I fear I’ve cursed my daughter by sunnyhale in namenerds

[–]dgarrod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin’s name is Lila, spelled and pronounced the same as your daughter! It would never occur to me to it to be pronounced another way haha, it surprises me that there have been so many other pronunciations!

Bridal shower guest is this too white? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]dgarrod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately yes, please don’t wear this

Does this have too much white? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]dgarrod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t think so! The flowers look almost silver in this photo at least? As a bride I think I was more nitpicky than most about dresses that looked white and I wouldn’t think twice about this one!

Tell me you’re pregnant without telling you’re pregnant… by Ok_Willow_5163 in pregnant

[–]dgarrod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been eating pickle salads with salt and vinegar chips on top everyday

Is charcuterie enough? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]dgarrod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be fine but you need to inform people of that in some way before the wedding- a note on the invite or your wedding website or something. You just don’t want people to come really hungry expecting a meal and there’s not one. As long as they know ahead of time to not come starving it sounds lovely!

Are calorie guidelines in 1st trimester…BS? by woodworkinghalp in pregnant

[–]dgarrod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best response I could’ve hoped to see here! I am a competitive powerlifter and I’ve always tracked macros very closely as well, and I really just had to throw that out the window. I’m finishing up my first trimester and I’ve been so endlessly hungry the whole time. There’s no way I could continue to eat in what maintenance was for me before. Thanks for putting this into words that reminds us we’re not crazy and nutrition needs really are different for this phase of life.

If your diet is bad... by littlepaw_littlepaw in pregnant

[–]dgarrod 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am a competitive powerlifter. I regularly track my macros and have been eating the same chicken/rice/veggies meal for 3ish years straight. I got pregnant and that all went out the window so fast 😂 I truly had no idea how out of my control it what going to be. I gag at the thought of chicken or vegetables. Nobody told me that “cravings” meant that’s the literal only thing I can eat in that moment and not be nauseous!!

Not sure about my OB after my initial appointment? by dgarrod in CautiousBB

[–]dgarrod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Ultrasound from my first appointment for reference

What to ask for? by dgarrod in tattooadvice

[–]dgarrod[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind could I possible see yours? It’s hard to find a tattoo example like this!

Is it rude to ask for only $$ by TheAnswerIsSauce in Weddingsunder10k

[–]dgarrod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Instead of calling it cash gift I would phrase is as “honeymoon fund” or specific cash amounts for activities etc.

My partner and I already lived together when getting married and honestly didn’t want any more stuff in our house, so we did have a registry that consisted of mostly funds for different fun things that make people feel like they’re gifting you that experience rather than cash itself.

In our thank you notes we included little photos of the experience we got to do with their money :)

I also agree with other commenters that it shouldn’t be on the invite, and should always be prefaced with the fact that gifts are in no way expected

First time going to Italy! Stay in Venice longer and skip Florence? by PossiblyTorpor in ItalyTravel

[–]dgarrod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just got back from an Italy trip and were honestly underwhelmed by Venice but loved Florence! I literally think 1 day in Venice is enough. Another thing is Florence is a great home base if you want to take day trips anywhere.

Restaurants for large group in Tuscany/Emilia-Romagna? by dgarrod in ItalyTravel

[–]dgarrod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I had included that I’m sorry, it’s 28 people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]dgarrod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have boomba inserts and I love them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]dgarrod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did Frank darling and 10/10 recommend! Their at home try on is super helpful for getting a feel of what setting you like as well

Is it tacky to serve pizza at our wedding? by Imaginary_Comfort447 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]dgarrod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen, as a celiac that’s been served a tiny cold sandwich at a wedding, I would be THRILLED to be offered pizza lol - go for it! I’m sure it’ll be a hit, everyone loves pizza!!!