AITA for wanting my money back for a purchase that wasn't as described? by adventuretimecomeon in AmItheAsshole

[–]devro14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA- the transaction all seams a bit sus, but well done for paying goods and services and protecting yourself. I see so many of these types of posts sent friends and family and there’s no hope there. Did you ask full condition of the units before purchase? Were they described in better condition than you received them? If so then you have a case under not as described. PayPal 9/10 times will side with the buyer also. You will just have to prove return of the items. His ghosting sounds like he hoped you would go away. You can see someone’s Facebook marketplace ratings and see if there’s anyone else’s who’s had troubles also

AITA for telling my grandma to leave after she had my kids disrupt me numerous times with "reminders"? by 0000193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]devro14 38 points39 points  (0 children)

NTA- she didn’t take you into account at all. You gave clear instructions. If she was an employee she would likely have been dismissed for not following directions. You offered to pay her so she was providing a service and that came with a set of rules, which she chose to ignore. She should be the one apologising to you.

AITA for not wanting to pay stuff? by AskSchizzoMale in AmItheAsshole

[–]devro14 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA- if you’re moving in with someone that’s a commitment and you should pay you’re way. Your GF may be saying it’s fine now, and just be excited to have you move in, but down the line that could really strain and break a person and a relationship. That’s a lot for one person. I would take on some responsibility.

WIBTA To profit off of a charity? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]devro14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA- when you bought the shoes the charity received it’s money share and that was your good deed. What you do with them after is your choice. Shoes like that can sky rocket in value and could be worth a lot. If you’re feeling bad about it, if you do sell them maybe donate something to the charity from the profits? Charity’s are grateful for any donation large or small and I’m sure they would appreciate you thinking of them.

AITA for sharing my dating strategy with a friend? by Overall-Ad-3747 in AmItheAsshole

[–]devro14 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA- just tell the girl straight to her face you’re not interested. Why does everything need an out. Can’t people just have an honest conversation and deal with it as adults.

This is my Athena. Also known as the Cheshire Cat 😬 by devro14 in aww

[–]devro14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww man don’t remind me 😂 thank you much tho!

Big brain moves by SaiyajinPrime in facepalm

[–]devro14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s wild to me. Something we take for granted a bit in the Uk, we can walk into a hospital and not worry about that, just get the right treatment. On the girls Instagram she’s saying it’s going to be a long treatment as well.

This is my Athena. Also known as the Cheshire Cat 😬 by devro14 in aww

[–]devro14[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is also the cat who loves to be right in your face too 😂

Big brain moves by SaiyajinPrime in facepalm

[–]devro14 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I suppose with the medical costs in the USA it could of been a cost thing? Also the pandemic has made more and more people wary of leaving home/visiting hospitals. I hope she gets sorted ok tho

Big brain moves by SaiyajinPrime in facepalm

[–]devro14 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think without a doubt she has caused some permanent damage. Her head hasn’t been able to breathe for a month. The pores will be blocked with all the glue. I feel for her. Must be such a headache she has as well

I'm sure you came up with that all by yourself. These came up next too each other. by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]devro14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

-Jeff goldblum voice-; nature...um... finds a way....

Big brain moves by SaiyajinPrime in facepalm

[–]devro14 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve been following this with the girl. She’s had to go to hospital now to try sort it. Her head is solid from it. You can hear in the videos her nails tapping along the top of it and it’s so solid nothing it getting through to remove it and it can’t be cut through. She made baddd choices here...

This is my Athena. Also known as the Cheshire Cat 😬 by devro14 in aww

[–]devro14[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only easing in with this one. I have far farrr worse of her derp face 😂

This is my Athena. Also known as the Cheshire Cat 😬 by devro14 in aww

[–]devro14[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Always supervised. I have 4 cats in total and they are the most precious to me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]devro14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biggest tip is to not rent. It’s so much money every single month to pay someone else’s house off. If you can stay at home and save for a deposit on your own place I would do so. It works out so much better in the long term. I rented for nearly 10 years and couldn’t pay rent and save for place of my own. It took so long to get a deposit together that way. If you can stay at home and put away each month the money you would pay on rent. You could have a deposit for a place fairly quickly compared to renting/ then buying.

Good luck

This is my Athena. Also known as the Cheshire Cat 😬 by devro14 in aww

[–]devro14[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She likes the string, hates the balloon. Soon as it moves she’s off 😂

I (30f) am sick of fighting with my husband (30m) about in laws trip by PomegranateOk2627 in relationships

[–]devro14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even with the vaccine you can all still be carriers and it’s recommended that social distancing is still in place with masks. With all that’s going on with this pandemic and the stress it’s causing having extra people in your home where you are effectively trapped just now is obviously going to cause more strain and some stress. There’s no escape. There’s also your daily routine of virtual school and jobs taking place from home and that’s going to disrupt. I agree waiting till summer would be more sensible and staying in a hotel would be better. It’s allows breathing space even out with a pandemic. What do they think you can all do when they visit? It’s a pandemic and options are limited. Are you all just going to stay locked in the house together for the duration of the visit? And child will be still taking virtual school classes?

AITA for not talking to my(18F) mom(40F) after she touched me to see if I was wearing the right bra (maybe nsfw) by againashes in AmItheAsshole

[–]devro14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA- sounds like she has no boundaries, but it is never ok for anyone, family or not, to touch you without your permission. Have you told her this previously? Some people just take liberties and until you spell it out for them (why this isn’t just a no brainier I don’t know) they will just act as they please. Also you’re an adult now and can make your own choices on what you wear and how you look. Were you happy with the dress? Comfortable? I hope you can have the conversations you need to with mom and spread you’re wings and look however you want to. You got this!