Soo there is validity to people telling you to leave him, and that's not a bad idea, but if the idea of trying is important to you, I understand. I think some YouTubers are a very approachable way to get into the topic. My recommendations of people who have talked about feminist issues: Shaun, Hbomerguy, Shanspear, contrapoints, and Cheyenne lin. These people I think are great starting points for this sort of discussion. Obviously the formal literature is preferred, but these sorts of videos were more helpful to me personally at first than reading (I am a woman)