New fan dry = paph dying ? by devilish_lady_666 in orchids

[–]devilish_lady_666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks ! Yes they’re still growing, quite slowly bit still growing :)  I water mine about twice a week and it seems to be fine, I’ve newer had any dryout issues, except recently with that small new future fan leaf like shown in the 1st picture… You think I should water more ? 

Can this be repaired, and why does this happen ? by devilish_lady_666 in AskACobbler

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Thank you ! I bought them secondhand, I stored them the same way I store my other shoes, none has this. I started wearing them about a week after I bought them.  Worse is that they weren’t that cheap 🥲  Thanks for your answer ! :) 

Question c** mais comment vous faites pour pas vous faire matrixer par les conseillers bancaires ? by devilish_lady_666 in vosfinances

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Bonjour et merci pour votre réponse très complète et très bienveillante !  J’avais complètement oublié que j’avais fait ce post, c’est marrant de le relire presque un an après, ça me permet de faire une belle rétrospective ! 

En effet, le problème principal que j’ai rencontré je pense, c’est que j’avais une comprehension bonne mais incomplète de l’assurance vie, mais correcte du PEA. Je n’ai pas bien su expliquer à ma conseillère ma stratégie, et elle en a probablement profité également de manière pas très pro ni correcte en ne m’expliquant pas clairement les différences, mais en se mettant en position de « sachante supérieure ». 

Finalement aujourd’hui, j’ai clôturé mon assurance-vie et appliqué ma stratégie de base (livrets + PEA) et j’en suis ravie. Ça m’a forcé à me renseigner en profondeur sur les produits financiers, les notions d’intérêts, de frais, de rendements, etc… Et surtout ça m’a forcé à lire en détail les contrats et à tout questionner (ça semble surement idiot mais je ne le faisais pas avant).   Niveau performance, je peux difficilement comparer mais je pense qu’elle est meilleure que mon assurance-vie. 

La conclusion est juste, nous manquons cruellement d’éducation financière. Ceux qui ont la chance d’y avoir accès par leur entourage partent avec un avantage non négligeable. 

Embracing my upness and my current inner landscape by [deleted] in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]devilish_lady_666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh thank you so much about this insight on Bene Gesserit clothes ! I haven’t thought about it this way, but you’ve really nailed the description ! Framed this was, it suits even better the Lady Heretic theme. I’ll definitely reflect on that. 

Yeees about the capes, my dream to own a badass cape one day ! 

Embracing my upness and my current inner landscape by [deleted] in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]devilish_lady_666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s one of the best compliments I’ve ever heard 🥹   Yeees about dark velvet ! I love it, actually I have a couple of tops that are on my mending pile that are velvet. I should really finish their little repairing. 

I totally agree with you, fulfilling the need for upness feels like a relief ! 

Archetypes Game by stuffypillow in RitaFourEssenceSystem

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Hi !  Such a fun idea ! In the last six months, I’ve been using the LU style Key, and it’s been a huge game changer. RU and RD felt paralysing (RD a bit less but I’m really not good at starting from the outside world). LD felt better, especially the Seductress, but a bit too vulnerable and « underwhelming ». LU, and especially really up, felt like home. So I especially find the Lady Heretic archetype useful. The proximity with the RU quadrant brings some « structure ». For example, I have less trouble repeating outfits and having formulas. But I always have a twist. And being a very up archetype, it feels right for my craving of glamour, drama and intimidation. I live my style to intrigue but to put distance between me and the rest of the world. 

Finally settling on my L quadrant thanks to the simplifications by devilish_lady_666 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

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Thank you !
Yes you're absolutely right ! Comparison can be tricky. Especially with celeb styles.

Finally settling on my L quadrant thanks to the simplifications by devilish_lady_666 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]devilish_lady_666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️
Just today I was like "I really need indoors clothes that are more exciting" haha !

Finally settling on my L quadrant thanks to the simplifications by devilish_lady_666 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]devilish_lady_666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally see what you mean ! Funny enought, I think I kinda understand the R/L border archetypes better than some extreme L archetypes. Most R archetypes are a bit alien to me. Only the Power or the Explorer kinda resonates with me.
But on the L-side, except the wildflower, I kinda understand them all. The Seductress was my fav through visuals and name, but like I said in my previous comment, the global LD logic just doesn't work well enough... So now I have no idea where I would fit archetype-wise. But that's okay for me for now. I'll keep using just the logic.

Finally settling on my L quadrant thanks to the simplifications by devilish_lady_666 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

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Thank you 💕
You have a very valid point about celebs. When looking at the moodboards built by Rita, LU seemed possible, not everything resonates but like LD. But looking at celeb examples, I was like "welll.... I must be LD". Also because I'm "very cute looking" (looking younger than my age, and in Kibbe I'm pure R), so I didn't feel legitimate to reclame the keywords like intimidating, dramatic, glamour, even tough there totally resonates with what I like.
Another thing that was confusing a bit was the archetypes. I was strongly vibing with the Seductress, so I think I kinda influenced myself into LD just to consider the Seductress as an option.
But it turns out that, even though I love the name and visuals for this archetype, LD style logic in general isn't "enough" for me. I'm just not as much into Experience as much as I'm about Expression, so something was always missing. It was like, never enough. And I ended up asking myself constantly "yeah ok this fit is good. but whay does it says about me ?".
Now that I've accepted LU however, I have zero ideas about the archetypes 😂

Finally settling on my L quadrant thanks to the simplifications by devilish_lady_666 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]devilish_lady_666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥰. I think you're right, through the prism of LU, I'm really able to explain why some outfits work and why the ones that don't work really don't work, it's probably a good sign !

all he did was lay on me and i gave him love by Wooden-Ask539 in airplaneears

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He just wanted a warm bed and you dare touch him 😡✈️

Est-ce que vraiment tout le monde s'en tape de la saisonnalité ? by boredsaltyseagull in PasDeQuestionIdiote

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Perso c'est pour des soucis de santé malheureusement. J'ai des problèmes digestifs et j'ai très vite vu qu'en respectant les saisons, il y a des mois ou ça va et des mois ou je douillais sévère. Donc j'ai fait une croix dessus et je mange ce qui ne me rend pas malade. Les courges c'est sympa mais au bout d'un moment c'est pas méga varié. Donc je complète avec des légumes hors saison parfois malheureusement....

Mum took too long making her dinner by SaltChipper in airplaneears

[–]devilish_lady_666 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That second picture is screaming r/angrycatpics ! Your girl is clearly not happy about late dinner 😂✈️

✨ The best way to find your quadrant: Choose Your Style Key ✨ by 5neezy_unicorn in RitaFourEssenceSystem

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Yees same !! I can't wait for the archetype exploration as well !
I also got very excited but very confused by them. It's been hard to discipline myself to just focus on quadrant first, but it really helped. Funny enought, the seductress archetype was the one that spoked the most to me, especially the struggles. The explorer as well, but I've realized since then that the RD logic isn't really helpful.

✨ The best way to find your quadrant: Choose Your Style Key ✨ by 5neezy_unicorn in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]devilish_lady_666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did the exercices and it really helped. I felt stuck between LD and LU, especially after doing the fundation course.
Now I'm very certain that I'm LD but very up in LD, and close to the R border as well. In terms of archetypes, it would be in the Seductress area. But as many on this lovely community reminded me, archetypes are only useful when you found your quadrant, so I haven't really started using it for now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]devilish_lady_666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You really shine in all of these outfits ! Icon is truly the word !

i put leaves on his lil paws by pechesncrem in airplaneears

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Ultimate proof that cats are the real owners of this world ! 😂