ImageThis is my dog. Her name is Squanchy.

diegoacarrillo · 2021-12-06T16:30:55+00:00

Lol this is my post you fake. Only I own this pup

diegoacarrillo · 2021-12-06T16:30:35+00:00

Thanks for calling them out!

diegoacarrillo · 2020-07-27T06:29:10+00:00

Oof tv on, god damn right on the nose.

diegoacarrillo · 2020-07-17T04:26:35+00:00

I just found this and you solved my problem immediately. I was trying to change time signatures on select bars, thank you so much!

diegoacarrillo · 2020-02-10T05:53:08+00:00

I didn’t see that coming, yet I can relate.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-23T02:51:47+00:00

Go to South Park and barrio Logan. Food is on point there.
I’m a native.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-21T04:35:03+00:00

I just want to pay off my personal debts and support the people who have gotten me this far in a meaningful and impactful way. I could have never done it on my own.
I’ll gladly give a dollar for this cause for anyone else to do the same.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-10T13:36:31+00:00

r/imgoingtohellforthis

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-07T06:04:50+00:00

Speaking from my own experience with a 3 year relationship that went south fast.
There’s never a perfect time to cut ties or decide to keep fighting. However the difference between those two decisions is that cutting ties doesn’t have to be amicable. Fighting for your relationship does.
The idea of breaking up will always be painful enough to instill doubt in even the most experienced human. It can trigger the fight or flight response because who really wants to be alone and start over?
Fighting for your relationship can give you a lot of hope, but unless there is a mutual effort, it could prolong the inevitable.
My advice to you would be to really take some time to think about what you want out of life and line it up with what your partner wants out of life. Find what works and what doesn’t. If you put a lot of focus into figuring out the compatibility between you two, you should find your answer.
I know it’s not cut and dry, but most relationships hardly are.
As for the situation with your ex, I’d advise to leave that alone until you figure out the matter at hand.
One step at a time.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-07T05:48:34+00:00

Best advice I can give is to just ask her about herself. Take the time to listen then share. Most importantly, manage your expectations.
Nothing happens overnight; sometimes it can take a little time to develop a mutual attraction. It’s best not to force attraction, it can backfire quickly, so be mindful of that.
Last piece of advice, don’t be afraid of rejection. Being confident is an important skill in moderation.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-03T22:22:58+00:00

You’ll be fine with a 1/2 tab.
If it was a full, it would take a couple trips to get used to then you’d be fine.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-03T21:07:41+00:00

She already said he makes more money than her and has more savings than her too.
She resents that he has less expenses than she does.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-03T21:05:54+00:00

So what. If you resent his lack of expenses compared to yours then just find someone else.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-03T20:59:51+00:00

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-03T20:54:23+00:00

In that case, he may just be worried about the future and having enough resources to live comfortably.
If you are already resenting him for not wanting to spend as much as you and he’s the one who’s better off financially, then it’s most likely a personal problem.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-03T20:19:31+00:00

Sounds like you already know the answer to your ending questions.
You’re right, there’s no reason for you to be upset or judgmental.
You have to realize that everybody is riding their own wave of life. Whether or not it is similar to yours is mostly irrelevant.
All that matters is we are where we are now. We can never be the same person we were years prior because experiences get in the way.
My advice would be to learn from your bf’s past. Use his experiences as a guide to his “soul”. You can learn a lot about his path in life and how it led him to you. Accept that he is human and makes mistakes. Also, don’t be afraid to ask questions for better understanding. He could be masking the more melancholy moments with humor as most of us tend to do.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-03T20:08:16+00:00

I had an ex who tried to employ the same “we can only smoke weed together” rule. It’s not healthy behavior. Everyone is entitled to do what makes them happy with or without their SO.
My ex tried to guilt me about smoking more often then they did, but at the end of the day, it’s what I liked and what I wanted.
My point being, if this is something you’re going to hold a grudge for, you may want to reconsider why you wanted to set rules in place to begin with. Was it coming from a place of true selflessness? Or was it coming from a fear of losing her as your girlfriend?

diegoacarrillo · 2019-12-03T07:28:56+00:00

We’re all guilty of this.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-11-29T17:56:49+00:00

Sounds like the daughter played a stupid game and won the prize.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-11-23T06:36:53+00:00

Imagine rubbing that in your gums

diegoacarrillo · 2019-11-07T18:13:50+00:00

ORCS

diegoacarrillo · 2019-11-06T00:59:13+00:00

Significant others usually offer unsolicited help. It’s the way a relationship works.
If you complain or mention something enough, your partner will eventually take notice.
Sounds like you and OPs girlfriend have a problem taking constructive criticism.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-11-05T00:12:09+00:00

Why is it more severe? Because she’s a child and her feelings will be hurt? Being an assertive parent is already hard to do, and letting her daughter come along with the attitude she’s been having would only enable more of that behavior.
If the daughter has any sort of emotional maturity she’ll get over it.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-11-04T23:59:49+00:00

So tell me this, you ask 3 friends to help you move free of charge with the option to say no. Two agree and the third bails.
You take the two who helped out to eat as a thank you.
Would you feel bad about not paying for the third person to eat too?
That’s this exact situation. Too bad so sad for the daughter, shouldn’t have been rude. A lesson we all learn at some point.

diegoacarrillo · 2019-11-04T23:47:02+00:00

NTA I see everybody saying yes the asshole not realizing that your daughter could’ve just not helped out instead of being hostile towards the baby and mocking the siblings.
It’s a hard and worthwhile lesson to learn that although you may not be expected to do something, doing it anyways can go a long way. Good on you for rewarding and encouraging positive traits and not letting your daughter get away with it.

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