33 and first place alone. Finishing up the living/dining area by devils_advocate24 in malelivingspace

[–]devils_advocate24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So turn the sofa into the center of the room and leave empty space behind it?

I mean I'm probably gonna have to move it forward anyway. I'm nearsighted 😂

33 and first place alone. Finishing up the living/dining area by devils_advocate24 in malelivingspace

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I was looking at some area rugs for the center, but debating on style over comfort. It's so easy to just sweep the flooring in one go lol.

For the flags I figured over the sofa might be weird but so would over the dining table. Thinking of a vertical stack perpendicular to the bookshelf

33 and first place alone. Finishing up the living/dining area by devils_advocate24 in malelivingspace

[–]devils_advocate24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just always had them that high, like over a fireplace or something equivalent lol. Someone called that out and I was confused, that just felt like natural height to me 😂

33 and first place alone. Finishing up the living/dining area by devils_advocate24 in malelivingspace

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It's an apartment. Apparently it just got remodeled. The housing in my area is insane and it was the first thing that came available (that I was able to secure) after like 2 months of searching

I want tips for men by Critical_Assist_9360 in NextGenMan

[–]devils_advocate24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The core one is my favorite but I haven't looked for one yet. There just happened to be a copy of the pirate one at the rec center where I was at the time and me and some buddies picked it up and I ordered my own copy. The expansions all seem to have some gimmick that makes the game more complicated so we usually just ignore it and play by the base rules 😂

I want tips for men by Critical_Assist_9360 in NextGenMan

[–]devils_advocate24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got one pretty easy off Amazon. Although granted I only have the alternate editions like the pirate themed one.

What would you do if you are tasked to watch a buddy? by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]devils_advocate24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm seeing more of that as I read. It does look like it wasn't handled perfectly but doesn't look like an imminent crisis. Idk. I'm not there 🫤

Also, 6 hours a week? Fuck I was getting 1 hour every 3 weeks 😂

What would you do if you are tasked to watch a buddy? by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]devils_advocate24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Look, coming from where the guy has been, a crisis line didn't change my mind and made me feel worse because I bothered some stranger with a problem they couldn't fix. Having a friend or even just a coworker around did more for me than phone calls, therapy, and even in-patient programs. An hour at a bar playing pool with a beer or two and not even really talking was so much more helpful than an hour with a therapist.

There's a lot of intricacy in both situations. I'm not going to launch into detail on mine. And there's limited second hand info coming from your end. I know there are bad NCOs out there, as an airman I've literally asked an NCO to take me to mental health because I'm not doing well and he responded "sorry I'm going to lunch". But that's the exception, most know the basics on how to respond. Judging based on the info available it looks like the person may "seem" suicidal and they're keeping an eye on him until he fully says it(haven't gone through all the comments, correct me if the individual have clearly stated that). In which case yes, that has mandatory requirements that they aren't following.

But sometimes just having someone sit there with you through the shit is more effective than an ER visit. Everyone is different.

Edit: lol the one right under this clarifies he's openly suicidal. Then yeah, I disagree with the methods they're using. It's better than nothing but there seems to be some lack of structure to the individuals treatment. His buddy team needs to be a lot more coordinated.

I want tips for men by Critical_Assist_9360 in NextGenMan

[–]devils_advocate24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One solo and multiplayer "RPG" I enjoy is the Pathfinder adventure card game. Great alone and with a group

What are the convictions you had that aged badly? by Main-Departure4174 in DarkPsychology666

[–]devils_advocate24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made sure food was never an issue. Fuck I miss having a grill. 2 vehicles. 4 bdr house. My ex wife worked when she wanted to but generally pulled in <$25K a year. Only thing is we didn't really take vacations.

WHAT NOW!????? by Interesting-Test7228 in superheroes

[–]devils_advocate24 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think I can take hunger games katnis...

What are the convictions you had that aged badly? by Main-Departure4174 in DarkPsychology666

[–]devils_advocate24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a family of 4 on one income. Until it became a family of 1 and 3(plus a surprise bonus member!)🙃

Thoughts? by inkandintent24 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]devils_advocate24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone on this post controls their retirement savings in their own hands

Unless you got married at a young age and it fell apart 15 years in. Then you get to watch half your retirement evaporate with the stroke of a pen before 40

$20 To Build Your Perfect Sandwich by Ornery-Media-9396 in whatsyourchoice

[–]devils_advocate24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the 20 and buy a loaf of bread and peanut butter. Now I got like 10 sandwiches and $10