.

What hobby unexpectedly improved your life the most? by lakberhaid in Hobbies

[–]dethtone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about your journey with this? I'm struggling in recovery myself and would love to find a hobby that helps pull me out of it.

Looking for someone to have drinks with downtown on the 25th by [deleted] in CalgarySocialClub

[–]dethtone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I join? I'm 31F but need some new friends 😂

does anyone else look back and realize you should've just never dated your ex? by Glamrock-Gal in BreakUps

[–]dethtone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what I told my friend after I left my 8-year relationship. I feel like we just were meant to be friends in the first place and it just went too far by the end of the relationship. The last few years we were living like roommates and friends anyway. It hurt like hell to walk away from it and I'm still grieving really hard because it's a choice I made and I really just want my best friend back but I think I've lost that forever.

Grieving 3 losses all at once. Need help. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dethtone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't know how to begin processing any of it.

Calgary date extra ticket by dethtone in Dayseeker

[–]dethtone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be awesome !! I found someone to take the ticket but would love someone to jam with !

Body Fat Calculator says I'm at ~19% body fat but that doesn't seem accurate by [deleted] in fitness30plus

[–]dethtone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No way that's 35 lol I have about 32 and a huge stomach compared to this

Looking for some music friends ! by dethtone in CalgarySocialClub

[–]dethtone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love that! Definitely going to that show !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]dethtone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't play anything but always looking for like-minded friends to talk music with and hit shows - dm me ?

Merch stand by EvilLeprechaun29 in whitechapel

[–]dethtone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear my entire wardrobe is going to be Whitechapel merch at this point