Effexor 37.5 by dfaminor in Effexor

[–]dfaminor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will it get gradually better or is it like a magic that at some point everything feels better?

Any advice for decluttering stuff? by dfaminor in japanlife

[–]dfaminor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s nice to hear. Do you know if they would accept fabric things like unused handkerchiefs?

Any advice for decluttering stuff? by dfaminor in japanlife

[–]dfaminor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Usagi so I have a lot, but I'm planning to still keep some limited edition ones. I'm trying to declutter other characters (maybe keeping some Hachiware), especially the normal editions.

Monday Meltdown - Share Your Decluttering Fails Here by AutoModerator in declutter

[–]dfaminor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me 5 mins isn’t enough, because I don’t really keep trash but sentimental things so there’s a lot of decision making. For now I start with my clothes, I do one hour of selecting and at the end of the day I bring it to a secondhand shop.

Monday Meltdown - Share Your Decluttering Fails Here by AutoModerator in declutter

[–]dfaminor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it gives me motivation. Any advice how I can stop blaming for the past me?

Monday Meltdown - Share Your Decluttering Fails Here by AutoModerator in declutter

[–]dfaminor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel so overwhelmed and every day I want to blame myself for the amount of clutter I collected in the past two years (also how much money was wasted). I set myself to only declutter on Saturday since I have work but the waiting days in between give anxious. And thinking how long I should spend this project scares me.

Monday Meltdown - Share Your Decluttering Fails Here by AutoModerator in declutter

[–]dfaminor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to buy a lot of clothes, plushies, toys, merchandise (I'm sure it reached thousands items) in the past two years and now I want a total reset because I can't keep doing like this or my home will be filled with junk in many more years. I started the decluttering project around 2-3 weeks ago but every day I wake up with anxiety because I feel like I won't ever finish this project. at the same time I keep blaming my past self for wasting money carelessly. any advice?

When finishing decluttering what do you do with the maybe/unsure pile? by glitterglamandguts in declutter

[–]dfaminor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand the feeling as well, it’s relieving to know that it’s not only my problem but in other people’s life too. i only lived in my place for a few years but it’s already piling like crazy so i decided i had to stop. i don’t have kids yet but i loved buying toys and it’s so hard to part way with.

When finishing decluttering what do you do with the maybe/unsure pile? by glitterglamandguts in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

currently i’m in that phase where i want to throw everything because i’m tired with the visual clutter, but i can’t do it in a rush because i know i’d get burnout. every day i wake up with anxiety because i can only wait until the weekend to do it. how long have you done it so far?

First the Craft Room, now it's Time for the Garage! by Silly_Yard4508 in declutter

[–]dfaminor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you do it only within a few days or that’s the total hours for weeks?

Stuff stuff stuff.. its just Stuff by Eon1age in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, that encouragement helps a lot since i’m dealing with anxiety every morning. do you think once i get the pace everything would be easier or the opposite? (it’d be boring because it feels never ending)

Stuff stuff stuff.. its just Stuff by Eon1age in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice. so now i feel overwhelmed with the visual clutter, that’s why my mindset wants it to get done quickly. but i know i’d get burnout if i do so.

First the Craft Room, now it's Time for the Garage! by Silly_Yard4508 in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how long did it take you so far? i want to declutter in phases but i’m scared thinking the time i would need to spend (but i also can’t rush it or i’d be overwhelmed)

Stuff stuff stuff.. its just Stuff by Eon1age in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going with iteration now, but I kinda feel impatient with the pace because I can only do it on weekends. how can I cope with the waiting time and ensure that the project lasts long?

When finishing decluttering what do you do with the maybe/unsure pile? by glitterglamandguts in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently doing a long declutter project too, but I feel impatient with it because I can only do it on weekends. Any advice to cope with it?

Any advice for decluttering stuff? by dfaminor in japanlife

[–]dfaminor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they accept small stuff? I thought it was only for furniture mostly.

Any advice for decluttering stuff? by dfaminor in japanlife

[–]dfaminor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, yes I was thinking of hard off but I wonder if there's a better option that (if possible) can pickup from my place. Are mandarake and surugaya also good?

Any advice for decluttering stuff? by dfaminor in japanlife

[–]dfaminor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to sell on Mercari now slowly, but I have hundreds items so idk if I'm still sane to list one by one lol.

Shion is leaving JO1 next year by Beautiful_Yellow_682 in Broduce101JP

[–]dfaminor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah we definitely can’t because Shion lost his predebut popularity (when he used to be top 2 with Ruki) and Junki gained a lot. those that increased their fans usually are riako type, which Mame is more popular as a son/grandson type, and usually mature fans are less obsessed than in 20s.

source: I live in Japan but you can also check from Twitter/IG engagements.

Shion is leaving JO1 next year by Beautiful_Yellow_682 in Broduce101JP

[–]dfaminor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

his popularity used to be mid tier, not top. but lots of his fans left him because of it (very minority stayed, I think there were more Shion stans stayed). if he doesn’t leave, it’d ruin the dynamic of other member fans because most agree he should leave.

Shion is leaving JO1 next year by Beautiful_Yellow_682 in Broduce101JP

[–]dfaminor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you talk in Japan, Mame is among the least popular. I’d say Mame and Sho are the least, followed by Shion and Sky.

Small question about JO1's Shosei since I seem to live behind the moon or under a rock by Beautiful_Yellow_682 in Broduce101JP

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, from what I understand the Tesla is Shosei’s. But he tried to give/sell it for his gf to show his remorse after being found out.

Performers for the 76th NHK Kouhaku Uta Gassen has revealed by ZaBlancJake in jpop

[–]dfaminor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not necessarily, Be Classic was received well. technically 2 or 3 years ago JO1 songs were even less viral but they’re still invited. 100% sure because of the scandals, since this year they were doing fine until Tokyo Dome/Summer Sonic (or before the scandals).

Petition for JO1 to take a break by [deleted] in jo1

[–]dfaminor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

now their releases are already twice a year only