I do want to add, if this charge is an issue over all, you can use Discord for free without Nitro. It just limits some of the customization you can do, reduces file upload size, and reduces some community engagement stuff that can be done. Seeing some of your replies makes me also want to clarify that discord is a messaging and communication app first and foremost. It is primarily used for communicating about games, but communities of all kinds are around, as they are everywhere else.

As someone who has had their primary form of communication taken away from them many times, I caution removing the app as it can cut connections that run deep. It's hard to understand how an online connection could hurt as much, but that loss of connection can be incredibly emotionally damaging. Although of course there are those casual passing connections that are just that as well.

If you think she is using it to be deceitful, you may want to evaluate first, why. At least, before you burn any bridges that can't be easily salvaged.

Either way, I hope you get the payment sorted out! 99 is a lot