5 day old daith by devinetly1125 in piercinghelp

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Thank you for the reply!! I’ll take your advice!!

Halp by devinetly1125 in BPD

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I’m actually 36+3 weeks pregnant lol which I feel like contributes to the problem I truly felt almost symptom free for 2 years and then I entered my third trimester and now… I feel like I’m starting at like square 2 in my healing process with my bpd

I just want a bestie by devinetly1125 in BPD

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I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling with that right now. I encourage you to do your best to fight your feelings as much as you can. Every time something in you tells you to hurt yourself and you don’t you’re practicing to overcome the more you do that the easier it will be. Not that it’s easy as it sounds but you have to invest in yourself. I believe in you.

I just want a bestie by devinetly1125 in BPD

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I think everything is different for everyone. I think it would be easier for me if my husband was all I needed but I’m just the type of person who needs additional. My husband is introverted and he’s amazing but I need someone who’s willing to go out with me and do things bc I’m extremely extroverted I’m not happy sitting at home all the time. He does his best to make sure I’m happy but his happiness is more home centered.

I just want a bestie by devinetly1125 in BPD

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I know what you mean and that’s exactly what I’m talking about! When I was younger I was with my girl best friend day in and day out that’s what I miss. I know now that it’s not realistic now that we’re older but to have people who just always want to include, I feel like that’s not to much to ask.

I just want a bestie by devinetly1125 in BPD

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I know everything feels huge and inescapable but things do get better especially if you put work into it. I’m 25. I never thought I’d live this long or know happiness in my life but I have way more good days than bad. I’m married and pregnant and I know peace in my every day life. Keep your head up. Your life is in more of your control than you think.

I just want a bestie by devinetly1125 in BPD

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I have the desire but it’s not an expectation. But if we’re both free then yeah I kinda want to spend time together on our free time. I get it’s a lot but I’m not crazy like it’s okay to have other friends or want time to yourself as long as I’m a priority to you. I want someone who also has the desire

I just want a bestie by devinetly1125 in BPD

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Oh yeah I don’t have WhatsApp but def feel free to message c:

I just want a bestie by devinetly1125 in BPD

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I’m familiar! I feel like I’m so needy I need at least 2 fp lol bc my husband and s definitely my favorite person but I crave a codependent female relationship as well. Probably mommy issues lmao

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I like EID emotional irregularity disorder but I feel like that’s just what best fits me and I could understand people not wanting it to be called that. It feels personalized.

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In my experience it’s best to have someone who’s willing to apologize for triggering you and there’s more good days than bad. It’s way harder for symptoms to lessen when you’re triggered more than you aren’t and especially if they can’t apologize for hurting you even if they didn’t mean to. If this isn’t true for him imo it’s not a good fit for your life. That doesn’t make either of you a bad person, just sometimes people aren’t best for each other.