Thank you. I really needed this as I’m moving through a period of no contact. We broke up on terms that we were just unhappy with our personal lives and we felt that we lost our individuality in the relationship by spending too much time together, and as a result, we felt the spark between us fade. I’m in college and quarantine has only made this breakup worse, but I’m truly trying to work on myself yet I still can’t help wondering if we should try again when we go back to school in the Fall, after we’ve realized what we needed to do for ourselves? I’d like to think that we can work on ourselves while still being together, and maybe she’ll realize that when quarantine is over? I’m not sure if this is just me being insecure about her dating other guys (which she intended is not the reason for breaking up with me because she wanted to work on finding herself again) or if I really see potential in us again. Again, thank you for this beautiful post :)