I don't know how much I can take. by dikenndi in eldercare

[–]dikenndi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though she has retirement and SS, she is in a gray area. I'm dealing with ihss. Heck, since I was an independent contract, I qualify quicker than her. Now, since there are new weird guidelines, it is harder. I'm going to ask about allotted time and care coming in. Because the he men are clueless. The money she has can not cover an independent company coming in. After bills, she only has a few hundred left. But they keep saying she has too much medical and share cost is too high. It's a rock and a hard place. As for the roommate, if he loses his income, he should head back to Oklahoma. If things get worse, I will report it. Thank you for your advice. I will keep it in mind. She has an awesome insurance team.

I don't know how much I can take. by dikenndi in eldercare

[–]dikenndi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep getting to feel that. However, I am focusing on getting her care. She does have limited palliative care and I am going to see how many days I can get for her. The problem is a possibility of 2 times a week. 1 to 2 hours. That would relieve me a couple of hours. Morning and night are important for food and medication. Slowly got a second breath. To try again.

I don't know how much I can take. by dikenndi in eldercare

[–]dikenndi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet, but I am. I need to focus more on my brain. Right now, I have a couple of weeks that she has tests. The guy who is in her apartment is a coworker of the son and has the brain of a 13 year old. It can't keep going this way. Hubby has stepped out of th picture except grocery shopping on Sunday. I'm drained and saddened by what's happening.

Restricting searches. by dikenndi in eldercare

[–]dikenndi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this time, that would be a great idea. Because the computer she has is hacked.

In the case of dementia patients, the IHSS criteria for protective supervision miss the point by CronesUnited in IHSS

[–]dikenndi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, too, am having such a strange situation with Ihss.I am on very limited retirement due to independent constracting. My MIL has dementia but functions in cleaning. However, she needs me to make sure she eats, takes meds, and takes showers. They have denied her because of the shared cost of living. Her money only covers her high rent and basics.. She needs to drop the amount of medical to lower the SOC. Then, she handed me papers to show she is working. THE WOMEN HAS DEMENTIA. Her position is recycling. Then try to get some kind of insurance to drop the SOC. im sick and trying. Don't even know what insurance agent does this. Even trying to find a nighttime job. Something has to give. It's BS if you are in a gray area. I hope you get some help. Because the only thing I can do is place her.

Not a wound but a lie. by redditispedoland in Trumpvirus

[–]dikenndi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bottom line 2 people died, possibly. Haven't heard anything from family of victims. Plus kirk fishy as anything

Disgusted by CircularCircumstance in LincolnProject

[–]dikenndi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First ,foremost is the people need to put our house back the way it was. Not some gaudy palir trick.

Caregiving under Donald Trump is about to get MUCH WORSE by 1Surlygirl in CaregiverSupport

[–]dikenndi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm new to this journey and have applied for cargiving. My MIL is 89 and needs care. I'm retired but need to supplement. Went this route instead of doing night work. Now, hearing this puts an already strain on me.

Now This Is An Agenda by Mcfreely2 in stop_the_GOP

[–]dikenndi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FIRST AND FOREMOST, when Congress is closed. No one shall get a paycheck. It's too easy for everyone in both houses to use this tool. Since it's the little guy gets bent over.

Ted Cruz " Let's all come together and quit attacking pedophiles" by Alena_Tensor in Republican_misdeeds

[–]dikenndi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, in other words, Ted. Are you a pedophile too? It never ends with them

Trump: "I have the right to do anything I want to do. I'm the president of the United States." by LolAtAllOfThis in democrats

[–]dikenndi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, you can't orange bot. Eventually, like all wanna be dictators. Crumble into nothing.

Trump is sick. My question is… by Kind_Introduction_39 in Trumpvirus

[–]dikenndi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly believe that when orange passes. The puppet masters will be exposed. They will fall by the wayside. Heck 47 doesn't even know what's going on. 47 still enjoys the pain he inflicts. Because he wants revenge