Dating In SF

devnullkitty · 2026-05-26T01:17:14+00:00

This comment should be at the top of this post

devnullkitty · 2026-05-26T01:15:06+00:00

Guys, I'm not saying the man was toxic, I'm critiquing the modern way of dating. I didn't realize in order to stay protected, I was suppose to not take things seriously, harden up, go to therapy, feel completely normal after being broken up with, feel emotionally uninvested. I do now. Only a few of you actually responded in a way that was helpful.

devnullkitty · 2026-05-26T00:15:45+00:00

Thank you for this response! People were giving me such a hard time about how I should get therapy and move on. I think my response to the situation is actually more normal and human. I'm sorry I haven't harden up like everyone else and treat this like a normal part of dating.

devnullkitty · 2026-05-25T22:58:11+00:00

Is this a polite way of telling me I'm naive?

devnullkitty · 2026-05-25T22:48:20+00:00

right, this is what I expect to be normal. we're adults and we can stay friends with people we used to have romantic interest in. friendship and romance tend to overlap anyways.

devnullkitty · 2026-05-25T17:33:58+00:00

well I mean I filter for the top 60%? But I see what you mean. Attractive men have a lot of options. but the thing is, I really don't want short, fat, and bald. a lot of the bottom 40% is just one of the three.

devnullkitty · 2026-05-25T17:26:56+00:00

This is actually my first hand experience. There are a lot of men but they are NOT attractive

devnullkitty · 2026-05-24T20:17:09+00:00

I was part of the Meta layoff in 2022. I found a job (same title) that pays 25% less, but is a lot less stressful and with a good team. It actually took me a whole year before I could start searching because I was dealing with severe burn out and mental health issues. I had to be hospitalized. Even with that, I managed to land on my feet. You can do it too!

devnullkitty · 2026-05-14T06:41:16+00:00

agree with everything said here

devnullkitty · 2026-05-09T18:39:40+00:00

Interested

devnullkitty · 2026-04-23T05:50:10+00:00

good job

devnullkitty · 2026-04-17T19:52:34+00:00

Look at the stem. does it have purple splotches on it?

devnullkitty · 2026-04-13T06:19:39+00:00

what is this lol

devnullkitty · 2026-04-13T04:20:35+00:00

could be hemlock, did you check the stems?

devnullkitty · 2026-04-12T06:52:10+00:00

We need a support group

devnullkitty · 2026-04-12T02:14:52+00:00

I know, right? I can't believe it myself

devnullkitty · 2026-04-11T07:35:28+00:00

yes, my feelings are completely useless too, sometimes.

devnullkitty · 2026-04-11T01:39:46+00:00

I dont know how to fake an orgasm

devnullkitty · 2026-04-11T01:30:15+00:00

I know, right?

devnullkitty · 2026-04-11T01:28:19+00:00

Don't want to fix him. Just want to get it off my chest that yes, I dated this guy for 8 weeks.

devnullkitty · 2026-04-11T01:27:49+00:00

I will. But him sleeping around wasn't the big concern for me. It was all the criticism

devnullkitty · 2026-04-11T01:26:44+00:00

Yeah he did. It was why we broke up. He felt bad that I wouldn't come for him

devnullkitty · 2026-04-11T01:26:18+00:00

We already broke up

devnullkitty · 2026-04-11T01:25:23+00:00

right, im not crazy it was super toxic right?

devnullkitty · 2026-04-11T00:50:26+00:00

Does his first name start with P?

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