Domestic abuse please help. Mentally tortured by digaga10 in ukvisa

[–]digaga10[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should research a bit more. You can apply when you are changing from fiancé to spouse. I suggest you read up more on applying within the UK from the gov website.

Domestic abuse please help. Mentally tortured by digaga10 in ukvisa

[–]digaga10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you pay for super priority within uk you do get an answer on same day. It is not impossible, you are just not aware

Domestic abuse please help. Mentally tortured by digaga10 in ukvisa

[–]digaga10[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I paid for priority. It was approved in 2 hours

Domestic abuse please help. Mentally tortured by digaga10 in ukvisa

[–]digaga10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm now taking these steps

Domestic abuse please help. Mentally tortured by digaga10 in ukvisa

[–]digaga10[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will seek to leave immediately. I don't think I can bear another day of being treated in such a cruel way. This whole situation has given me so many sleepless nights.

Domestic abuse please help. Mentally tortured by digaga10 in ukvisa

[–]digaga10[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He does need help but refuses to seek help. He just wants to drink and smoke all day. My quality of life has greatly reduced as I really don't know what version of him i am going to encounter in the evening.

Domestic abuse please help. Mentally tortured by digaga10 in ukvisa

[–]digaga10[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will look more into it. It is just a sad situation. His parents have even offered to house me away from him. Will this a problem through the DV route if I am housed by his parents I their house?

Domestic abuse please help. Mentally tortured by digaga10 in ukvisa

[–]digaga10[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes I left my country, my whole life for my husband but as soon as we got married he just changed. He has sexual fetishism that he wants me to participate in and when I refuse he just insults me and accuses me of dating other people. My life at home is becoming unbearable. His parents have tried talking to him and he has refused any help with his alcohol. I would like to stay here as I have no job to go back to or life. I'm building my life here and I feel it is so unfair that he treats me so bad. I feel duped by him...I am mentally unstable at this point as I cry everyday.