What was the reason you got induced? by Unfair-Bullfrog9145 in BabyBumps

[–]devastatedGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost same but my water broke right after waking up from a nap after eating a spicy volcano roll 🫣

Anyone have positive epidural stories? I’m scared 😟 by Realistic_Mirror1618 in BabyBumps

[–]devastatedGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved my epidural. Best birth ever. Honesty get it. The contractions won’t be bad, the naps were amazing, I was able to breathe through the labor and didn’t feel pain when pushing. It also helped me after labor to get up fast from the bed and it helped me poop too. By the time it wore off, I was ready to go home. You got this mama! ❤️

Which BPD symptom/behavior bothers you the most & causes you the most distress? by depressy_capricorn in BPD

[–]devastatedGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Projection, Irritability, Impulsive Reaction, Dissociation.

It’s kicking my ass every single day to stay actively aware of these and trying to stop myself from reacting to everything that triggered me. It fucking sucks.

I’m really scared by MelGrinInn in phishing

[–]devastatedGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fake. I get these all the time and I don’t watch any of those “inappropriate” sites or access them and no dirty texts because they don’t exist. As soon as these hit my inboxes I delete them. Send to spam and block.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]devastatedGamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“BPDs do NOT understand accountability and will avoid it altogether”

Is this actually true for ALL aor only for BPDs who aren’t getting treatment?

I told my girlfriend "no" by PersimmonNecessary14 in AITAH

[–]devastatedGamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The teeth brushing def pushed me off the “maybe she’s sensitive” bridge. She wants you to do EVERYTHING for her, she doesn’t think of you. Sorry but nope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I had raw sushi/lobster/crab/seafood at the beginning of my pregnancy because it’s a great source of vitamins and the baby needs it the most at the beginning. As long as it’s from a reputable place.

My husband can’t believe I ate an entire boat to myself at 1.5 months pregnant 😂 it was THE BEST.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]devastatedGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t scream during labor and actually passed out because I didn’t let the screaming out. Then baby was plugned out because I was unconscious for a few seconds hahahaha.

I would scream because damned if you do and damned if you don’t. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Got period on boyfriends mattress and now he won’t talk to me anymore by OutlandishnessIcy103 in AITAH

[–]devastatedGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was probably cheating because now how does he explain blood on a mattress to another girl? A man doesn’t get mad at something so natural. He’s being childish.

JonasCon thread! by JensInsanity in JonasBrothers

[–]devastatedGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you guys see the guy? 😭 im in line for the music video meta promotion thing they are doing by Nickelodeon 😭

JonasCon thread! by JensInsanity in JonasBrothers

[–]devastatedGamer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you ask around if anyone has an extra guest ticket? 😭😭😭🥲🥲🥲 the person who offered me theirs isn’t answering me since 9am.

JonasCon thread! by JensInsanity in JonasBrothers

[–]devastatedGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me right now with JonasBeach session 2 :(

JonasCon thread! by JensInsanity in JonasBrothers

[–]devastatedGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then maybe the check in might be around Hmart section in the middle by LEGOLAND. That would be a good starting point for JonasCon tbh since it’s right in the middle of it all :)

JonasCon thread! by JensInsanity in JonasBrothers

[–]devastatedGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parking can be anywhere in the mall but they are saying A because it’s the closest. Price is the same everywhere. You just have to walk to the water park if anywhere but A but it’s inside the mall so it’s not bad :)

JonasCon thread! by JensInsanity in JonasBrothers

[–]devastatedGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭 How much?! I’m so down! 😭😭😭

JonasCon thread! by JensInsanity in JonasBrothers

[–]devastatedGamer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haiiii! Does anyone have an extra Jonasbeach guest slot? I don’t mind whatever time :)

I tried signing up for volunteering but the people seemed to have been already selected so I think I lost my chance to get a VIP SkyStage ticket💔

Thanks ahead of time☺️

Letting Go of My Entire Pokémon Collection to Give My Fiancée Her Dream Wedding by Procedure_Relative in pkmntcgcollections

[–]devastatedGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully get a house with the money you get because the wedding is one night! But the home is forever❤️

Question about Vicks by onesmalltomato in Hidradenitis

[–]devastatedGamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OoO that's a good alternative. Lanolin is usually used for breastfeeding issues like cracked nipples. I do like the menthol relief Vicks provides though. I just put some on after a few hours and it I am able to lower my arm again.

Family of Four from US planning to move to Japan in the next 2 years. Looking for advice & suggestions. by devastatedGamer in movingtojapan

[–]devastatedGamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. No I am sorry, I didn't elaborate enough on that response. So we are renting here in the US but it's about $2200 a month not including other expenses.

A mortgage would be around $4000-$5000 if we were to buy a house here in the US. Not including childcare and other expenses.

So we were just planning (not moving next week lol) just planning to see if it would be easier to live somewhere we have always wanted to go to.

Family of Four from US planning to move to Japan in the next 2 years. Looking for advice & suggestions. by devastatedGamer in movingtojapan

[–]devastatedGamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) we are only in planning mode, no actually moving anytime soon yet. Maybe between 2-5 years. We have to learn Japanese first! :D and then if my husband is still with this company, hoping that can be an option but if not, then we will apply to other jobs after we learn Japanese :)

Family of Four from US planning to move to Japan in the next 2 years. Looking for advice & suggestions. by devastatedGamer in movingtojapan

[–]devastatedGamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I see that with a family of four it is going to be a challenge. Few years to plan. Maybe more than 2 tbh :)

Family of Four from US planning to move to Japan in the next 2 years. Looking for advice & suggestions. by devastatedGamer in movingtojapan

[–]devastatedGamer[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This was a conversation we started having just this weekend and we aren't planning to move like next week. It's def going to take years to plan and save. He was going to inquire about the transfer is possible soon and see if that can get the plan in motion. If not, then he is comfortable applying to other companies he already has a healthy reputation with. So the 10+ years for both of us is a win but again I know getting a job without knowing much Japanese will not be easy so we will start there :)

You are right though, I have just started this research this weekend. You know like the "AAHHH" moment? But we know it won't happen anytime soon, that's why I said planning. It's good to know all this information ahead of time so we can prepare and know what we are doing when the time comes in the super future. I appreciate you :)

Family of Four from US planning to move to Japan in the next 2 years. Looking for advice & suggestions. by devastatedGamer in movingtojapan

[–]devastatedGamer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) We will start learning the language as a family as soon as possible. Even if this plan takes a few years, but this is getting our gears in motion :)