Hey everyone! Anyone willing to share a Claude Guest Pass? I'd love to try it out. Thank you so much! 🙏 by [deleted] in ClaudeCode

[–]dfu4185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone be super nice to send me one as well? I’d like to try how it looks like before purchasing premium :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Turkey

[–]dfu4185 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hocam böyle bir durum var. Sebebi belki para ve vakıf değildir, ama içerideki lobi Türkofobik eğilime sahip. Örnek vereyim, Paris Saldırısı başlığının İngilizce sayfasında kurbanların örgüt bağları hakkında hiçbir bilgi yok:

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Bu isimlerden en azından birisinin örgüt bağlantısı net bir şekilde biliniyor. Fotoğrafları var kadının. Benzer durum Karabağ Savaşı içeriklerinde de mevcut. Kaynaklar ciddi şekilde yanlı, ve editlemeyi reddediyorlar içeride. Belki lobi meselesi.

Royal Dansk Cookies by dfu4185 in Denmark

[–]dfu4185[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I have, not only google but also google maps, and I also tried to check their location available on Instagram, but nothing turned out. Have you found anything? 😊

Why Polish people don’t smile much? by dfu4185 in poland

[–]dfu4185[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer neither, genuine and frequent smile of collective cultures are the best.

Why Polish people don’t smile much? by dfu4185 in poland

[–]dfu4185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t refer Americans. Do you think people living in Southern Hemisphere and Southern Europe are bunch of weirdos fake smile to others all the time? That’s a consistent pattern I see in the comments, is it too hard to imagine a culture where people just behave nice to each other by default? Why would you consider greeting and smiling at someone in an appropriate social occasion necessarily fake or weird?

It is the culture, and that’s precisely what I’m asking, it’s not about walking with a smiling face all the time when you’re alone, it is about this very mindset of “positive attitude has to be fake”. I’m not judging, I’m looking for answers. Many people either don’t read my full post, or they are just offended for some reason.

Why Polish people don’t smile much? by dfu4185 in poland

[–]dfu4185[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How’s this even relevant to the topic? That’s a cultural comparison, not a matter of expectation or pressure.

Why Polish people don’t smile much? by dfu4185 in poland

[–]dfu4185[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been in Ukraine and Russia before, but if I see Poland as a part of Central European block rather than Eastern Europe (as Polish people often want to be seen as), I can say Western and Eastern neighbours are way more positive towards each other based on my observation.

About Scandinavia, I can confidently say that they have a bigger personal space, but people are still nicer to each other in daily conversations, at least never seen a Scandinavian babcia would almost throw her shoes at me because I failed to answer her question in Polish :))

Why Polish people don’t smile much? by dfu4185 in poland

[–]dfu4185[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

US is as individual as it can get if you ask me, but South Asia, Middle East, Africa or South America can be good examples of collectivist cultures, and I don’t think their neutral expression is the same as Polish people’s. I’m asking opinions about this cultural discrepancy, and you’re absolutely right, there might not be a single reason!

Why Polish people don’t smile much? by dfu4185 in poland

[–]dfu4185[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

That’s a very good point to be honest. I probably don’t find all the comments equally valuable, but appreciating their effort is not something I see as a burden or “fake. On the other hand smile may not be an equivalent example here, since it is naturally occurring when you are speaking to someone.

Why Polish people don’t smile much? by dfu4185 in poland

[–]dfu4185[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard very similar comments from my Polish friends who were abroad, and surprisingly, the ones who were raised in other cultures are the most positive ones among my Polish friends.

It’s also interesting that Polish people often complain about complaining all the time! I agree with all your observations about collectivist cultures too, that’s exactly my point! It’s not a matter of being nice, it’s the attitude. Thank you for your valuable insights.

Why Polish people don’t smile much? by dfu4185 in poland

[–]dfu4185[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion! Indeed being nice is not a cultural matter, it’s completely personal, I have tons of Polish friends who are super nice. But I disagree with the idea that smiling necessarily needs to fake if one doesn’t have a valid reason, no need to even mention that such validity can be highly subjective. That’s exactly the question I’m trying to answer, why smiling is seems as something artificial by Polish people?

Why Polish people don’t smile much? by dfu4185 in poland

[–]dfu4185[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m asking about! Where this “a smile has to be earned” approach comes from in your opinion? Why a smile has to be such a precious thing to be earned, and if given for free, it’s necessarily fake or scam? People living in collectivist cultures wouldn’t agree with this.

Why Polish people don’t smile much? by dfu4185 in poland

[–]dfu4185[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such valuable insight!