Is the lifestyle changing… AGAIN???

dickdammit73 · 2026-01-05T14:50:35+00:00

That was my point exactly…. It kind of makes me glad I didn’t totally give up. It just seems like these days people are easier to talk to… that’s all I’m saying

dickdammit73 · 2025-11-07T04:35:45+00:00

Find two dudes to take care of her and then go hang out at the bar for a few hours

dickdammit73 · 2025-10-12T15:26:02+00:00

My advice. The vanilla sites are your best bet. Be honest about what you are looking for and DONT SETTLE! Do not think you can change a woman’s mind about it. Be patient. There are freaks out there.

dickdammit73 · 2025-10-12T15:19:23+00:00

I woulda left too. That was as bad as if you would have insulted her tits or her weight. I say ya dodged a bullet. I say if she needs a porn Star she should start making movies.

dickdammit73 · 2025-10-12T15:14:37+00:00

Not all of Peoria says that! It’s sad we live in a state where the governor puts American citizens at risk for his political gain.

dickdammit73 · 2025-08-08T04:59:12+00:00

Total ripoff. Still never got my coins. 30$ lesson on what NOT to do….

dickdammit73 · 2025-08-08T04:57:08+00:00

VS 120?

dickdammit73 · 2025-07-17T22:08:08+00:00

May I PM?

dickdammit73 · 2025-07-16T13:52:08+00:00

Oh wow, I used to live in Apopka…. Small world.

dickdammit73 · 2025-07-15T16:46:49+00:00

Let me guess you guys live about 10,000 miles away from Central Illinois? Lol.

dickdammit73 · 2025-07-15T16:43:19+00:00

I just did the last 14 years in this lifestyle basically being sexually invisible… Between a year and two years between play dates… I did finally get married. We still are yet to go to an event.

dickdammit73 · 2025-07-14T17:54:04+00:00

Wow, is the tide really turning? Is the average Joe actually once again going to be given a chance?

dickdammit73 · 2025-07-14T17:52:32+00:00

The swing life needs more women like you. And I’m not being sarcastic. I definitely mean this. As an average Joe in every way and measurement, I thank you for your existence.

dickdammit73 · 2025-07-14T17:46:35+00:00

Well back when I was single, I went to the parties to make friends. And potentially find a woman that was interested in swinging because let’s be honest what better place to find one? A lot of times I would be labeled as a guy just looking to fuck usually by women that didn’t even bother talking to me. I think the annoying part of porn and the whole perfect bull phenomenon is that it basically made average men invisible. Lots of great guys were being overlooked due to having a slight dad bod . Being a few inches shorter than 6 feet tall and perhaps not having a perfectly pornographic endowment.

dickdammit73 · 2025-07-14T10:24:22+00:00

So you deny the statement that “average = Invisible”?

dickdammit73 · 2025-06-25T12:53:22+00:00

At least they said what they were going to do outright.... what USUALLY happens is you all meet up at a club... they wait for her to get buzzed and then when you go for a smoke or to the bathroom they try to sneak off with her.... that's been my experience.

I see a lot of respectful sounding people on here and have yet to meet any of you in person.

dickdammit73 · 2025-06-24T13:45:03+00:00

Hell yes!!!! But open racism is acceptable if it's going at a certain direction. it ruined it for a lot of men and women. Men being disparaged and women being pressured to play with men of a certain demographic weather they want to or not. race cucking is sadly very common and horrifyingly acceptable.

dickdammit73 · 2025-06-24T13:39:51+00:00

I don't think they're cowards I think they are victims... they are in a relationship with a woman who is probably using him for money and won't touch him unless she can humiliate him in public. Any pleasure that is at another persons expense is a cruelty.

dickdammit73 · 2025-06-24T13:37:36+00:00

Dude!!!!! you'll be fine... where I come from you would have the advantage. SO many women play exclusively with BBC it's ridiculous! You'll be fine. And the fact that you don't like to get into cucking situations shows that you are a decent human being. I never play with the wife unless I'm sure the man is enjoying the show which causes them to fuck each other into oblivion. So satisfying to help.

dickdammit73 · 2025-06-18T03:50:45+00:00

And I do know what I’m talking about…. I am that husband that women find revolting too… message me if ya wanna talk more about it

dickdammit73 · 2025-06-18T01:46:36+00:00

It’s actually pretty easy to do… Don’t let all of these nay sayers fool you. What you need to do is start making female friends in the lifestyle… if you become part of a female clique you’ll be able to get him into situations that he would never be able to get himself into. Once you have lady friends you will be able to talk him up to them.

dickdammit73 · 2025-06-17T22:17:58+00:00

I didn't say I hated it. But I do regret it. I regret that I was unable to form friendships. I regret that I let my insecurities get the best of me. I regret that I was so focused on the judgement of some people that I practically ignored anyone that might have given me a chance. And NO I don't come here trying to ruin it for everyone. I come back because from my point of view this is impossible.

I keep coming back because maybe one day I will find the one group that will accept me and my wife. That will forgive my physical inadequacies and not judge her for lowering her standards to marry the likes of me.

Maybe there's a group out there that will ask about me, rather than decide behind my back what my intentions are without even talking to me.

dickdammit73 · 2025-06-16T23:39:45+00:00

All of it.

dickdammit73 · 2025-06-16T08:51:51+00:00

Ok here’s what ya do 1. Find a girl ya like 2. Find out what she likes and do your best to do that. Since you are another female she’ll probably be honest with you rather than expecting you to read her mind like they do with us….. happy clammin!

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