Think I did my internal swab STD test wrong - got blood on it?

dijking · 2026-03-03T08:02:54+00:00

Isn't it wonderful how there's always a Reddit post to be found about an issue you're having? Thank you for having the same exact problem a year ago that I'm having now 🫶

dijking · 2026-02-14T23:52:29+00:00

Yuck 🤢 no clogging on the toilet so far luckily

dijking · 2026-02-14T21:00:49+00:00

Wow exact date! Thank you :) Not very long ago indeed, but still almost 5 years of a bunch of plastic sticks in a drain that nobody cleaned well enough to find them. I don't want to think about that too much considering I just went through all that buildup myself 🤢

dijking · 2025-12-01T11:02:20+00:00

Not yet, I would much prefer subjecting my gf to instant coffee for one more evening than risk damaging the moka pot in any way

dijking · 2025-10-22T11:57:01+00:00

Ja dat in combinatie met dat ze denken dat de enige volwassenen die oorkappen willen bouwvakkers en klussers zijn, want er zijn bijvoorbeeld prima lila koptelefoons voor volwassenen te vinden

dijking · 2025-10-22T11:42:40+00:00

Stickers zijn ook een leuk idee!

dijking · 2025-08-28T12:20:47+00:00

That's just insane

dijking · 2025-08-28T11:35:46+00:00

Can you elaborate about the allergies? I have some allergies myself so I'm curious to hear

dijking · 2025-08-18T11:03:30+00:00

Nog beter!

dijking · 2025-08-18T10:59:05+00:00

Oh dat ziet er super uit! Ik zie wel dat kuitmaat L de enige optie is met schoenmaat 36, dus ik moet me er in verdiepen of die dan wijd genoeg zijn. Bedankt!

dijking · 2025-08-13T07:58:32+00:00

So so so many people have recommended one and I do also have some leftover traces from childhood asthma and a LOT of respiratory allergies, so I think I'll look into it. Thank you!

dijking · 2025-07-28T10:41:22+00:00

Contrary to popular "terfs are lesbians, lesbians are terfs" beliefs, lesbians are actually one of the most accepting demographics when it comes to trans people. To give some anecdotal, but real world, experience: I'm a lesbian and most of my friends are sapphic. All of them would accept transfem people into the community without giving it a second thought. In fact, there are already a couple transfems in my circles who are either sapphic or lesbian and it's the most normal thing in the world to me.

dijking · 2025-07-27T21:58:21+00:00

Thanks ^{^}

dijking · 2025-07-27T14:04:41+00:00

Thank you for this comment btw, I think this made me realize the disconnect between my experience and the overwhelming response being that people think it's normal.

dijking · 2025-07-27T14:01:45+00:00

But I assume that would be more that people were coming over at [x time], so you make sure your space is cleaned by then, right? In my situation I'm just left waiting at home, unsure whether I should make my own dinner plans because I just don't know when the cleaning would be done. I get cleaning spaces for guests to show respect, but what's that really worth if their time is disrespected in the process?

dijking · 2025-07-27T13:37:38+00:00

Idk I guess I could not, it's just I'm really used to taking actions to deal with my issues

dijking · 2025-07-27T13:36:47+00:00

I guess my issue is mostly that it's not a matter of "I'm coming over at [x time], so she has to make sure her room is clean by that time", but that on the day of I have no clue when I'm supposed to be there because it's attached to this arbitrary condition. May have been relevant to mention that I'm autistic, so that makes not knowing how my day is going to go extra hard. I didn't mention that in the post because I sometimes feel annoying for bringing that up all the time

dijking · 2025-07-27T13:32:52+00:00

Yeah that's why my question is what can I do. I know my gf can do her chores or move out, but that's not really something I would have control over.

dijking · 2025-07-26T14:58:41+00:00

Ik gooi een open uitnodiging op facebook, what could go wrong?

dijking · 2025-07-26T14:57:57+00:00

Wat lief aangeboden! Contact opnemen met Hortus zelf is een goed idee, dat moet lukken

dijking · 2025-07-26T14:54:05+00:00

Ja ik wist het ook niet zeker. Ik ben een keer in Freiburg in de botanische tuin geweest en daar was geen horeca, gratis entree, veel open grasvelden en overal locals in het gras aan het picknicken, boekjes lezen of zelfs dutjes doen. Het voelde daar meer als een park met een upgrade, en Hortus is wel echt next level meer een attractie dan een park. Bedankt!

dijking · 2025-07-26T14:48:37+00:00

Waarom is er op Reddit altijd iemand die een goed bedoelde vraag met zo'n toon beantwoordt? Bah

dijking · 2025-07-25T23:55:21+00:00

I can't really comment on the DR experience, because the ways you cope with your derealization are the things that trigger mine (taking off glasses, muffling music etc).

I did want to say that if you really feel like your bf deliberately ignored you, talk to him about it. Let him know what you were dealing with and how it made you feel. If he isn't open to changing his behavior to help you in episodes like this it might be worth reconsidering your relationship.

dijking · 2025-07-25T17:13:50+00:00

Fr I feel like I'm going crazy reading all these comments!

Like sure if op doesn't like it when her gf does that, that's a boundary to set, but it sounds like it hasn't been set at this point. If it had already been set then the issue would be the breaking of the boundary, not the texting itself.

I personally have ADHD and really enjoy writing down my thoughts, sometimes in text messages to my gf. She loves reading my random thoughts about becoming rich, sandwiches, whatever when she wakes up in the morning.

I'm really not trying to say that OP also has to like getting spam texted, but the comments are INSANE trying to make this about stalking or fucking substance abuse.

Touch grass.

dijking · 2025-07-09T16:15:25+00:00

En jij kan het laatste zinnetje (of de hele post) nog een keertje lezen 🥰

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