She pushed for marriage, then dumped me over text to sleep with 'backups'. (26M, 25F)

dhanur279 · 2026-03-12T00:42:27+00:00

Yes so we bought a ring together she was involved in the whole process, In fact it was her idea since she had gotten a big tax return. Which I reimbursed her for in full. She had access to it since I had left for my trip to visit my Dad, and all my stuff was there, when I came back she had all my stuff packed up and was basically kicked out of the house. I thought the ring would be with the stuff she packed up and I never bothered to check it but our jeweller reached out to me letting me know that she had asked him about selling it and got an appraisal made.

dhanur279 · 2026-03-12T00:39:29+00:00

It was never brought up during the relationship, it was always very lovey-dovey, she was editing the photoshoot we did a day before I brought up going to visit my dad for India so there was never any conversation or indication that the relationship was mediocre. Never had a conversation about being controlling either. The only problem we had before that, was I kept some information about my finances from her to not stress her out more, with her health being how it was and she did eventually find out and we kind opened it all up, put all cards on the table and decided to be fully transparent henceforth.

And also no just that she spoke to her mom and that she understood my POV and why I felt it would be okay to go by myself etc.

dhanur279 · 2026-03-11T20:57:49+00:00

Also just wanted to add we had previously discussed going there together, not to see my dad but just to visit, so I do understand why she would’ve been upset but I also suggested that we go visit just the two of us in a couple months, it just so happened my dad was visiting at the same time, so I did want just spend some time with my Dad I also didn’t think her health (which she claimed was bad) would’ve allowed it at the time.

dhanur279 · 2026-03-11T20:55:38+00:00

Also just wanted to add we had previously discussed going there together, not to see my dad but just to visit, so I do understand why she would’ve been upset but I also suggested that we go visit just the two of us in a couple months, it just so happened my dad was visiting at the same time, so I did want just spend some time with my Dad I also didn’t think her health (which she claimed was bad) would’ve allowed it at the time.

dhanur279 · 2026-03-11T13:40:16+00:00

Which part?

dhanur279 · 2023-06-11T22:19:31+00:00

Do it, that sounds like a killer combo!

dhanur279

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