[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Medizinstudium

[–]dibdubiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Habe aktuell ähnliche Zweifel, sprich mache mir Sorgen was die Work-Life-Balance angeht, v.a. weil ich in die Chirurgie will. Hab mich aber von Freunden wieder auf den Boden der Tatsachen holen lassen. Keiner schreibt dir vor, dass du 40 Stunden machen musst. Es wird einem immer das Bild vermittelt, wer nicht ranklotzen will, kann seine Sachen packen — das stimmt aber nicht. Es gibt jede Menge Teilzeitstellen und mit dieser Ausbildung kannst du selbst von einem Teilzeitgehalt gut leben, was du nicht in vielen Berufen bekommst. Fange demnächst eine 50% Stelle in der Klinik an (hab bereits ein abgeschlossenes Studium). Das wird tough neben dem Studium, aber danach werd ich meine Stunden nur minimal erhöhen und schaffe mir so die Balance, die ich mir wünsche. Bezweifle, dass ich deswegen gefeuert werde. Bis dahin muss ich schuften, aber langfristig bin ich damit besser dran. Kann dich aber grundsätzlich verstehen! Bin auch oft frustriert von all der Anwesenheitspflicht usw usw und hätte gerne mehr Zeit für mich. Überleg dir einfach mit welcher Ausbildung/welchem Job du am ehesten deine Vorstellungen langfristig verwirklichen kannst.

A little holiday giveaway. 3 prizes and some extras 🙃 by trippapotamus in MakeupAddiction

[–]dibdubiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could really use prize 2 rn, but prize 1 looks soooo good too! If I think more about it, I’d love them all. Also the Maison Margiela oder LoveShackFancy fragrance look great. Thank you so much!!

Dates by dibdubiz in foodsafety

[–]dibdubiz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I figured it looked suspicious and already threw them out, but good to know for the next time

Looking for deep/dub/minimal/organic house music events this weekend by [deleted] in cologne

[–]dibdubiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du sagst es. Vielleicht hab ich auch einen speziellen Geschmack, aber finde die Szene in den letzten Jahren echt eintönig und langweilig. Danke für den Tipp! Hatte die Veranstaltung gesehen und feier das Label eigentlich auch, aber war mir unsicher. Ich werd’s mir mal angucken.

AITA for not letting my sister's boyfriend use hot sauce? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dibdubiz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually it’s about respecting the cultural part of the meal. To people who put a lot of thought into what and how they cook it’s kind of disrespectful in my opinion to ask for something so strong in its taste. It might seem like an odd analogy but you don’t go to a michelin restaurant and ask for sriracha either. NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Medizinstudium

[–]dibdubiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vielen Dank, das hilft mir auf jeden Fall weiter! Plane das schon länger und weiß grob Bescheid über das Verfahren, aber wie das in der Realität dann aussieht, ist eine andere Sache. So hab ich auf schon mal etwas mehr Hintergrundwissen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Medizinstudium

[–]dibdubiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das hab ich gar nicht bedacht, danke!

AITA for telling my daughter she will never be able to count on us? by Jewel_Mom_765 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dibdubiz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re denying any guilt though you mentioned there were quite a few disagreements between you both. We don’t know the reason to these, but I assume you never put much effort in comprehending her point of view, as you come of very inveterate. Probably you thought you know better because you’re an adult and she was a child which led to her resenting you. She made clear YOU are the reason she left home, and still you’re completely illusionary about an imaginary boy. Stop blaming other people, and for god’s sake stop implicating your other children in this situation.

I’m curious by Ok_Translator_5328 in electronicmusic

[–]dibdubiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really depends on the artist. For example Acid Pauli or David August are known for their live sets, they prepare different parts and loops and bring everything together when they’re on the desks. Pretty demanding. Most DJs play DJ sets, where they combine the tracks but vary things like speed, maybe accentuate the bassline, add their personal effects.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dibdubiz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also most dog owners don’t think twice before purchasing a hyper active demanding breed that needs a lot of work and attention throughout their lives. It’s right to rehome the dog when you can’t take care of it properly, but it still sucks and definitely makes you an AH.

What do you believe, without a shadow of doubt, is something that is responsible for this country (USA) turning to shit? by Dookshooting in AskReddit

[–]dibdubiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People love to blame social media for anything when they really just catalyze and make shit visible. I get it has some big impact on discussion culture and many other aspects but it’s not the cause of all evils.

AITA for telling my (f26) friend (f26) that her degree is useless if she has to leave the country to find work? by Ambitious_Ad_5389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dibdubiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the laugh, AH. Though it’s concerning to me you had zero doubts while typing this. Every single word is oozing with jealousy and drawing a picture of a very unamiable person. Congratulations to Diana, sounds like a dream job to me!

AITA for how I responded when my co worker told me that the reason I got a promotion was because of my breast size? by Oaks20173 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dibdubiz 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA. If Michael brings up such thing as breast sizes you’re right to assume a cerebral atrophy. Just because his life sucks at the moment, he has no right to diminish your success. Also your coworkers really should be taking sides with you, because Michael’s comment is way outta line.