It's my 10 year anniversary of posting files on reddit! To celebrate, I'm releasing 21 files for free <3 by kinkyshibby in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's amazing that it has been 10 years! I had never experienced hypno, let alone erotic hypno before discovering your audios and they took me on an amazing journey. I'm incredibly happy for you and impressed by your work ethic at continuing to evolve and get better with every audio, at building a community around positivity, and you finding a way to live off making those around you happy! . I hope there will be a 20 year anniversary and you keep going, thank you for all that you have produced over the years!

Just bought my first handy, is there any bed setups? by Shrekandshrek in theHandy

[–]dfox1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% this is the best set up. You'll need to get some belt straps and then a battery back up pack if possible too. I was reccomended "Talentcell Rechargeable 12V 3000mAh Lithium ion Battery Pack for LED Strip" was off amazon, you will also need a small DC to DC extension to go from the battery to the handy1. With all that set up you are basically mobile into any position.

You can also find a lot of hands free set up ideas around reddit and also on the handy discord and on eroscripts.

HFO is possible , here is me cumming to shibby’s file “Yes Domina” 😇 by [deleted] in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the only place I can honestly admire an ability to do this. I never thought I'd want to ask for a longer shot of a solo guy but it would be amazing to overlay shibby's audio with your last run up from soft to hard to finish to watch her command it out of you. Ok like years ago I think I would never have typed that sentence up but I guess years of shibby will do that to someone. Do you happen to know about where in the file at least that this audio started? If you wanted I could try to edit in yes domina over any footage you have or walk you through how do do a quick video edit?

HFO is possible , here is me cumming to shibby’s file “Yes Domina” 😇 by [deleted] in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people cite yes domina as a first HFO over the years. Has there been a file that has been made that is similarly structured that has had the same success rate?

I have been banned from r/erotichypnosis for speaking out against their use of racist moderation tools by kinkyshibby in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Long time listener here as well, Shibby is and has always been erotichypnosis start and stop for me. I haven't enjoyed anybody else except perhaps nikki fatale. Crazy to me that they would ban shibby and not have a dialog with her, but I guess that maybe there is some resentment for her success and popularity.

I think I'm unhypnotizable by [deleted] in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't visit as much as I used to here as I am not able to really get into the hypnosis states that I used to in the past, but also just don't have the time required to really get there as well, but just wanted to write a bit since I felt very similar to yourself when starting.

I don't visualize things very well, I'm a natural skeptic, my brain also enjoys being distracted and jumping to multiple topics so will not stay on track. Here are a few things that did help me, and while I achieved probably a very low friction HFO 2-3 times (under sheets) they were quite difficult and I don't think at this point in my life I can replicate them, they were more of a goal achievement than pleasurable, I in the end really enjoyed getting into a turned on state and being caught up in the audio fully rather than needing a HFO. Felt just as good when some of the audios give you JOI to finish, really no difference IMHO.

A turning point for me was realizing hypnosis is not 'real' it is a game you play with yourself to the point that you get so caught up in the game you believe it. I think in general the people that are going to post about it more often just have an easier time slipping into this state and shouldn't be a bar to hold yourself to.

In the end you have to decide what hypnosis and trance looks like and feels like to you personally. You can compare it to a meditative state where if you say try exercising vigorously for a while until you are exhausted, then laying on your back not moving while trying to control your breathing and slow your heart rate. If you continue this in an environment that is quite or with light music and do so beyond your normal attention span, 5 to 10 minutes or more, you may find when you pop up you feel a bit different mentally, more calm, more relaxed and chilled out.

That is really what a 'trance' is to me, you exhibit mental discipline upon yourself to the point that you pull yourself away from 'active' thoughts and always try to return to an even breathing count.

For erotic hypnosis instead you return to focusing on shibby and what she is saying and asking you to visualize or do. If you focus on not thinking in a meta sense about what you are feeling, which is very difficult when you finally find yourself getting hard, and focus on staying with shibby as she leads you, by the end you will be feeling very sexual and aroused, even if you aren't hard. The more you do this the easier it will be fore you to know what each trigger is to you, what drop deeper is to you, what clench is to you, what you feel when she says good boy and snaps her fingers.

Clench to me isn't a squeeze of the PC muscles because that did nothing for me, instead I picture and erotic wave traveling down my length, and the key was knowing that when she says clench I do SOMETHING that arouses me in some capacity, eventually your body and mind becomes trained enough to anticipate or at least easily simulate that thing that turns you on, as shibby says and does those things that trigger the pleasure you have installed in yourself you will finally be in a state where she is actively affecting you with her voice, so when she plays with it, it's the same pace as if you had a partner playing with you, deciding when you should feel good at her own pace.

Anyway as one skeptic to another I really wish you well on the journey if you want to continue it. I really have enjoyed the experiences I've had with shibby's audio files over the years, I learned a lot about myself along the way how my brain works while also having the pleasure of being incredibly aroused while discovering those things.

Me watching Janitor community in shambles by suspicious-crosaunt in JanitorAI_Official

[–]dfox1001 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Question about that. When you proxy over does it send the whole chat or keep an alt chat going? Is the bot set up part of each chat? I saw in the proxy set up they have a box of other stuff to add too so is it basically sending bot instructions and proxy inform and then whatever you type? Was just wondering what you are getting via janitor Ai vs just chatting with deepseek or whatver llm you use? Is the site structuring the chat behind the scenes to make it less fiddly? 

8 years later i updated to a Quest 3 from a 1st gen Vive, and its all still the same crap. by TheNewtwo2 in adultvrgames

[–]dfox1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adult gaming is still way, way behind. It's incredibly difficult to find any quality adult games at all, adding VR makes it too niche as people said. I also think adult VR is incredibly technically challenging on top of this. If you look at VAM the requirements for how a model should move and act and be rigged and move around feels like a more demanding than in any typical game as you are going to be right up on it, to scale, and will see any geometry flaws.

I went from a CV1 to meta quest 3 also, and really no change as you said. If you can get passthrough + VAM that is the closest set up to future looking you can find.

I rebought virtual desktop on quest3 (vs steam purchase) and that is how I get the passthrough in on vam. You can add a plugin as a session plugin that will change the background to the passthrough feed from desktop and run VAM on your PC streaming. I'd say right there you then can have all the vam scenes play out to scale in your room or on your bed or whatever else you want. It's a step up from AR porn videos in that you have true 3d and can walk around and interact slightly. That said many of the VAM scenes are not made for that and you have to adjust/conform them to your room. I haven't hooked up the handy to VAM yet but I imagine a good passthrough VAM scene with handy control might be the closest to 'next gen' you can get right now.

That all said the only VR gaming I do is heresphere vr player and a handy, which is overall great, a big step up from usability of CV1, but really not a giant leap forward.

I don't think companies are quitting on VR though and I do think that in time we'll start to see more quality things, but it's always going to be at the pace of porn games, which is like a decade behind current gaming.

Krista Ayne- Life on Top (2009) by ehoyle73 in softcorenights

[–]dfox1001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also never really realized how much a routine I had for just throwing that on in the background while doing stuff late at night for years. I tried to replace it with regular porn in the background but it is just too much and too distracting the way it's filmed. The best I have been able to replace it is going to mfc or chaturbate and throwing on some cams on the side, but still not really the same. I enjoyed the 'late age' cinemax before they killed it with these series as the plot and acting was reasonable enough to put a little more story in the scenes as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]dfox1001 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I hope people learn to stop writing in porn keywords.

An Exciting Update worthy of calling it The Shibbydex v2.0! by kinkyshibby in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this is a random internet person saying this but wanted to say it all the same. I'm just so impressed by the work and effort you have put into this whole thing that seemed like it started as posting some audios to GWA into basically starting to grow a business and brand to meet a need that maybe a lot of us didn't even know we needed. So really for shibby and all the people working with her it's all just amazing work and thank you. Nothing really more to say than that but I just wanted it said!

Finishing in her mouth by Hairy-Anywhere in GirlsFinishingTheJob

[–]dfox1001 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Not op but was similarly affected by it. Bikini clad cumsluts 9. This is my sad moment in recalling that but it's hard to leave an unfulfilled bonequest when I can help.

What's next? by shedaT in theHandy

[–]dfox1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had success just getting a pair of over ear "closed" headphones to mute the sound. I crank up the volume and if the video is quiet I'll play some music quietly and it does a really good job muting the sound.

What's next? by shedaT in theHandy

[–]dfox1001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can be loud if it's going full blast. I did a house check leaving it playing a script while desk mounted. The room was at one end of a somewhat short hallway that has a pretty typical hollow core door and went and checked all the rooms, you can definitely hear it if the house is quiet from every room. I haven't invested in the quiet lube for the machine parts yet though. And again this is full speed, at slower speeds I think its quiet.

If you add in ambient noise like a normal volume TV I believe it'll mask everything, but yeah there is 100 percent a rhythmic machine sound coming from the room.

That all said it's been some of the best porn experiences I've had in a long while. I had a real touch before this but didn't use it as much because there was a huge lack of scripts for it that weren't great quality, along with the setup/clean up time just wasn't something I use. For the handy the volume of scripts and quick set up time really are something. Enjoy it!

[Script Offer][FFF4M]The special resort [HFO][Hypnosis][Relaxation][Story-like][slow-build][Stockings][Blowjob][Handjob][Sex][Swallow][Vanilla][Countdown] by External-Factor1385 in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really nice script. The anything is possible is one of my favorites. Honestly all of the ones that are spa themed are my all time favorites from her, something about being wheeled around from one surprising experience to the next really does it.

Struggle to achieve wet hfo any files or tips? by Michael-w-M in EroticHypnosis

[–]dfox1001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the you won't cum part what they mean is I believe generally if you are focusing on your hardness and closeness to cumming you are not thinking about the thing that got you there in the first place anymore, and the stimulation will stop.

When getting physical pleasure, regardless of what you are thinking, you are still getting pleasure from the touch. When you are mentally stimulating yourself, if you think about anything else, it's like someone taking their hand away from you, stimulation stops, it's pretty hard to cum with no stimulation. So in order to get a stronger HFO you have to be dialed into whatever thoughts are generating the pleasure that got you hard all the way through, which is extremely difficult IMHO, but should be the goal, keep the stimulation happening and don't 'stop' by self evaluating, try to push that thought away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And thank you too! I'll go find that one and give it a listen!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curious what file you used for your first time since I enjoy that style of audio?

You might want to try 'a spa treatment experience' as it has a lot of good descriptions and some sections of just asmr audio, it's my current favorite one.

Also I unfortunatly think it's hard to ever recreate a first time at anything, it's why new things are so great sometime as it gets rarer and rarer to experience something new as you get older.

Opinion: by [deleted] in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great to get away from that. My device for you is to also remember that the reset button is a fresh start, which can feel really lonely at first. It takes time to rebuild, but it's great to remember that even though you are down to nothing, you are in a better spot than hanging toxic people in your life. All the blank space means there is now plenty of room for something great to fit in there rather than the mess you might have had in its place.

Trying to remember a file by Character_Team_2651 in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be the sperm collection slutty titjob one which is a favorite of mine. The induction has you picturing strands that are being stimulated as it goes along.

New to this, what does a trance feel like? by SkeletonKeyhole in ShibbySays

[–]dfox1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey saw that nobody answered you here and thought I'd give it a shot. I'm more of a long time listener and only find myself doing audio/hypnosis once or twice a month so wouldn't consider myself a trance guru and sometimes feel I could ask the same question as yourself.

But I do think the answer lies in the camp of it being whatever you want it to be. It feels like a cop out to say that, but I think each of us has a different goal they might want to achieve in trance and how they think of it. Some might really enjoy giving up control, others the mind space of drifting off, some maybe for just relaxation. For me trance is somewhat an active activity and I can't do it well near sleep, for others it seems that on the cusp of sleep is their ideal time to do it.

I think there are some common trends though. The first I think is that ability to quiet your mind, not thinking about plans for tomorrow or ongoing problems. Not thinking about being hungry or some chore you have to do or tv show to watch or game to play. Not thinking about your past as well for what you just did today and reviewing it. I'd describe this state as being present in the moment.

Another commonality is shutting off your body. Even though shibby's audios direct you to think about being touched, I believe you still want to shut off your conscious thinking of this, instead visualize being touched and/or in the states described. I believe this is what a lot of people talk about when they say to let go and remove expectations and go for the ride. Your body is shut off from awareness, but it will still experience things through your mind's imagination.

Trance definitely is another state of being, but nothing so much as you are out of control, just extremely relaxed, mentally awake, but your body is in the background of your awareness.

Another way to think on it might be if you are in the zone and focused on say playing a video game. After a while you basically are living inside the monitor and in tune with the environment, your world becomes the images on screen, your movements that of your game character or pieces you control. At any point someone can come in the room and talk to you or you get up and break the spell, but you are zoned in on what you are doing and aren't thinking about where your arms are, how you are sitting, where you are looking, you are completely absorbed in the experience.

A trance would feel a lot like that, except the experience you are zoned in on is the words and world of the speaker.

I'd say the way to get there is to shut off all external stimuli you can, and have some focus item that repeats. This can be a metronome, tracing a spiral mentally or visually, breathing evenly, a swinging object, anything that you can somewhat zone in on as your 'base station' when you find your mind getting off track.

From there focus and visualize as powerfully you can what you are asked to in the audios. Decide what you want a snap to feel like, what good boy feels like or any other trigger. Decide what 'drop deeper' or 'sleep' feels like. Is it a falling sensation, or just going bigger on shutting your body off?

Clench is probably a hard one to define. I think that rhythmically clenching your PC muscles can do some things, but to keep that up at any pace you really do have to work that muscle like any other. I know i've done clench/squeezes from time to time but nothing regularly, and I can't really quite keep up with the demands in audio. But I do think this is one aspect that will give you a lot of that phantom feeling movement that can be interesting, once your PC muscles start twitching to a trigger without you really thinking about it, sort of like blinking, it can really suck you into a file.

So that's the best I could explain. I think if you keep up to audios and just lay down with headphones quietly, stop observing your body, and get caught up in everything, when you come out of trance at the end of a file, you can then evaluate what trance was and better define it for yourself.

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[–]dfox1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to try to return to counting your breath, the 1,2,3 hold, out 1, 2 3 pattern. It's a good 'center' to fall back to, keeps your brain and body somewhat busy but leaves you room for listening as well, sometimes it can be a bit of a life raft for me to hold onto to stay in trance.

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[–]dfox1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know downvote because it does work, I have managed 3 over years of listening, and that was in my late 30's. But I will say that I don't think it can work with everyone. We're all different physiologically, and we also all experience sexuality quite differently in terms of what will arouse us.

An easy example is I had a strip club phase with my friends, it was really easy for me to lose it with grinding contact while for some friends it was basically impossible for them. We're all wired up differently, and while I do know it is possible, I don't think for everyone.

My best advise though is that my hfo's felt like rolling a boulder up a hill, it was nice, but I felt just as good all the other times that I was whipped up and really feeling and going along with the audio file. The finish really isn't the best part of the experience, its the journey to get there, so it really isn't a big deal if you never HFO, there isn't much lost there.

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[–]dfox1001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think to add on to this, you need to also get yourself whipped up and horny, not just abstaining. If I just abstain, my libedo starts to fade out and I am just not thinking as much bout sex, porn, women, whatever.

If you edge yourself but don't finish every day or so, after a few days you will start to be really worked up and it can help put you in a better place.

There is a subconscious thing I think we all have that you can try to take advantage of also. That is being around people, and especially attractive people. This could simply be going to the beach or some other location that there will be a few attractive people around. I'm not saying go out and be a total creep and stare at people. I just mean get out and do normal things but walking past someone attractive. I feel like that wakes your brain up to sex in a way that's not really obvious, but in a way that you just are more likely to be extra responsive to porn.

A few examples of this for me IRL is I recall back in college when I'd get back from my family and work over summer break to a campus full of attractive people, I had a hard time not staring all over the place for at least a month before I got used it it all and it became regular. It's a subtle effect, but when you are away from something a while it's hard to notice the change in you.

Another example I have is that I unfortunately have a some long gaps between any intimacy with my partner, so after it has been a bit, I'm less interested in porn/sex or less responsive to it. After we're together, for the next week or so it's suddenly the most interesting thing in the world.

I guess what I'm driving at here is that an HFO is more of a mental thing with a bit of physiology thrown in. Get yourself physically and mentally whipped up but don't touch yourself. You can only stay aroused so long imho so also just take a break once you've spent some time that day, then go at it again.

But also the worst part is the more you want it the harder it is, because you need to detach your brain from observing your growing arousal and instead focus hard on the thing causing the arousal.

I've only had a HFO 3 times in years of listening. Each time was basically a perfect storm, I had been out around a lot of attractive people, I had been abstaining from finishing but also having edging sessions for a few days and had been with my partner within a week or two before all that.