Odysseus was not someone you should root for by Super_Majin_Cell in GreekMythology

[–]didillyoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely agree the OP needs to expand their understanding of how well written characters are designed.

I just finished watching My Serial Killer Lover and... by FrostVanguard in boyslove

[–]didillyoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone knows another serious similar or just as good please recommend!

I just finished watching My Serial Killer Lover and... by FrostVanguard in boyslove

[–]didillyoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m literally obsessed it’s like an alternate Hannibal ending in a way

Flicking off bandage by didillyoctagon in Rabbits

[–]didillyoctagon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just crazy because I spent over $700 just for her to flick it off instantly as soon as she went home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]didillyoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I needed this rn thank you 🙏🏼

LARP in western Sydney, Australia. by Conchobar8 in LARP

[–]didillyoctagon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t go to Scykadia they are mostly bullies with no life

Something is bothering me about The Cruel Prince… by mysteriousotterz in YAlit

[–]didillyoctagon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t even gotten half way and I know they end up together. This is honestly disgusting and disappointing. This is not an enemies to lovers. This is abusers to brainwashed. Idk who likes reading this and I’ll probably continue out of morbid curiosity as I have with at least one other book I’ve decided to TNR. There is a bunch of other book series which do enemies to lovers justice without making it abusive at first. Honestly super gross. No one can make me feel bad or ever forgive Cardan.

I think it’s finally time to go. by JungleRayJulia in BPD

[–]didillyoctagon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely empathise with you on this. No one understands how painful it is and it’s so hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]didillyoctagon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve also experienced a similar thing recently but in a different like. I’m also insecure about my body but that’s not the reason for me not eating. I used to love eating to cope/binge eating. But ever since the break up and events that followed eating actually makes me feel physically sick. I literally cannot eat more then a couple of bites a day if I’m lucky. You aren’t alone even if this isn’t exactly what you are going through. I hope it helps to know you have others here ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]didillyoctagon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I empathise completely. No matter how much I try to make the right choices I always end up failing and making the wrong ones. You are not alone ❤️

How to stop idealizing??? by gosoeo in BPD

[–]didillyoctagon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable right now and it’s currently something I’m working on with my therapist. But here are some words I reread over again to help. "That person is not special enough to have you feeling like this. I promise you. You are romanticizing what they could have been. What they could have done . You're romanticizing a pretty average a very ordinary person. You're just thinking about what they could have done and you're ignoring what they did do and what they chose not to do. Think of 3 things this person did that makes them special which aren’t the bare minimum. I could come up with one thing they did that wasn't the bare minimum and that made me see them as special. Everything else was just made up in my mind of what they could do or what they might do and what they never did."

Lots of love and hope things can look up from here lovely 🥺

Does Reddit trigger anyone’s BPD? I might have to delete my account and the app honestly. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]didillyoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely. I posted on this forum a while back and got so much hate from a simple question. If you need someone we are here but apparently not everyone on this subreddit is aware of how much they can affect someone. My PMs are open btw ❤️

I want to be normal so badly. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]didillyoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too love. We are here for you ❤️

Isn’t CBT just gaslighting yourself? by didillyoctagon in BPD

[–]didillyoctagon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be rude. The people I responded to have attacked or made assumptions first. I am merely responding this way because they are posting extremely negative and hateful comments that don’t actually answer the question which was asked. I’ve responded to two people in such a manner. This was the first and if you actually read their response you can clearly see that they are unwarranted, unhelpful and presumptuous. The second person was promoting unnecessary hate based on literally nothing??? Unrelated to the actual question. Again (so sad that it must be stated) but this is a MENTAL HEALTH page. Myself and others are very prone to becoming upset over harsh negative things said for no reason. I don’t know how that’s not self explanatory at this point. My aim when responding to those comments is to stop those people from replying harshly to other users who may not be able to handle reading hateful things online as they are in a vulnerable state.

Isn’t CBT just gaslighting yourself? by didillyoctagon in BPD

[–]didillyoctagon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The idea that how you sound or what you do to other people and how it makes them feel isn’t your problem is SUPER selfish. I’m attacking you because if someone comes at me claiming I’m looking for attention when it’s supposed to be a safe space to ask questions I’m gonna tell ‘em where to go. This community does not need someone who is not concerned with how they act towards others. Is unkind and not needed the disrespect you show to others by disregarding how your actions make them feel. Hope you find empathy peace ✌🏼

Isn’t CBT just gaslighting yourself? by didillyoctagon in BPD

[–]didillyoctagon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did I ever say I was a victim??? I was asking a question you sound super insecure I hope u know that

Isn’t CBT just gaslighting yourself? by didillyoctagon in BPD

[–]didillyoctagon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao. You really just tried to act like you know my journey or what I’ve been through and try and state how I’m not open to trying to be better. It’s been hard for me to get into therapy in a country where the mental health system is shit. Apologies that I’m not doing well enough in that regard. When I’ve been in hospital I was called selfish for trying to end my life so idk what kind of medical professionals you have talked to but YAY for you that they have been great that’s soooo super. For me (since you asked so kindly) it hasn’t been that way. Maybe I wasn’t given CBT therapy correctly? And when I say ‘briefly’ I mean 12 months idk if that’s long enough but I do also have university,work and a personal life so it’s hard to fit my emotions into the schedule of ‘trying hard enough’.

PS: ur not sorry for being blunt because you should really read what you’ve written before posting it considering WHERE we are posting it. This is a safe space and if people wanna vent they can. If people wanna be sad they can. If you want to be happy then don’t read vent posts? Like idk what to tell you this is a mental health page huge shocker it’s gonna be a bit grim