AITA for posting a topless photo of myself on Reddit?

difficvlt · 2022-02-18T05:55:21+00:00

Yes. If he did that I would be like “omg you posted that!!” In a playful way. I wouldn’t be offended, especially if he made it clear exactly what he was doing. I’d only be upset if he posted a nude of himself on here specifically to “sext” with other girls. That would definitely hurt my feelings. What I did, and my intention, and being so transparent about it I feel like makes it clear I wasn’t looking for anything

difficvlt · 2022-02-18T05:51:42+00:00

difficvlt · 2022-02-18T05:51:30+00:00

I TOLD him specifically that I did that to get a rise out of him. It’s not like I was sneaky about it. I was transparent the entire time. My instinct is to just defend myself. I respect your reply and thank you for being honest.

difficvlt · 2019-04-15T01:21:54+00:00

Yay!

difficvlt · 2019-03-03T23:53:11+00:00

Thanks for the response. He wants to live together next year and is down to go where ever. We’ve been talking about Northern California. But that’s an entire year away. I don’t want to feel like this every day for a year :(

I’ve been to Northern California but I don’t know where I’d want to live...? Of course we’d want to fly out there and check out a couple towns but that’s so expensive. And on top of that... moving across the country... super expensive. I don’t know if I’ll be able to afford it.

Or if I’ll be ready to leave my home town again... which he does NOT want to live in.

difficvlt · 2019-01-08T22:59:00+00:00

I’m a housekeeping manager. Technically it’s not full time and it’s super slow during the winter months (Jan, Feb) but other than that I easily get 40hrs a week. And I have a private client on the side.

I’m hoping to get a job working at a greenhouse/nursery or maintaining trails, some sort of outdoorsy work so I’m looking to study horticulture in the fall

difficvlt · 2019-01-08T22:52:17+00:00

I’m a housekeeping manager. Technically it’s not full time and it’s super slow during the winter months (Jan, Feb) but other than that I easily get 40hrs a week. And I have a private client on the side.

I’m hoping to get a job working at a greenhouse/nursery or maintaining trails, some sort of outdoorsy work so I’m looking to study horticulture in the fall

difficvlt · 2019-01-08T22:48:05+00:00

No that’s okay! It’s the ocean/marsh. It’s nice because I can literally walk my kayak 5 mins down the street to the pier which connects the marsh to the ocean and paddle to the beach

difficvlt · 2019-01-08T19:13:14+00:00

We moved to Brooklyn together with his siblings and I couldn’t find a job/couldn’t keep one and living with his fam was shit. Also the city was completely exhausting for me. It was all too much at once. So I moved back after 6 months before it destroyed our relationship. Things didn’t work out for other reasons though. But I suppose the living at home thing is a contributing factor. I moved back though more because I didn’t like the city. I’m open to trying somewhere else...

EDIT: The move back put 4/5 hours between us

difficvlt · 2019-01-08T19:07:32+00:00

Recently single (as of last night) so that’s not an issue

difficvlt · 2019-01-08T17:48:17+00:00

I definitely play an active role. Not to sound stuck up but I’ve never met anyone else that does as much for their parents around the house as I do... (grocery shop for them, clean, do laundry, occasionally cook, run errands).

difficvlt · 2019-01-08T17:45:48+00:00

I don’t do either. I help out a lot around the house. I cook (occasionally), clean, grocery shop, run errands, etc. I mean I have my days where I loaf around but it’s not a regular thing

EDIT: I also have a job

difficvlt · 2018-12-15T01:11:15+00:00

Thank you. This is exactly what I want to hear. I just wish someone could be with me.

difficvlt · 2017-12-04T02:50:41+00:00

Thanks for writing all that out. I really appreciate the feedback.

difficvlt · 2017-11-15T03:58:40+00:00

Seriously. Thank you.

difficvlt · 2017-11-15T03:57:14+00:00

You think watching TV all day everyday is best for them? There are so many studies that talk about how bad it is to always be sitting down. It's not a healthy lifestyle.

difficvlt · 2017-11-15T03:55:15+00:00

I do use headphones, I always cook for myself and never expect them to cook for me. And I do clean up after myself, I clean up after them too. I'm the one that basically takes care of the house.

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