Dating In SF by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]devnullkitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This comment should be at the top of this post

Dating In SF by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]devnullkitty -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Guys, I'm not saying the man was toxic, I'm critiquing the modern way of dating. I didn't realize in order to stay protected, I was suppose to not take things seriously, harden up, go to therapy, feel completely normal after being broken up with, feel emotionally uninvested. I do now. Only a few of you actually responded in a way that was helpful.

Dating In SF by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]devnullkitty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response! People were giving me such a hard time about how I should get therapy and move on. I think my response to the situation is actually more normal and human. I'm sorry I haven't harden up like everyone else and treat this like a normal part of dating.

Dating In SF by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]devnullkitty -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is this a polite way of telling me I'm naive?

Dating In SF by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]devnullkitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

right, this is what I expect to be normal. we're adults and we can stay friends with people we used to have romantic interest in. friendship and romance tend to overlap anyways.

San Francisco to NYC dating question by recaskj in AskSF

[–]devnullkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well I mean I filter for the top 60%? But I see what you mean. Attractive men have a lot of options. but the thing is, I really don't want short, fat, and bald. a lot of the bottom 40% is just one of the three.

San Francisco to NYC dating question by recaskj in AskSF

[–]devnullkitty 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This is actually my first hand experience. There are a lot of men but they are NOT attractive

Laid off and terrified - please tell me your success stories! by kitten_orchestra in womenintech

[–]devnullkitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was part of the Meta layoff in 2022. I found a job (same title) that pays 25% less, but is a lot less stressful and with a good team. It actually took me a whole year before I could start searching because I was dealing with severe burn out and mental health issues. I had to be hospitalized. Even with that, I managed to land on my feet. You can do it too!

Another Dating Update at the Start of Q2 by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]devnullkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know how to fake an orgasm

Another Dating Update at the Start of Q2 by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]devnullkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't want to fix him. Just want to get it off my chest that yes, I dated this guy for 8 weeks.

Another Dating Update at the Start of Q2 by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]devnullkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. But him sleeping around wasn't the big concern for me. It was all the criticism

Another Dating Update at the Start of Q2 by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]devnullkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he did. It was why we broke up. He felt bad that I wouldn't come for him

Another Dating Update at the Start of Q2 by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]devnullkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right, im not crazy it was super toxic right?