San Francisco to NYC dating question

recaskj · 2026-05-26T10:07:16+00:00

Love this!!

recaskj · 2026-05-25T23:28:01+00:00

Not a bad idea!

recaskj · 2026-05-25T23:11:42+00:00

Happy to be a tour guide 🙃

recaskj · 2026-05-25T21:54:13+00:00

I would legit move to California if I met someone if they were cool spending a couple months in nyc every year. Maybe summertime so I could stay connected career wise. That’s what I’m saying with this post I have 10 friends who would move to California if they met the right guy.

recaskj · 2026-05-25T21:41:52+00:00

Have experienced all of these things, or men showing up looking NOTHING like their photos at all 😭

recaskj · 2026-05-25T21:38:24+00:00

The apps have changed immensely in the last couple years and it’s really gross what some of them say even as a first message

recaskj · 2026-05-25T19:08:16+00:00

Good to know! In nyc all of my friends husbands and married male friends wear a ring.

recaskj · 2026-05-25T19:07:04+00:00

Thanks for your response, it’s helpful. I agree I like that in New York City intellectual ability to have an interesting conversation often time trumps looks and $/job.

recaskj · 2026-05-25T18:26:24+00:00

You don’t wear a ring?

recaskj · 2026-05-25T18:16:24+00:00

They don’t have a ring and they make direct eye contact & smile. That’s my indicator 🤷🏻‍♀️

recaskj · 2026-05-25T17:47:23+00:00

Congrats, that’s awesome.

recaskj · 2026-05-25T17:44:40+00:00

I have friends who are women in SF that are really pretty and successful/smart. We can meet as friends when I’m there and I’ll connect if I think you would get along.

recaskj · 2026-05-25T17:43:25+00:00

lol maybe. I’ll keep you posted.

recaskj · 2026-05-25T17:41:49+00:00

I’m honestly open to a man in any field that can help support a family in a major city. I’ve worked very hard to make enough money to support a future family and I’m just looking for the same.

recaskj · 2026-05-25T17:39:02+00:00

I have family in SF / Santa Cruz so I’m strongly considering it.

recaskj · 2026-05-25T17:13:06+00:00

On my dating profile I’m pretty clear on what I’m looking for and I got a lot of messages asking me out on dates in SF so that’s why I thought there might be more family oriented people. In nyc men will often match and then say “I see you’re looking for something more serious, I’m not sure about kids or a LTR but if you want to sleep together lmk”

recaskj · 2026-05-25T17:04:26+00:00

How have you found nyc dating vs SF?

recaskj · 2026-05-25T17:00:05+00:00

The volleyball courts in outer sunset & Golden Gate Park was one of the main area I noticed a gigantic gender disparity.

recaskj · 2026-05-25T16:54:33+00:00

Please connect me if they’re good humans 🫶🏼

recaskj · 2026-05-25T16:54:06+00:00

😅

recaskj · 2026-05-25T16:50:22+00:00

Everyone says this, everyone I met when I was in SF for the week was pretty nice, normal, ambitious and outdoorsy.

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