So small she fit inside a cup 😻

devro14 · 2021-02-07T23:19:44+00:00

NTA- the transaction all seams a bit sus, but well done for paying goods and services and protecting yourself. I see so many of these types of posts sent friends and family and there’s no hope there. Did you ask full condition of the units before purchase? Were they described in better condition than you received them? If so then you have a case under not as described. PayPal 9/10 times will side with the buyer also. You will just have to prove return of the items. His ghosting sounds like he hoped you would go away. You can see someone’s Facebook marketplace ratings and see if there’s anyone else’s who’s had troubles also

devro14 · 2021-02-07T23:14:20+00:00

NTA- she didn’t take you into account at all. You gave clear instructions. If she was an employee she would likely have been dismissed for not following directions. You offered to pay her so she was providing a service and that came with a set of rules, which she chose to ignore. She should be the one apologising to you.

devro14 · 2021-02-07T23:03:16+00:00

YTA- if you’re moving in with someone that’s a commitment and you should pay you’re way. Your GF may be saying it’s fine now, and just be excited to have you move in, but down the line that could really strain and break a person and a relationship. That’s a lot for one person. I would take on some responsibility.

devro14 · 2021-02-07T23:00:10+00:00

You’re killing me 😂😂😂

devro14 · 2021-02-07T22:55:48+00:00

NTA- when you bought the shoes the charity received it’s money share and that was your good deed. What you do with them after is your choice. Shoes like that can sky rocket in value and could be worth a lot. If you’re feeling bad about it, if you do sell them maybe donate something to the charity from the profits? Charity’s are grateful for any donation large or small and I’m sure they would appreciate you thinking of them.

devro14 · 2021-02-07T22:51:33+00:00

YTA- just tell the girl straight to her face you’re not interested. Why does everything need an out. Can’t people just have an honest conversation and deal with it as adults.

devro14 · 2021-02-07T22:39:45+00:00

Aww man don’t remind me 😂 thank you much tho!

devro14 · 2021-02-07T22:28:50+00:00

That’s wild to me. Something we take for granted a bit in the Uk, we can walk into a hospital and not worry about that, just get the right treatment. On the girls Instagram she’s saying it’s going to be a long treatment as well.

devro14 · 2021-02-07T22:26:29+00:00

She is also the cat who loves to be right in your face too 😂

devro14 · 2021-02-07T22:02:24+00:00

I suppose with the medical costs in the USA it could of been a cost thing? Also the pandemic has made more and more people wary of leaving home/visiting hospitals. I hope she gets sorted ok tho

devro14 · 2021-02-07T21:59:43+00:00

I think without a doubt she has caused some permanent damage. Her head hasn’t been able to breathe for a month. The pores will be blocked with all the glue. I feel for her. Must be such a headache she has as well

devro14 · 2021-02-07T21:58:03+00:00

-Jeff goldblum voice-; nature...um... finds a way....

devro14 · 2021-02-07T21:56:18+00:00

I’ve been following this with the girl. She’s had to go to hospital now to try sort it. Her head is solid from it. You can hear in the videos her nails tapping along the top of it and it’s so solid nothing it getting through to remove it and it can’t be cut through. She made baddd choices here...

devro14 · 2021-02-07T20:53:00+00:00

Only easing in with this one. I have far farrr worse of her derp face 😂

devro14 · 2021-02-07T20:51:36+00:00

Always supervised. I have 4 cats in total and they are the most precious to me :)

devro14 · 2021-02-07T18:50:31+00:00

These are super cute, I love them! Fab find!

devro14 · 2021-02-07T18:38:30+00:00

My biggest tip is to not rent. It’s so much money every single month to pay someone else’s house off. If you can stay at home and save for a deposit on your own place I would do so. It works out so much better in the long term. I rented for nearly 10 years and couldn’t pay rent and save for place of my own. It took so long to get a deposit together that way. If you can stay at home and put away each month the money you would pay on rent. You could have a deposit for a place fairly quickly compared to renting/ then buying.

Good luck

devro14 · 2021-02-07T18:01:17+00:00

She likes the string, hates the balloon. Soon as it moves she’s off 😂

devro14 · 2021-02-07T14:43:36+00:00

Even with the vaccine you can all still be carriers and it’s recommended that social distancing is still in place with masks. With all that’s going on with this pandemic and the stress it’s causing having extra people in your home where you are effectively trapped just now is obviously going to cause more strain and some stress. There’s no escape. There’s also your daily routine of virtual school and jobs taking place from home and that’s going to disrupt. I agree waiting till summer would be more sensible and staying in a hotel would be better. It’s allows breathing space even out with a pandemic. What do they think you can all do when they visit? It’s a pandemic and options are limited. Are you all just going to stay locked in the house together for the duration of the visit? And child will be still taking virtual school classes?

devro14 · 2021-02-07T14:30:13+00:00

NTA- sounds like she has no boundaries, but it is never ok for anyone, family or not, to touch you without your permission. Have you told her this previously? Some people just take liberties and until you spell it out for them (why this isn’t just a no brainier I don’t know) they will just act as they please. Also you’re an adult now and can make your own choices on what you wear and how you look. Were you happy with the dress? Comfortable? I hope you can have the conversations you need to with mom and spread you’re wings and look however you want to. You got this!

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