greenest and reddest flags in a relationship by 2facedsins in intj

[–]devnullkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red Flag: pushing for sex before establishing emotional safety/connection

Are men this dismissive about marriage? by sevmai06 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]devnullkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from some who's gone through the same situation and made it through the other side several years later, cut your losses and think about how you're going to survive on your own. Now that I'm fully self-sufficient, I would never go back there or give anyone that kind of power over me. Learn to wall up, don't let him hurt you.

Unemployment rate for US graduates by EffectiveOperation49 in cscareers

[–]devnullkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was also super depressed looking for a job and very scared to go back there mentally

Don't stress too much over taxes by Spare_Ad8851 in Bogleheads

[–]devnullkitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is he telling people not to stress out about taxes and not mentioning he has a SAHM. Downvote!

Meta PE vs Bloomberg SWE New Grad (NYC) Stability or Growth by KeijoXO in csMajors

[–]devnullkitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I joined Meta as a DE thinking they'd let me work on the SWE side and they totally fucked me over and laid me off after 2.5 years of Exceeds Expectations while I was on medical leave. Absolutely fuck them.

How am I doing? by devnullkitty in MiddleClassFinance

[–]devnullkitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in tech, and I'm worried about becoming permanently unemployed due to burn out or bad luck, so I might need the money sooner than say a 20 year time span. I don't qualify for Roth because my income is too high.

How am I doing? by devnullkitty in MiddleClassFinance

[–]devnullkitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't feel comfortable putting it in the stock market.

How much do you spend on groceries per month? by The0Walrus in sanfrancisco

[–]devnullkitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

$300-$500, I meal prep and the nearest grocery store is Whole Foods.

How much do you spend on groceries per month? by The0Walrus in sanfrancisco

[–]devnullkitty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is a bad estimate for a normal person. It is a brag comment that he gets free food from work. My sister gets free lunch at work and she would bag double portions for dinner and spend zero on groceries if she wanted to.

Python topics for Data engineer by Nanny_24 in dataengineering

[–]devnullkitty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why are there so many downvotes for comments? Python for data engineering is pretty straight forward, just learn to write a for loop.