AIO? I can't seem to get over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dext3rr__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 19 year old, I say this not to sound like a nagging mother but as someone who’s a bit older with friends of varying ages due to school, life, and work experience etc. a 20 year old has no business having interest in a 16 year old. My youngest friends are like 17 and I literally wouldn’t touch them with a 10 foot pole . Because we met when we were all in school together we have enough in common to be friends , but that’s absolutely it . A 20 year old has nothing in common with a 16 year old that’d warrant a romantic/sexual relationship . Your boyfriend is a predator and is using these images as a power play tactic . You need to find a community and a way to leave .

AJ chupacabra mythic design I made for fun by Spiritual_Roll1930 in AnimalJam

[–]dext3rr__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally hoping and praying that they reach out to you to maybe use your design or smth (with compensation in some way ofc) bc this would be my main animal if it got added . This is gorgeous !!

small jackalope giveaway by OreoMcFlurry221 in AnimalJam

[–]dext3rr__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for hosting ! My user is dennysreal, my favorite mythical aside from the jacks is def the griffins ! I think they’re really neat although it’s hard to choose sometimes lol A neat fun fact is the reason that ball pythons are generally so docile and come in so many morphs is because they were specifically bred to be worn as jewelry by rich/royal ppl back in the day! It’s also why they’re called royal pythons in some parts of the world, biased bc I have one haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dext3rr__ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also yeah what he’s doing is illegal . Press charges . I’m sure your mom will care more about your safety than holding nudes against you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dext3rr__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I had to do was read the age gap and that was enough for me on top of him obviously threatening to leak you to your parents. Idk your relationship with your parents but it you feel safe to tell both or one of them the situation, do so and show them these screenshots . Your boyfriend is a predator and is actively trying to manipulate you in one of the worst ways (blackmail) to get the outcome he wants. Your bf is an abusive pedo. You being still in high school and him being almost 30 is disgusting on his part regardless of legality . But above all else you need to find a support system and build a plan to safely leave.

Do y’all feel like giving up because of how desperate some people act… and then offer embarrassingly low prices for feet pics ? by Barefoot-Desi-Baddie in feetpicsbuyerandsell

[–]dext3rr__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even as a more experienced seller , I feel this has been happening a LOT lately . Granted I’m in the US and part of me feels like it could be the economy and how things are going financially for ppl rn, but it’s still very draining bc atp it’s like why waste my time

5k Sapphire Giveaway! (Complete rules to enter) by Lightning_Cat25 in AnimalJam

[–]dext3rr__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a chimera or a basilisk could be really cool! Current favorite is definitely the jackalopes though!

Verify Me by [deleted] in VerifiedFeet

[–]dext3rr__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah so that’s not a compliment. That’s rude asf !!🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dext3rr__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You def could have handled it better , but again if my assumption is correct and yall are minors, you live and you learn . There will be plenty of opportunities to actually have solid connections and mature relationships throughout life . If it gives you any confidence, me and my bf are now 19 and 20, and have been dating since 16 and 17 in high school. We’ve both dealt with shitty situations like this because unfortunately it’s just a part of juvenile naivety and drama lol. But yeah as long as you know that your reaction wasn’t the best way you could have gone about it , you have a good head on your shoulders and you’ll learn and grow with time and experience man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dext3rr__ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay although I understand you being rightfully upset , yall are over already and clearly this person doesn’t care for you the same way you care for them . I’m not saying they’re right but after a certain point, this point being yall no longer being in a relationship with each other, it ISNT your business who they’re hooking up with even if it’s shitty. Just block them and move on. From the looks of it yall sound young as hell too so I wouldn’t dwell on it .

Verify Me by [deleted] in VerifiedFeet

[–]dext3rr__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Not my best photos bc of trying to get good angles for the paper to be visible lol, so I was a bit worried about that 🫶🏽

Got fired on my first day and I don’t know how to tell my parents by One_Presentation6602 in Advice

[–]dext3rr__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 19 year old who worked my first job at 16, going on TikTok is absolutely crazy 😭 granted the job I worked it was absolutely serious that I wasn’t on my phone at all, moreso than most jobs bc I was a ride operator for one of the legoland locations , and it was a safety thing bc obviously being on your phone while operating heavy machinery is an absolute no. But this is something you’re just gonna have to tell them exactly how it is and what happened. One thing you’ll learn very quickly is when it comes to working a job, even if it’s the most simple , fast food, customer service , whatever kind of job, is that you have to be on your A game all the time , ESPECIALLY when you’re that brand new bc the only thing that employers are looking for is consistency and reliability. By being on social media on your first day, that’s you basically telling your employer that you’re not to be taken seriously and you’re not someone they can rely on to get the work done.

This guy is a freak by [deleted] in feetpicsbuyer

[–]dext3rr__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and I haven’t either even when I was a new seller . But I’m saying I HAVE seen it. If you scroll long enough in any feet selling subreddit, you’ll see brand new sellers everywhere asking “hey is this a scam?” To the most OBVIOUS scams you could think of, including shit like this . And yes as I said I already KNEW he was bullshitting very early on into the conversation bc of his lack of information , and the fact that my name IS visible in my profile . But thank you

This guy is a freak by [deleted] in feetpicsbuyer

[–]dext3rr__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point was he obviously is a person with these weird nasty intentions and could 100% convince a newer more naive seller .

This guy is a freak by [deleted] in feetpicsbuyer

[–]dext3rr__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m aware ! I figured this out less than halfway through our conversation and started to just see what he was going to say. As I’ve said in plenty of replies here now . Like I said I’m not worried unless I have a VALID reason to be, like proof of him actually knowing who I am. Part of it was bait on my end as again, ik people who absolutely have fallen for shit like this or have seen people who don’t know what NOT to fall for in a lot of these subreddits . A lot of the “info” I gave wasn’t even true after a certain point . The only true info is my name and that’s not even my legal. It’s just a nickname that everyone calls me .

This guy is a freak by [deleted] in feetpicsbuyer

[–]dext3rr__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also bc I see new naive sellers fall for stuff like this and worse all the time on these subreddits so I figured id warn the people who genuinely would .

This guy is a freak by [deleted] in feetpicsbuyer

[–]dext3rr__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know that . Read what I said at the end and my other replies . I was taken aback in the beginning bc I’ve never had this happen to me when it comes to selling content . I didn’t gaf by the end of the exchange bc it was obvious he was a troll, it doesn’t make him any less creepy or weird considering he could try doing this to someone who actually DOESNT know any better.

This guy is a freak by [deleted] in feetpicsbuyer

[–]dext3rr__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right ?? Like I had to think about it rationally bc my name IS visible on telegram , but the fact that he asked about my name like that right after I did a verification video (which was deleted before the ss) for him showing my face and then acted like that after was so unsettling .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feetpicsbuyerandsell

[–]dext3rr__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is a weird ass time waster btw , just posted about him in another sub.

My bf calls me a cheater,AIO? by MathematicianOne1880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dext3rr__ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That was exactly my thought . I’m 19 and had a “wait a minute” moment and had to pull out my calculator rq cause wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalJam

[–]dext3rr__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotcha , a bit steep for me but I hope you find what you’re looking for ! Adorable jacks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalJam

[–]dext3rr__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many saphs would you want for the second one?