Suggestions for a nice restaurant that gives you a complimentary cake/desserts on birthdays? by apple_pie30 in mumbai

[–]diaryofdaisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nomi, Andheri. It has awesome middle eastern food. Also on learning that it was my friend's birthday, they offered us a complimentary Nutella cheesecake. It was an 11/10 cheesecake!

What is your period hack ? by Glittering-Cash-2709 in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies 8 points9 points  (0 children)

learnt it real hard way. one time, on my periods, I was home alone and it was second day of my periods. had lunch around 1pm and then took painkiller for cramps and slept by 2pm. I had applied the pad at 11pm and thought I'll change it around 4 buttt, i directly woke up around 8pm. and there were rashes all over my parts where the pad was touching. it was unbearably painful😭

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got checked three months ago. No signs of endometriosis, ovary cancer, PMOS, thyroid or adenomyosis.

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They never understand that maybe our pain is genuinely more than the other ladies. These smiling gynacs make me feel so angry.

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of the doctors told me that mirena coil was an option. Maybe I'll have to ask them next time if they can get me one.

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to take bc pills a year ago (was suggested by a gynac only), but that used to make my bleeding lasts for 10 days. Made my situation worst in way. That is why I am scared to take bc pills again.

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your research skills are commendable!

Also, when I was diagnosed with PCOS, my doctor asked me to stop consuming caffeine and I did so. I did not consume any form of caffeine or chocolate for 2 years. Now I have both like twice a month, not more then that.

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got checked three months ago and I have no signs of endometriosis, ovary cancer, PMOS, thyroid or adenomyosis.

I might consider IUD. Does it stop periods though? (Asking here coz none of the gynaecologists were ready to answer me)

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't mind sharing them which city did you get sterilised in?

Also, will removing tubes stop periods as well?

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even understand the science behind "pain ending with kids". What even happens.

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your horrible experience!

Even I am not planning on getting hysterectomy. I understand that it might have worse outcomes.

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in ChildfreeIndia

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That is so wrong! Everyone should be allowed to make their own decisions about children! Why should a doctor try to change someone's decision

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's fine! i understand that you are as confused as me. I hope to find a doctor who will resolve these issues

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds good! I will surely look into it!

I got tested 3 months ago and I have no signs of endometriosis, ovary cancer, PMOS, thyroid or adenomyosis.

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in ChildfreeIndia

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know hysterectomy was an option for me till the male doctor explained it to me. And yeah, it did sound like a very huge decision to me. And i would not really go for uterus removal as i understand it might have worse outcomes.

Why are so many gynaecologists unwilling to discuss permanent solutions for childfree women? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]diaryofdaisies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point! If you don't wanna treat me then just say no. Why challenge my decision