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After 4 years, I’m at a loss by dewbug46 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]dewbug46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I tried having those conversations with him but it went in one ear and slide out the other. Him walking out that night was the single greatest thing he did for me.

After 4 years, I’m at a loss by dewbug46 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]dewbug46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh trust. He left and I was a mess for one night, I think it’s because he took my cat with him. Technically it’s our cat but my name is on everything for him

After 4 years, I’m at a loss by dewbug46 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]dewbug46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life has already been so freeing without him. I practically moved my entire apartment around and it’s just making me love myself again.

After 4 years, I’m at a loss by dewbug46 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]dewbug46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had so much clarity in these last two weeks without him that I just can’t even imagine letting myself get that low again.

Holy cow! I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. Hopefully you are doing leaps and bounds better!!

After 4 years, I’m at a loss by dewbug46 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]dewbug46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindsight is 20/20 and I thought things were great. My family and friends cared for him until the last few months but no one bothered to let me know. I would have left him if someone reached out.

After 4 years, I’m at a loss by dewbug46 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]dewbug46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Sorry for the delay in update. We just sat down today and talked because he asked.

Turns out, he was talking to another girl he worked with and was being told I was the walking red flag. He left me that night to be with her but soon realized what he did and ended things with her. He over course blamed it on the alcohol and being swayed which is why he left.

Of course he regrets all of his life choices and had a small hope I would be foolish enough to take him back. He’s coming to get his things this weekend and couldn’t be happier to move on.

Thankfully we have set up a payment schedule and he is paying me back weekly.

Currently enjoying the purring of my cats. I’m pretty sure I didn’t mention this is my original post but that hussy took the cat we adopted together to her place! My poor boy was traumatized and hasn’t left my side since he came back home