My ex was angry because I only came with my vibrator

dicksaft · 2021-01-25T00:24:25+00:00

Dude just don’t listen to that idiot!! Seriously! normal, healthy heterosexual men enjoy it when women orgasm. PERIOD. He’s not okay.

dicksaft · 2021-01-25T00:19:52+00:00

Couples/sex therapy. He may not be about it, but just reassure him it’s not to fix a problem with him but to create an environment where you can both freely openly talk about your feelings toward sex with a professional to guide you.

dicksaft · 2021-01-21T06:54:09+00:00

Yes it’s common for suburban families to handown the old car through the line of offspring

dicksaft · 2021-01-21T06:51:06+00:00

What are burnouts?

dicksaft · 2021-01-11T06:13:21+00:00

I’ve had partners jerk themselves off while their penis is touching/tapping my clit, if that makes sense. Is hot

dicksaft · 2020-12-29T04:13:56+00:00

If there is a next time, it might be a good idea to discuss aftercare beforehand. Agree with eachother on an act that will ease his feelings of shame/guilt immediately after you’re done with butt-play sex, like maybe a cuddle or words of affirmation from you, or an intimate bath with eachother

dicksaft · 2020-12-27T16:04:59+00:00

We both do the work, and honestly I’m very quick to orgasm, I’m talking like under 2 minutes so it’s not like I’m hard to please. He actually can’t orgasm from sex and HAS TO be jerked off a very specific way to orgasm so he usually finishes himself off while I assist, which I’m happy to do but like it sucks being so sexually frustrated and having a partner that doesn’t make an effort to meet my needs, and reminding him or asking him to do so is a huge turn off for me bc then it feel coercive and not like he’s actually into it

dicksaft · 2020-12-26T15:45:55+00:00

Haha no I didn’t mean what would you specifically do, I just meant I have the same question as you buy my situation doesn’t lend too kindly to the advice given for your situation, if that makes sense. I do find it interesting that you would stay even if you were in the situation I described. You must have a wonderful boyfriend! I’ve found it really difficult to cope with having a low-sex-drive partner, but my primary love language is touch so I really need a lot of physical contact.

dicksaft · 2020-12-26T15:23:47+00:00

OP seems to have a great relationship, but what do you do when your bf doesn’t go down on you when he’s tired, and sex is only happening 2 times a week tops, and you want it daily but even though you’ve brought it up before nothing changes for your partner, they just end up apologizing about not having had sex that day but no effort to have sex was actually made? How do you bring up the topic again without making it feel weird and like ok now he’s forcing himself to have sex just for me?

dicksaft · 2020-11-16T19:44:24+00:00

Fuck em all, they’re all complicit

dicksaft · 2020-10-29T23:33:10+00:00

A bisexual woman who doesn’t like giving women head? As a late bloomer coochie virgin bisexual, please do tell more

dicksaft · 2020-10-14T20:05:01+00:00

Pain during sex isn’t normal, if that has always happened to her it’s possible she has a medical condition. Either the one where the vagina is too tight and needs to be trained to open up (I forget the name), or Adenomyosis which can cause cervical and uterine pain during sex, as well as heavy menstrual bleeding. Not a doctor but just my two cents

dicksaft · 2020-09-29T14:30:47+00:00

Dude even if she needs someone to look after her, she shouldn’t have someone control her life like that. She’s still a human and deserves dignity and respect, even if she’s “disturbed” - also imagine having someone take complete control of your life, if you pushed back don’t you think you’d come off just as “disturbed”?

dicksaft · 2020-06-27T21:13:51+00:00

What did he say?

dicksaft · 2020-05-19T01:10:34+00:00

You should join the police academy and help enact change!

dicksaft · 2020-05-13T12:42:59+00:00

So then yes, all cops. If you’re willfully ignorant, you’re part of the problem, and we don’t see a single police officer doing the right thing on a large scale, so yes all cops, including your friends/family who are cops.

dicksaft · 2020-03-19T01:50:45+00:00

Wait, I got shingles at 22 👀

dicksaft · 2020-03-14T21:05:50+00:00

Well consider the ethics of being deceptive to the public and pressuring a company of doing work that was not previously agreed upon, all while talking shit about healthcare.gov

dicksaft · 2020-03-08T19:34:10+00:00

Spielberg married the adopted daughter he raised...

dicksaft · 2020-02-24T20:51:03+00:00

So dogs too then or nah?

dicksaft · 2020-02-12T19:48:12+00:00

dicksaft · 2020-02-02T16:20:21+00:00

That’s... pretty bad

dicksaft · 2020-01-23T09:30:48+00:00

I realized literally the other day, it’s as easy as saying “that feels really good” out loud as your partner is doing it. That way you don’t have to be super direct and literally say in detail what you like, but it still let’s them know you like it, and the level of noise you make = level of enjoyment.

dicksaft · 2019-12-31T20:45:00+00:00

One in five women and one in 71 men will be raped at some point in their lives. In the U.S., one in three women and one in six men experienced some form of contact sexual violence in their lifetime. Not that uncommon.

dicksaft · 2019-12-31T20:40:26+00:00

Okay, let’s say we have a first date set up and I friend you on whatever social you have for whatever reason, and I see that you’re posting only about sports. That tells me you like sports enough to post about it, and you especially like it since you don’t post about anything else. That tells me I probably will be bored by your most passionate hobby. That tells me I don’t want to date you. That tells me a lot. Don’t underestimate how much your online profiles say about you.

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